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it can be done.
priorities and discipline.
as in like... whips and stuff?
it can be done.
priorities and discipline.
I had never really met any worthwhile girls until this past year, and we've been happily together ever since. It works out especially well because we're both pretty nerdy in our own respects (i.e., she wants to pursue dentistry and is a NASA fangirl ), so we both get along really well and understand each other's need to study and do schoolwork. I can definitely see this relationship lasting for quite a while, and I really hope it does. She's great.
Wow, you didn't meet anyone until you were what, 16? 17? Dang buddy, you've been around the block a few times, haven't you?
I'm sorry, but that comment just makes me laugh.
Finding prom dates can be rough, I remember....lol....
making sure he studied 24/7 for a week before an exam.
Haha, well maybe it's just where I live, but it's pretty normal (and often expected) for people to start getting into relationships as early as 6th-8th grade. Most people were absolutely shocked to hear that I was womanless prior to the current gf. I can see how that would be funny though.
I feel bad for the 21% on here who haven't.
Ok, now you're just making me feel old.
6th grade? Man, I was far more concerned with shopping at Limited Too and painting my nails than I was with boys at that point! How times change...
I feel bad for the 21% on here who haven't.
except, in that 21%, the boys outnumber the girls 2:1... And I don't think 50% of the guys are gay.We just need to start dating the other half of the 21% and the problem will be solved
...not that i've actually ever been on a date, let alone had a gf, but that's cuz my parents would never speak to me again if they ever found out I did. i still plan to date, but it just took me a while to get over the fact that I wouldn't be able to talk to my parents anymore.
How did your parents meet and how old were they when they dated? How old will you have to be to date, or is it an arranged type of thing that will happen? Just curious
This is quite typical actually. Especially if you have block exams.
Haha, maybe I should clarify here. He would turn off his phone and put it in his guitar case under his bed for the entire week. No calls or even a quick e-mail to let me know that he was okay or just to see how I was doing. Who doesn't have 2 minutes just to say hi during the day? That's just unnecessary.
We just need to start dating the other half of the 21% and the problem will be solved
Haha, maybe I should clarify here. He would turn off his phone and put it in his guitar case under his bed for the entire week. No calls or even a quick e-mail to let me know that he was okay or just to see how I was doing. Who doesn't have 2 minutes just to say hi during the day? That's just unnecessary.
For the 40 of you who've apparently never been in a relationship because you haven't found anyone worthy: examine your standards. There's a problem somewhere along the line, and I'm betting the farm that it has little to do with the people you've encountered.
I think the interesting thing to note is that of 205 people surveyed, exactly 0 women say that their boyfriendlessness is related to potential worry about effect on grades.
Wonder what that means.
but theoretically, the 4 votes for being girlfriendless related to potential worry about effect on grades could have been cast by women...think about that...
How many of you have never had a bf/gf because you didn't want to let a relationship interfere with pre-med education?
I just know this guy and I think he is super hot but he has never had a gf and I feel so bad! What a waste of a cute face and hot body. I want him so bad lol if only he knew.
So yah I know a few people with 4.0 GPAs that refrain from having gfs/bfs. Are any of you here one of them?
I don't care how busy you are, you have time to send a "hey I'm alive, love ya babe" text.
I think perhaps you're better off without the guy. Really. Who wants to date somebody that is incapable of juggling more balls than just one: school?
I date the same guy from sophmore year of high school to sophomore year of college. Since then i've been more of a "two people getting drunk and using each other for sex" type girl. Not because I haven't found anyone worthy, I've gone out with great guys. But I'm a pretty terrible girlfriend and, at this point, I'm not really interested in getting better at that. I don't call, I don't want to "work on the relationship" and I don't talk about feelings. I don't think my relationship status has that much of a bearing on my grades, I just feel like it's college and I'm having too much fun to put a guy at the center of my life.
Read this post, then look at his signature.I had never really met any worthwhile girls until this past year, and we've been happily together ever since. It works out especially well because we're both pretty nerdy in our own respects (i.e., she wants to pursue dentistry and is a NASA fangirl ), so we both get along really well and understand each other's need to study and do schoolwork. I can definitely see this relationship lasting for quite a while, and I really hope it does. She's great.
Plus, I hate phones. If I could I would burn them all. I just hate that feeling of being vulnerable to a phone call all the time. I like just having my own uninterrupted time to vegetate. On the other hand, it is nice to be able to contact someone else immediately when I need them. Can't have it both ways now can we. That's why I plan all my stuff before hand with texts.
Since then i've been more of a "two people getting drunk and using each other for sex" type girl. Not because I haven't found anyone worthy, I've gone out with great guys. But I'm a pretty terrible girlfriend and, at this point, I'm not really interested in getting better at that. I don't call, I don't want to "work on the relationship" and I don't talk about feelings. I don't think my relationship status has that much of a bearing on my grades, I just feel like it's college and I'm having too much fun to put a guy at the center of my life.
+1 Relationships made me the same way...but it's rare to find a guy who will actually believe you are having just as much fun as he is in a FB/semi-causal arrangement, and not assume you are doing it because you have low self-esteem. I don't care how hot you are, I'm not sleeping with you if you don't understand this. So you have to
a. find a guy who wants something non-serious
b. who genuinely respects you, and then
c. makes an effort, as you should, to keep things somewhat challenging without being a PITA, because nobody likes something that comes easy.
MUCH harder to find a guy like this, but well worth it
Ha ha, and you want respect and non-serious? Good luck.
Yeah, usually mutually exclusive, hence the conclusion of the post
As it should be.