MAKE a connection. Schedule time with the DO. Shadow him for a day or two. Ask family members if any of their physicians have been DOs. Most importantly, provide the DO with a CV/academic resume so they ahve something to write about. Talk to him or her about osteopathic medicine and the theory behind it. He or she may say that they have no use for OMM, but most will claim that they use it when they can... It's best to have first-hand knowledge of the osteopathic field, and that is why most DO schools strongly suggest or require a DO LOR. It's an important hoop, because they want to see that you are legitimately interested in what makes osteopathic medicine differnet from allopathic medicine.