There is definitely a lot of misinformation in this thread, and a fellow in Transplant Research and an aspiring Transplant Surgeon, I figure I need to correct some things... I'm gonna link some references that may not be acceptable to all. If anyone had interest in reading the article linked and can't find it, PM me...
Myth 1 seen: It's against Christianity
http://journals.lww.com/co-transpla...ng_donor_families__culture,_religion__.3.aspx
Most religious leaders are actually very pro-donation. The most orthodox of christians do consider the body and soul as one, they do not accept the diagnosis of brain death and object to organ donation. However, the principle of altruism, or 'love for other people' is interpreted differently in different groups, and so Roman Catholics are positive about organ donation, orthodox Protestant groups one can donate organs based on voluntary love for other people. Generally the individual believer makes her or his own choice
Myth 2: The way they mutilate your body is horrendous
This requires no link, no source. Having been a part of a dozen procurements myself, and present at least a dozen more, this is the furthest from the truth. I guess it does depend on your definition of mutilate as well. While it is an extensive surgery, the end result is that there can still be an open casket funeral, so that should tell you all you need to know about mutilation. The procedure is significantly less "mutilating" than an autopsy, and significantly less "mutilating" than what you will do as a medical student to anatomy lab cadavers.
Myth 3: Family upset/delay in funeral/etc
http://www.ingentaconnect.com/content/sesc/tas/2012/00000078/00000003/art00036
Arrangements do get delayed slightly. Average donor management time is about 23 +/- 9 hours. But the sharing networks do work closely with families and work closely to satisfy wishes regarding the timing and desire for funeral arrangements. And again, if the case was going to go to the medical examiner (ie, the death was suspicious), the funeral arrangements were going to be delayed anyway.
The sharing networks also have a wide range of councilors and staff that do a great job with families regarding education and support. Most people are very pleased and comforted by their efforts, and it shows with higher rates of donation
Myth 4: After a certain age you can not be a donor anymore
http://journals.lww.com/transplantj...ctogenarian_Livers_Safely_Expands_the.21.aspx
Each organ procurement organization sets their own criteria for whom they will accept to attempt to be a donor, and each transplant center sets their own criteria and weighs each case on its own. That being said, there are typical age cut offs that are organ specific. I really only know the experience of the new jersey sharing network, but anyone over 75 years old is ruled out. Pancreas is ruled out over 45 years old. And when you get above 50-55 or so, rarely will a heart or lungs be accepted. But as my link shows, some 80+ year olds can still donate a liver...
Myth 5: Organ donors won't get as good of care
As Winged Scapula stated, this is patently false. There is not 1 bit of truth to this statement, and if anything the opposite is true because donors whose hearts aren't beating aren't any good to anyone (donation after cardiac death happens only in controlled settings, with withdraw of life support in the operating room. If a patient codes and is not resuscitated, they will not be able to be an organ donor...)