Yeah, the data supporting the existence of systemic and interpersonal ableism, racism, heterosexism, sexism, cissexism, etc., is pretty clear. The data supporting 100% of people's ex's having a PD or autism having a base rate of 75%, not so much.
And personally, I did the opposite of
@ohiopsychdoc -- I was so convinced that ableism couldn't possibly be in my field that I was convinced that I must be absolute trash in every way to be deserving of some of what I was experiencing, until a mentor pulled me aside and said "look, all the data from all these sources on all these different areas points to you being far, far better than what you're getting--this is the most obvious example of systemic ableism I could think of, because all the data point to it."