To stay or to go.
on the go to massey side, it's pretty here. It's never *that* cold. The farm animal stuff is really neat, and the set up ain't half bad, Heck, they're accredited, I think that's all you really need to hear about that.
You need to think about what's important to you.
My mother's getting married in september. If I was still going to be here, I couldn't go to the wedding. There's no way to get from palmerston north to SC and back, with time for a wedding, between end of class friday and start of classes again on monday.
So, things you have to be willing to give up to come over here-
You close to your family?
Do you like to visit them?
Do you like to call your parents during the day when you're down? Just to talk?
Do you like for them to visit you?
Do you have friends you've known forever? Do you see them often? Do you think seeing them regularly is important in your friendship?
Do you like spending 12 or 14 hours on a single plane? Normally one without good leg room or in seat entertainment, because decent coach will be out of your budget?
You *might* make it home every other year. For a week or two, or if you have people who'll let you crash their home for longer, you can do that. Starting your first summer, thru to the start of fourth year you're supposed to be getting practical experience on farms and whatnot. Sure, you can do that at home. But you need to do at least half here. So there goes most of your fun time. Thanksgiving? probably out- it's either in the middle of finals, or the week your tenancy is up, and you'll be moving. X-mas? tickets are insane.
Have you moved before? on your own? Another town in the same state doesn't count. If it's close enough to run home if something goes wrong, over the weekend, it's too close. Cross country? Can you deal with knowing that if something happens to your family, like an accident, or a wedding, or a birth, you probably won't get to go?
Do you like comforts? How about central heating? I've yet to see a student flat with central heat, and don't imagine that your loan will stretch to cover a better place. Electricity is running about 23 cents kW/h. The bill here was 192 last month- no heat, no AC, just a couple lights and a water heater.
How are you with debt? You can maybe pick up summer work at about 10/h. It might earn you enough to pay your rent for most of a year. It might not.
The NZ dollar is going up, the US dollar is dropping. What I figured 2 years ago as costing about 35000 a year all in is running closer to 42k this year. Yes, really. Add an extra half a year. And if you're thinking about an internship, you have to fill the months between when you finish in november and when they start in june/ july. If the school in the US will cost you less than about 190k, I'd seriously consider it.
You have a thing for mac and cheese? peanut butter? mexican food? Even if you only eat normal american junk food once a year, you'll crave it here. I don't know why- probably because you can't find it. You can ship it of course, but it's really expensive.
How about drinking? Everyone here does it. Cheap wine can be had, but that bottle of jack that cost me $15 at home is running over 50 here. even with the exchange rate, that's a bit high.
Can you deal with sharing classes with people who are away from home for the first time? Can you deal with their less than dedicated attitude to what you're learning? Do you like hearing all about who "rooted" who (or what) over the weekend while you were studying?
Will you make friends with the locals, or stick with the other yanks? There's a club just for international students, but most of the american students I see wandering campus are wandering with other people from home. Not that that's really bad- Chinese and Japanese kids here do it too. But if you're going to come all the way around the world to hang out with people from home, you're just going to be more homesick. You'll all sit around and talk about what you miss. And then you'll either be miserable, or live for your short trips back. Or drop out.
Wow, I'm all debbie downer, huh? I'm actually a leap before looking-er. If you can hack it here, you'll be fine. If you don't want city stuff, or fun stuff, or visits too/ from your family, familiar foods, convenience foods, easy travel, up to the minute tv or decent internet service, you'll be fine here. The people are friendly, the veggies (in season) are usually fresh. The school is nice. If you can get out of the straight vet stuff, there's some really interesting stuff taught here- much more career based instruction than what you'll find in the states- not so much training for academia, more real world focus. Heck, they taught aseptic technique in a first semester first year class. And let us play with who knows what.
But ya gotta look at the real life stuff too. Like how much you'll have to earn right out of school to support your debt from massey, vs how much you'd need if you go somewhere else.
If you're independently wealthy, or you think this is your only chance, or you've lived overseas before and you know you love it, then go for it, no second thoughts. Otherwise, this is the stuff you gotta consider. I can't make the choice for you. Heck, I can't even make choices for myself.
Good luck.
j.