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I should not have stereotyped. Sterotyping is bad.
This is how I see things.
There is three types of people in the world:
The "Life Is Great" people: They are friendly and happy. Nothing can bring them down.
The "Sunshine Comes Out My Bum people: they basically think they are entitled to everything.
The "I Have a Stick Up My Bum" people: they are negative and sullen.
We can be any one of these at any point in our lives, sometimes even a combination.
Since I met this girl, she has an entitled attitude towards one thing we have in common (healthy eating and working out) and I really have to bite my tongue whenever we talk about it.
Other than that, she acts like she has a stick up her bum by slamming things around, not making eye contact, not using manners and not even trying to start or participate in conversations that are with people who are not named C or J. My other coworkers feel that way about her too.
I am still just hoping she is having a bad 3 months or something. She was actually quite nice at our Christmas staff party. The boyfriend and I talked to her for most of dinner. I donno what happened before that night and after that night. I donno if it's me or if it was the booze served with dinner.
Sometimes you just need to accept people for who they are and move on. It seems like you and this person are just very opposite people. She obviously communicates very differently than you, but you won't be able to change that. I'd say "just deal with it".