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Hi, folks! So, I'm just curious what you all think about this situation.
I'm a MS-II. Last year, I ignored good sense and fell into a relationship with a classmate which ultimately ended with a quiet but unpleasant breakup. I've been single for a while and want to meet people outside of my tiny class. For fun, I made an account on a dating site. And ... I found a match who seems really awesome! (on paper). It seems like we have a ton in common, similar interests/values/love of dogs/etc. Unfortunately, it turns out he's a radiology resident at my hospital.
Anyway, here's my question: With third year just around the corner, do you think that messaging or meeting this guy is a bad idea? I hate the idea of him laughing about 'that crazy med school chick' with colleagues and I definitely don't want to risk my future career. My non-medical school friends think I'm being ridiculous and over thinking things, but I think they don't really understand the resident-student dynamic in the hospital.
I'm not bringing up the issue because I'm super obsessed with this particular guy; I know there are other fish in the sea. But I am curious what other people's thoughts are in general about dating/meeting residents outside of the hospital. Thoughts?
I'm a MS-II. Last year, I ignored good sense and fell into a relationship with a classmate which ultimately ended with a quiet but unpleasant breakup. I've been single for a while and want to meet people outside of my tiny class. For fun, I made an account on a dating site. And ... I found a match who seems really awesome! (on paper). It seems like we have a ton in common, similar interests/values/love of dogs/etc. Unfortunately, it turns out he's a radiology resident at my hospital.
Anyway, here's my question: With third year just around the corner, do you think that messaging or meeting this guy is a bad idea? I hate the idea of him laughing about 'that crazy med school chick' with colleagues and I definitely don't want to risk my future career. My non-medical school friends think I'm being ridiculous and over thinking things, but I think they don't really understand the resident-student dynamic in the hospital.
I'm not bringing up the issue because I'm super obsessed with this particular guy; I know there are other fish in the sea. But I am curious what other people's thoughts are in general about dating/meeting residents outside of the hospital. Thoughts?