pls pls help me............urgently

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hey guys
i am in big trouble........i have just cleared my exams and started applying for advance programme ......i have finished my doctorate studies back in my country china............but the problem is last week i went out with my friends to mall and we started doing shoplifting for fun.............we got out of one store so it thrilled us and we went to another one......where we got caught..........me and my other friend were arrested and they charged us with shoplifting and gave nontraffic summons on our record..........i still have to go to court this weekend but i m very scared now.............can anyone please tell me will it affect my chances for admission in school??????will it affect my career?????????pls ppl help me out...........i m really scared..........
 
cooldudejohn said:
hey guys
i am in big trouble........i have just cleared my exams and started applying for advance programme ......i have finished my doctorate studies back in my country china............but the problem is last week i went out with my friends to mall and we started doing shoplifting for fun.............we got out of one store so it thrilled us and we went to another one......where we got caught..........me and my other friend were arrested and they charged us with shoplifting and gave nontraffic summons on our record..........i still have to go to court this weekend but i m very scared now.............can anyone please tell me will it affect my chances for admission in school??????will it affect my career?????????pls ppl help me out...........i m really scared..........
Uh, you got caught committing a crime, and it sounds like you're getting what's coming to you. Of course it'll affect your chances of getting admitted.
 
cooldudejohn said:
hey guys
i am in big trouble........i have just cleared my exams and started applying for advance programme ......i have finished my doctorate studies back in my country china............but the problem is last week i went out with my friends to mall and we started doing shoplifting for fun.............we got out of one store so it thrilled us and we went to another one......where we got caught..........me and my other friend were arrested and they charged us with shoplifting and gave nontraffic summons on our record..........i still have to go to court this weekend but i m very scared now.............can anyone please tell me will it affect my chances for admission in school??????will it affect my career?????????pls ppl help me out...........i m really scared..........


Dude, sorry to break it to you, but if your dumb enough to go shoplifting for ****s and giggles, your gonna get what you deserve.
 
Don't want to disappoint you but it will really harm ur career here in US at least . It will be in your record for ever.

Only God can help you but it is really a big bummer on someone character.










hey guys
i am in big trouble........i have just cleared my exams and started applying for advance programme ......i have finished my doctorate studies back in my country china............but the problem is last week i went out with my friends to mall and we started doing shoplifting for fun.............we got out of one store so it thrilled us and we went to another one......where we got caught..........me and my other friend were arrested and they charged us with shoplifting and gave nontraffic summons on our record..........i still have to go to court this weekend but i m very scared now.............can anyone please tell me will it affect my chances for admission in school??????will it affect my career?????????pls ppl help me out...........i m really scared
 
cooldudejohn said:
hey guys
i am in big trouble........i have just cleared my exams and started applying for advance programme ......i have finished my doctorate studies back in my country china............but the problem is last week i went out with my friends to mall and we started doing shoplifting for fun.............we got out of one store so it thrilled us and we went to another one......where we got caught..........me and my other friend were arrested and they charged us with shoplifting and gave nontraffic summons on our record..........i still have to go to court this weekend but i m very scared now.............can anyone please tell me will it affect my chances for admission in school??????will it affect my career?????????pls ppl help me out...........i m really scared..........

shoplifting for fun?! what were you thinking?! 😱 👎
 
Hi, are you a real chinese guy? ????
If you are, I feel sad about what you did here,and if you are not I feel sad about this stupid joke.
I knew some good chinese lawyer in Boston if you are real chinese and face this situation please let me know and I will try to help you.
 
hongsheng said:
Hi, are you a real chinese guy? ????
If you are, I feel sad about what you did here,and if you are not I feel sad about this stupid joke.
I knew some good chinese lawyer in Boston if you are real chinese and face this situation please let me know and I will try to help you.
hi i know i really screwed up my life.......but pls guys it was unintentional........i need your help genuinely..........i already know in wat trouble i got myself.........does nebody has this kind of experience atleast at a very low level.......i know nobody is gonna be that stupid like me.........pls i feel like crying and i need your support guys.............thanks hongsheng for your kind help...but i already hired a lawyer here.....to see wat help i can get............guys pls tell me how did u know that this is really going to ruin me career too....pls ne kind of help is appreciated.........thanks
 
hey john now whats done is done ..... in us it does not matter if you steal a penny or a million its the same for them ..... it will definately affect yr prospects out here what i suggest is you get a good lawyer and pray people do get away with lots of mistakes here........i wish you luck...........
 
this is too bad a situation!!..I really pity you. Why not go talk to the mall manager or someone..try to explain, plead, get down on ur knees..do anything..maybe they drop the case against you..it seems very difficult though.

