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I applied to med school for the first time last year. Applied to a ton of reach schools so obviously there were rejections. For the schools that didn't send out rejections through email, the letters were sent to the home I grew up in/where my parents live (I'm weird about giving my college address to adcoms if I'm only going to live there for one year). My mom opened two of the letters without telling me and threw them out so that I wouldn't get upset to see I was rejected. I appreciate the thoughtfulness, but I kinda looked like an idiot reaching out to certain schools asking about my application status after I had already been rejected....I told her it's not cool and she respected that and said she won't do it again.
Fast forward to this summer. I've been on the waitlist at one school and classes start next week (I'm aware my chances are slim and I'm obviously applying again). Well my mom thought it would be a lovely idea to call the school and ask when I should be hearing back from them. To my understanding, she didn't use my name and just said something along the lines of "when should my daughter hear back." I know this isn't terrible and I've heard horror stories of parents writing recommendation letters for their kids and stuff...but I'm still pretty annoyed that she would call just to ask a stupid question like that when I told her CoUnTLesS times that I could be accepted off the waitlist up until the week when classes start!! This time she doesn't think she did anything wrong since "she's entitled to call whomever she wants." We haven't talked for a whole day and I can't seem to get her to understand it from my point of view.
Does anyone else have parents who like to get too involved in the med school admissions process? Has anyone successfully convinced their parents that you're a functioning adult who knows the appropriate ways/times to contact a med school when you're on the wait list?
Fast forward to this summer. I've been on the waitlist at one school and classes start next week (I'm aware my chances are slim and I'm obviously applying again). Well my mom thought it would be a lovely idea to call the school and ask when I should be hearing back from them. To my understanding, she didn't use my name and just said something along the lines of "when should my daughter hear back." I know this isn't terrible and I've heard horror stories of parents writing recommendation letters for their kids and stuff...but I'm still pretty annoyed that she would call just to ask a stupid question like that when I told her CoUnTLesS times that I could be accepted off the waitlist up until the week when classes start!! This time she doesn't think she did anything wrong since "she's entitled to call whomever she wants." We haven't talked for a whole day and I can't seem to get her to understand it from my point of view.
Does anyone else have parents who like to get too involved in the med school admissions process? Has anyone successfully convinced their parents that you're a functioning adult who knows the appropriate ways/times to contact a med school when you're on the wait list?
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