Why is the female gender so desperate for everyones approval???
They aren't. Its difficult being a woman in today's society. Just like its a new world for men, its a new world for women. While traditional male gender roles are becoming challenged, the same is said about women. Society tells women to be educated, confident and independent but at the same time shows them scantily clad on every billboard, magazine cover, tv show or any form of advertisement or media.
Women are expected to be both sophisticated but also sexy. Its a tough balance. Just like a man wants to feel big and strong, women want to look cute and sexy. Its not attention seeking, rather its natural gender based behavior that remained over the course of evolution. Women can appear complex because it can be very difficult for them to say what they are actually thinking as they don't want to be perceived as ugly or conceited.
This young woman is rather brave; she's clearly educated but at the same time she feels comfortable expressing her sexuality in a controlled environment. She's not out stripping, sleeping with random strangers (or at-least we have no proof). If a model post nude pics all over her website, they are called artistic but if a girl in her bedroom post pics online hoping that others will appreciate her body because she needs that validation, she is suddenly promiscuous or slutty. It's interesting how posting nude pictures has nothing to do with being promiscuous. I have very serious feelings on this subject because I believe society is responsible for situations where things like false rape claims are made because the woman is so scared of the way society will view her for having sex with some random guy. Think about it very carefully, a woman would rather risk committing perjury, sending someone innocent to jail and destroying her own happiness all for the sake of protecting her image and its not her fault, its society that sends women mixed messages.
On one hand "Hey women are all equal" on the other hand "Don't breast feed in public because its disgusting", on one hand "Kick down that glass ceiling" on the other hand "Wearing a skirt in the board room is still preferred as it goes in line with traditional perceptions". Women can't please everyone but very often they crumble under this pressure. The happiest women are those that live their lives the way they choose to live them and learn to ignore the pressure from those around them. I'm no feminist, I don't go on a ton of dates and its been almost a year since I last hooked up with a girl however I don't measure my ability to understand women by the number of women that I sleep with; rather I measure it by my ability to communicate and actually listen to what they are saying and seeing how incredibly normal their insecurities are.
The only people I consider trash (really just arrogant and or misinformed) are those that belittle others as they elevate themselves. As a Doctor, you evaluate your patients, you don't judge them. Evaluating someones sexual activities and then providing feedback on ways in which they can utilize safer sex practices is correct. I remember when I hooked up a few years ago with a girl that had me freaked, I thought maybe I could have caught HIV (silly as I used protection); it was funny how my Doctor explained to me that you don't just get HIV, he focused only on using safer sex practices but didn't judge me (he also didn't pressure me to get an HIV test even though I ultimately decided to do so). He provided feedback but also reassurance.
Doctors are members of the community in which they serve, they are humans too and are no different than the patients they serve. Historically medicine was not a wonderful profession, it was one that only the most compassionate human beings undertook. Doctors were not highly compensated, spent years studying and worked with people that no one in the community would dare approach. Its only because of the Physician craze in America why cost for Physicians has skyrocketed so much. Doctors must now be highly compensated to pay back crazy student loan debt and after 15+ years of college and post doctoral training, people fail to think about the money that Doctor's did not make all those years prior. It can actually be almost 20 years of education and training before a Doctor see's a decent salary in many medical specialties.
I always enjoy observing Attending's and noticing how much more laid back and less egocentric they are (well except for when they are instructing interns lol). Getting back on track though, as I've explained, Doctors should not be judging anyone and women are not attention seekers. Everyone is different, I just think a lot of guys don't get women because they are afraid to see more than whats on the surface. We (guys) spend so much time trying to sleep with them that we often only think about what we can get from her (sex) but not who she is. Just my two cents.
I just want to point out that OP removed his title as Medical Student and has become near silent. If any other personal info was on his profile earlier, it has been removed. While it is possible as the attending pointed out that Nina could be entirely fake, I would bet there is be a higher probability that OP is a high school student that bit off more than he could chew, got scared and ran away. I really love his parting words "Anyway bro I think you'll be a good doctor". It sounds more like a High school student or college freshman to me than someone who has completed post undergraduate education.