Hey there,
Non-trad incoming SPT here with 5 logistical questions mostly for the older folks on this board, but I welcome anyone to chime in. I'll list the questions below with some context, but I don't want to bore you with minutia.
I'm 28 and will be packing up my house to attend UTEP, where the job market is barren much like the scenery. My SO is packing up her career and moving with me. Mortgage and garage gym in the mix.
1. Am I being selfish in allowing my SO to move with me if the job market in her field is kind of stale? We want to get married, likely after PT school, and she's enthusiastic about moving with me, but like me, she has an air of lukewarmness re: El Paso living. Although she settles my fears, I'm perpetually worried about our relocation potentially causing her to switch (read: kill) her career temporarily.
2. Should I sell or rent my 7 year old house? I'll be roughly 800 miles away, but will have access to a great handy man that can do repairs for future tenants, which likely would be my friends if I decided to rent. Currently still owe $90k on my mortgage and will rely on loans for PT school (UTEP tuition for 3 years is $33k)
3. Is PT school really that tough? Am I being arrogant to think this won't be that bad? You hear recent college grads say DPT is the hardest thing they've ever done (i.e. time management, no leisure time, etc). Well, you older folks have likely held a professional job before while you balance other time constraints. I currently have 21 hour days M-W, because I work full time and go to school. Previously, I was an educator that worked roughly 80 hours on any given week.
4. If your SO moved with you, what did/does your relationship look like while you're in school? ATM, we both have long work weeks and take turns taking care of each other, and evenly distribute chores, etc. We make time by grinding all week, giving most of the weekend to each other, and keeping Sunday for our individual needs (i.e. prepping for the week, etc.)
5. Can you feel the age difference in your cohort? Some folks in my cohort are 20/21. Average age seems to be 22-24. While I'm a chameleon and can hang with most people pretty easily, I worry that I'll be one of the old dudes.
Non-trad incoming SPT here with 5 logistical questions mostly for the older folks on this board, but I welcome anyone to chime in. I'll list the questions below with some context, but I don't want to bore you with minutia.
I'm 28 and will be packing up my house to attend UTEP, where the job market is barren much like the scenery. My SO is packing up her career and moving with me. Mortgage and garage gym in the mix.
1. Am I being selfish in allowing my SO to move with me if the job market in her field is kind of stale? We want to get married, likely after PT school, and she's enthusiastic about moving with me, but like me, she has an air of lukewarmness re: El Paso living. Although she settles my fears, I'm perpetually worried about our relocation potentially causing her to switch (read: kill) her career temporarily.
2. Should I sell or rent my 7 year old house? I'll be roughly 800 miles away, but will have access to a great handy man that can do repairs for future tenants, which likely would be my friends if I decided to rent. Currently still owe $90k on my mortgage and will rely on loans for PT school (UTEP tuition for 3 years is $33k)
3. Is PT school really that tough? Am I being arrogant to think this won't be that bad? You hear recent college grads say DPT is the hardest thing they've ever done (i.e. time management, no leisure time, etc). Well, you older folks have likely held a professional job before while you balance other time constraints. I currently have 21 hour days M-W, because I work full time and go to school. Previously, I was an educator that worked roughly 80 hours on any given week.
4. If your SO moved with you, what did/does your relationship look like while you're in school? ATM, we both have long work weeks and take turns taking care of each other, and evenly distribute chores, etc. We make time by grinding all week, giving most of the weekend to each other, and keeping Sunday for our individual needs (i.e. prepping for the week, etc.)
5. Can you feel the age difference in your cohort? Some folks in my cohort are 20/21. Average age seems to be 22-24. While I'm a chameleon and can hang with most people pretty easily, I worry that I'll be one of the old dudes.