Why do I care?
Because I don't like to see people ruin their lives. And as I said, these people have talents; they should find a career that utilizes those talents rather than waste time and money on something they aren't suited to. For example, when I was young, I wanted to be a singer. Trouble is, I'm completely tone deaf. Practicing did not change that, nor will it ever. A kind music teacher gave me the advice that I'm giving these pre-pharms now: "You have other gifts. It's time to dream a different dream." Yes, it sucked to hear that at the time, but now I'm genuinely
thankful to her. If I hadn't given up on something I had no talent for, I might never have found something that I do have a talent for.
I'm not trying to look down on anybody or pick on them. I know it's cheesy, but we all have unique abilities and talents, and understanding what your talents are
not is just as important as understanding what they
are.
I'm glad things worked out well for your friend. I hope you understand that not everybody is as fortunate. We see posts here every day from people who skated into pharmacy school and are now on the verge of being dismissed due to poor grades or who failed the NAPLEX multiple times and can't get licensed. Now these people cannot make a pharmacist's salary and will
never be able to pay their loans off. These large outstanding debts will have a huge negative impact on their future financial stability and their ability to buy a house or start a business or go back to school for a degree that better suits them. I don't want anybody to go through that.
Furthermore, pharmacy is a profession where mistakes kill. Come in with a knowledge deficit, you could kill somebody. I don't want that to happen to a patient, and I don't want anyone to have that on their conscience for the rest of their life.
Being kind doesn't just mean complimenting people and cheering them on. Sometimes being kind means helping people face a difficult truth.
PS - the reason I don't go to the MD/dental forums is that since I'm not an MD or a dentist, I don't know what's required in those careers. I do know what's required in pharmacy. Also, if I went to those forums, I'd have to hang out with doctors and dentists. No thanks.