U really need a good lawyer.

How can someone as educated as you do such a thing..anyways, no crying over spilt milk...
pray to god tht all gets well.
 
hey john,
what is done is done, no use crying over spilled milk,get a extremely good part 1 n 2 score now n on toefl, i hope your gpa is good coz u cant change it now and apply to all possible schools, some schools dont ask abt that i have noticed in some forms, so u can escape, also try to add some voluntary charity activites on your profile, and inprove your profile as much as you can by doing research and worknig as a DA, and seek help from the best lawyer you can afford, and pray to god, and never think of doing this again, beleive me you will be fine,take care
 
John,
sorry to hear your story. i guess you have realized how stupid you just did. it is a shame to play such kind of joke as an adult. now, there are two things you can do to help yourself. the first one is to talk to your lawyer with all your concerns since you already paid him/her to do it. second, google internet as much as you can and try your best to find a case similar to yours and see what the result could be. it is a lot of trouble to commit a crime especially as an international student or employee. you got yourself into it, now you have to pull yourself out of it. time is limited, so good luck and learn this lesson forever.
 
net said:
John,
sorry to hear your story. i guess you have realized how stupid you just did. it is a shame to play such kind of joke as an adult. now, there are two things you can do to help yourself. the first one is to talk to your lawyer with all your concerns since you already paid him/her to do it. second, google internet as much as you can and try your best to find a case similar to yours and see what the result could be. it is a lot of trouble to commit a crime especially as an international student or employee. you got yourself into it, now you have to pull yourself out of it. time is limited, so good luck and learn this lesson forever.
hi guys, thanks to all of u......some of later answers made me feel little bit good.......i know i did learn a lesson forever.............my lawyer told that he is goin to expunge my record..........i did some of surfing and found that it can be taken off but down the years.......my gpa is 3.68...my part1 score is 94 and i m waiting for my part 2 results...also i have experience of working as DA for 3 yrs in USA.........and i also joined NSP(national shoplifting prevention) programme and i might start working as volunteer in hospitals and library.........i hope this might help me a little bit.........can any one pls tell me that do they check our records while processing application or once we get admission?? or they might sometimes skip it????pls any help is appreciated..........i just have to telll i hope i just get admission cos i did not do because i m criminal or something.....i am law abiding person.......but u know sometimes u just dont think n that happened to me............pls guys dont hate me.........sdn makes a lot of difference to one's life............i dont know wat i m writing and wat i want to say so i m stoping here.......but thats my stats
 
hi,
when u apply to any school, and they ask u to disclose any such thing, make sure you disclose it, and be extremely apologetic in your letter,but unless they ask in the application do not tell, but do not hide anything if asked ,it can affect your chances even after getting in a school,but dont worry ,you will be fine, just explain that apologetically in the interview if asked, americans appreciate honesty,and they beleive that normal people make mistakes ,dunt worry, but please tell me one thing...........what to study to get a 94 in part 1?i am gonna retkae very soon, very nervous,please reply back, it wil help me,thanks

cooldudejohn said:
hi guys, thanks to all of u......some of later answers made me feel little bit good.......i know i did learn a lesson forever.............my lawyer told that he is goin to expunge my record..........i did some of surfing and found that it can be taken off but down the years.......my gpa is 3.68...my part1 score is 94 and i m waiting for my part 2 results...also i have experience of working as DA for 3 yrs in USA.........and i also joined NSP(national shoplifting prevention) programme and i might start working as volunteer in hospitals and library.........i hope this might help me a little bit.........can any one pls tell me that do they check our records while processing application or once we get admission?? or they might sometimes skip it????pls any help is appreciated..........i just have to telll i hope i just get admission cos i did not do because i m criminal or something.....i am law abiding person.......but u know sometimes u just dont think n that happened to me............pls guys dont hate me.........sdn makes a lot of difference to one's life............i dont know wat i m writing and wat i want to say so i m stoping here.......but thats my stats
 
