My SO has been going to interviews in other cities and it just dawned on me that I was not invited to tag along on any of the trips. This really wouldn't be a big deal if we hadn't sat down and discussed the best options for where we, together, would be moving. I would never want to impede on needed sanity time, especially pre-interview and wouldn't expect to attend pre-interview dinners, but found it troubling that I wasn't openly invited, well... anywhere. I haven't been to most of the cities and would have loved to check out maybe one or two!
I don't want to bring it up just yet in case I am being unreasonable. But considering we're pressed for time to see each other anyhow, I would have liked to attend some of the trips that were extended a few days for leisure. What is the norm for this sort of thing?
I don't want to bring it up just yet in case I am being unreasonable. But considering we're pressed for time to see each other anyhow, I would have liked to attend some of the trips that were extended a few days for leisure. What is the norm for this sort of thing?