Originally posted by green plastic
Well she says she is gonna go speak to the general manager of the store sometime in the next couple days and explain that it was just a sudden impulse/lapse of judgement and request if they can withdraw her case from the court. Is this even possible for them to do? She says she's gonna tell them about her record of service and academics and how that truly doesn't reflect her character (she has no past legal record)....this girl even has newspaper articles that were published about her service to underserved communities. She's also gonna offer to pay for any damages they may have incurred as a result of her actions.
For god's sake, tell her to get a lawyer. She is MUCH more likely to get the charges dropped if she gets a lawyer to represent her. Lawyers know the personalities of the judges and DAs in your area and will be able to work accordingly with them. They will also be able to tell her what her chances are of getting the charges dropped, keeping the offense off of her record via community service, etc. Find a reputable lawyer who has many years of experience working in your area!!
I doubt a store manager will have any sympathy with her as they probably have a policy to prosecute all shoplifters. Plus, as someone else mentioned, if they have filed charges they may not be able to "un-file" them.
I'd like to reply to someone saying my previous advice sounded dishonest. I don't think it is dishonest in the slightest so allow me to explain. (We are not talking "WWJD" here with getting into medical school.) Lets say you have a really awsome job (fun + $$$,$$$). Would you tell your boss if you got into trouble with the law? I know many of you would never break the law, but lets say, hypothetically, that your parents are murdered, your sig other dumps you, and you fail a chemistry test. It doesn't really matter what happens, but for some reason you go out to a bar to drown your sorrows and drive home trashed because you are not acting like yourself. (I think most of us would agree that there is no ethically sound excuse for driving home trashed) You get pulled over and get a DUI.
Now, lets say your boss is a bit of a hardass and probably wont sympathize with your sorrows. He has tons of responsability to get **** done at the company, and manages a couple hundred extremely talented employees. Many other people in the job market would kill for your job. The bottom line is that you are not sure whether he will or will not sympathize with you. The thing to do that is in your best interests is not to openly reveal your DUI using all your problems as an excuse, but to just get over you sorrows, pay your debt to society through the courts, and get on with your life while trying to keep your job. In the long run, who would not feel more satisfied to be able to accomplish thier dreams, rather than choosing to be overly open with your boss and getting fired because there are thousands of other people who didn't screw up, or didn't tell the boss that they screwed up, available to replace you in a competive job position.
Jesus wouldn't have been a doctor. He was a carpenter.