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I don't really have a question, just wanted to put this out there for people that have not hit the intern year yet.
Hubby and I have a very solid relationship with lots of love and affection. We also have a little girl (3).
Med school was much easier then we thought.....plenty of time for family and connecting and having fun.
However, intern year has been hard. The schedule hubby does, does not leave as much of him to share with me or with us as a family. Its not that we aren't close, but there has not been any growth in our relationship and being an intern creates a bit of a divide in a way. I simply cannot really share the experiences he is having. We talk about them, but I do not get to have the intensity of them.
We spend as much time together as possible, but intern year is mentally and physically taxing. I couldn't imagine having a new baby this year and would probably recommend that others don't plan on it if they can help it.
It can be done though.....having a good relationship and/or family while being an intern. It just has special problems that will get better as they progress in residency.
So, I am just happy that it is almost over and ready to getting our communication back to normal.
with smiles,
rebecca
Hubby and I have a very solid relationship with lots of love and affection. We also have a little girl (3).
Med school was much easier then we thought.....plenty of time for family and connecting and having fun.
However, intern year has been hard. The schedule hubby does, does not leave as much of him to share with me or with us as a family. Its not that we aren't close, but there has not been any growth in our relationship and being an intern creates a bit of a divide in a way. I simply cannot really share the experiences he is having. We talk about them, but I do not get to have the intensity of them.
We spend as much time together as possible, but intern year is mentally and physically taxing. I couldn't imagine having a new baby this year and would probably recommend that others don't plan on it if they can help it.
It can be done though.....having a good relationship and/or family while being an intern. It just has special problems that will get better as they progress in residency.
So, I am just happy that it is almost over and ready to getting our communication back to normal.
with smiles,
rebecca