Hello,

The more I read the Op's post, the more of a hoax it becomes. A doctoral student would not write like a 4 year old and with a brain of a 3 year old. I do apologize however if you are really serious but I do not think you are. BTW how old are you? DP
 
hi guys, thanks to all of u......some of later answers made me feel little bit good.......i know i did learn a lesson forever.............my lawyer told that he is goin to expunge my record..........i did some of surfing and found that it can be taken off but down the years.......my gpa is 3.68...my part1 score is 94 and i m waiting for my part 2 results...also i have experience of working as DA for 3 yrs in USA.........and i also joined NSP(national shoplifting prevention) programme and i might start working as volunteer in hospitals and library.........i hope this might help me a little bit.........can any one pls tell me that do they check our records while processing application or once we get admission?? or they might sometimes skip it????pls any help is appreciated..........i just have to telll i hope i just get admission cos i did not do because i m criminal or something.....i am law abiding person.......but u know sometimes u just dont think n that happened to me............pls guys dont hate me.........sdn makes a lot of difference to one's life............i dont know wat i m writing and wat i want to say so i m stoping here.......but thats my stats

Hi,
DOnt drive yourself nuts....U DID IT n U and GOD knows why u did it.....
but ONLY OUR LORD JESUS who died for your sins can FORGIVE U OF this sin and also can change the peoples heart to get your name off the criminal record......RBER<JESUS is a living GOD.....n wont rber this sin ever,and can cause people to forget it too......HE IS A MIRACLE WORKING GOD...
Just pray this simple prayer if U want the Jesus in your life,TEll him u hav sinned agst him and invite him to come into your heart,and your life n HE WILL work in your life and work wonders .....good to know that u r already in the right direction..and Pl dont repeat this .RBER JEUS LIVES and will forgive U,in a sec but only if u ask him to and if he is the lord of your life......all the best in your career.God bless u...DO let me know if u have your nbde1 books ???do write at [email protected]
GOD BLESS U....Cast all your cares on the lord 4 HE cares 4u.
 
As we grow older, we realize that how important to keep ourselves in line with social norms and follow the law orders. Everyday, we live in the consequence of our own actions. Therefore, we need to think through before we take any major steps in life. I feel sorry for you for what happened. But as many people suggested, the damage is done, do not be worried to death. A lot of people in this world are very forgiving and will give you second chance as long as you show your sincerety and appreciation. Nothing will prevent you from becoming a better person by learning from your own mistakes. Good luck to you!
 
Dr Dai Phan
I think I agree with you.It looks like a hoax to me too.Stop kidding and get serious.Shoplifting for fun?? Please get real.🙄
 
hi guys, thanks to all of u......some of later answers made me feel little bit good.......i know i did learn a lesson forever.............my lawyer told that he is goin to expunge my record..........i did some of surfing and found that it can be taken off but down the years.......my gpa is 3.68...my part1 score is 94 and i m waiting for my part 2 results...also i have experience of working as DA for 3 yrs in USA.........and i also joined NSP(national shoplifting prevention) programme and i might start working as volunteer in hospitals and library.........i hope this might help me a little bit.........can any one pls tell me that do they check our records while processing application or once we get admission?? or they might sometimes skip it????pls any help is appreciated..........i just have to telll i hope i just get admission cos i did not do because i m criminal or something.....i am law abiding person.......but u know sometimes u just dont think n that happened to me............pls guys dont hate me.........sdn makes a lot of difference to one's life............i dont know wat i m writing and wat i want to say so i m stoping here.......but thats my stats

What did you think about U.S,did u think you are in shanghai or hongkong.What did you learn from jackie chan movies shoplifting or honesty.Too sad to see chinese doing this.You are a black mark on hard working ,honest chinese community and worldwide professional community.As a professional question is dentistry a fun so that you can shoplift patients pockets.
 
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