I wasn't thinking of of in the long run. How do we start building those skills as medical students. For example, when we see another student doing something wrong, there are many ways to address that and some are better than others. I'm sure with certain experience we get better but just wanted some positive posts about how students developed these skills. Not planning on changing medical opinions, etc.
Imo the best way to approach another med student about it is to just be polite and up front. The few times I did this with other med students was something like "Hey, so I noticed during X event you did/said Y thing. I'm pretty sure you're actually supposed to do/say Z as this is what I was taught (by person P, even better if it was your current attending as you're helping that student understand the current attending's preferences)." Some students are receptive to help, some are jerks. Most of the time I'd say just do your own thing unless it's something pretty obvious/serious or a mistake they keep making even after being corrected. Also, I felt my colleagues were more receptive to "heads up" kind of help than major corrections unless they knew I knew more about the area than them are were coming to me for help.
Thanks everyone for the posts. I agree and completely understand what is implied by professionalism. I was just lookings for personal positive experience stories of how people grew during their clinical years in becoming better prepared to handle situations as future physicians in regards to professionalism. How to deal with colleagues when you disagree, properly addressing an issue when you feel something could be done better, etc.
When you're dealing with other med students, just be polite and ask them why they did what they did. If they're normal people they might be a little defensive, but they'll at least let you know why and might even ask what you would have done. Some colleagues will just suck, medicine seems to attract a decent number of those people, but if that's the case then just do your own thing unless you see them do something that could legitimately endanger a patient. Then speak up in a firm but polite manner.
When you see a superior start a treatment or do something you think is wrong or don't really understand, imo the best thing to do is just ask why they did it. I always phrased it something like "So I noticed with Mr. Patient that you started treatment X. I was wondering why you decided to treat them with X instead of with Y, as I thought Y was the recommended therapy." It's a good approach because you're presenting it as you trying to learn from them as well as giving them a chance to teach/flex their knowledge for you (feed their ego). Most of the time you get an insight into the attending thought-process which helps you understand how they think, even if it's not necessarily right. Sometimes they'll get annoyed/dismissive and you just have to suck it up and move on. Occasionally, you find out they legit have no clue what they're doing ("Oh, I just always use treatment X for patients with that disease) and you learn that maybe this isn't someone to emulate.
Regardless of who you're dealing with, just be polite, respectful, and friendly and usually you won't have issues. Be inquisitive instead of condescending and try and convey that you're questioning them in order to expand your own knowledge and not to question or judge theirs. Additionally, be a good observer. If you watch and see that an attending doesn't like to be questioned or teach, then don't badger them with questions. If you notice that a resident loves to be asked questions and share their knowledge, use them as as a go-to instead of the attending that doesn't like to be bothered. As a whole though, just be polite, work hard, and don't get in the way and most of the time you'll be just fine.
My experiences in this arena usually come to one conclusion: the best way to deal with unprofessionalism in others is just to keep doing your job the way you are supposed to do it.
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Agree, only exception I'd add to this is if you see something another medical student is doing that will endanger the patient. Outside of surgery rotations I can't think of many examples where a med student would have the potential to harm a patient unless they did something really stupid, but I'm interested to hear how attendings/residents think med students should handle this among each other.