I’m an accepted incoming DO student to a well-known and established school in Philly. The practice where I just started work has both DO ( some physicians who have graduated from the school I will attend) and MD physicians who all serve as faculty for residents associated with a residency program at my DO school.
One of the doctors ( an MD) who knows my resume/ stats when he hired me seems to discourage me from going to this school because apparently “with my stats I can do better” and DO students are “second grade” and have to scramble to find their rotations+ some stuff about how the residencies have merged. I know all these things aren’t true as my partner attends a DO school and I literally watch osteopathic physicians at our practice. By the way, everyone at work now knows I was applying to schools this year, so when doctors ask me casually how it’s going with the process, I share. I've only shared with this doctor when directly asked to me and at my job interview. It just doesn’t make sense why someone would be so discouraging and judgmental about a personal choice, is it because I didn’t advertise this specific school as my top choice from day 1 (never announced any school btw, always kept it vague and said whoever accepts me lol).
When I interviewed with him, I hadn't gotten in anywhere yet so he knew I was a prospective medical student who might apply again next cycle if things didn't work out. Obvs. I was being honest about how long id be able to commit to a position at the practice with the information I knew at the time.
BTW today he asked me "make any decisions about the school" and I said yeah I'll be starting soon ig, and he voluntarily tells me that its not a good decision. I feel intimidated by him and just find it hard to be confident in my responses because I know where his opinions lie. I just don't want to jeopardize any relationships at my job. Fun fact his son also just got into a md school and loves to share that. He seems to be suggesting I take another gap year to apply again? I don’t know if something got lost in translation just because I applied to some MD schools, but it’s really hard for me to tell him “ this is my decision and I’m pretty happy with it”. Maybe I should be more confrontational. I kinda just respond to all his stuff with yeah that’s a lot to think about or just say yeah I'm not really thinking about applying again.
One of the doctors ( an MD) who knows my resume/ stats when he hired me seems to discourage me from going to this school because apparently “with my stats I can do better” and DO students are “second grade” and have to scramble to find their rotations+ some stuff about how the residencies have merged. I know all these things aren’t true as my partner attends a DO school and I literally watch osteopathic physicians at our practice. By the way, everyone at work now knows I was applying to schools this year, so when doctors ask me casually how it’s going with the process, I share. I've only shared with this doctor when directly asked to me and at my job interview. It just doesn’t make sense why someone would be so discouraging and judgmental about a personal choice, is it because I didn’t advertise this specific school as my top choice from day 1 (never announced any school btw, always kept it vague and said whoever accepts me lol).
When I interviewed with him, I hadn't gotten in anywhere yet so he knew I was a prospective medical student who might apply again next cycle if things didn't work out. Obvs. I was being honest about how long id be able to commit to a position at the practice with the information I knew at the time.
BTW today he asked me "make any decisions about the school" and I said yeah I'll be starting soon ig, and he voluntarily tells me that its not a good decision. I feel intimidated by him and just find it hard to be confident in my responses because I know where his opinions lie. I just don't want to jeopardize any relationships at my job. Fun fact his son also just got into a md school and loves to share that. He seems to be suggesting I take another gap year to apply again? I don’t know if something got lost in translation just because I applied to some MD schools, but it’s really hard for me to tell him “ this is my decision and I’m pretty happy with it”. Maybe I should be more confrontational. I kinda just respond to all his stuff with yeah that’s a lot to think about or just say yeah I'm not really thinking about applying again.
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