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Just be cautious of making such a big decision solely to please another person. Especially when that decision affects you more than them.

Apply to both to better your chances of gaining admission (US students seem to seldom apply to only one school anyway).

Do what's best for you and what will make YOU happy. Sounds selfish but sometimes you gotta be. Good luck!

If they're helping with the money, it's not entirely selfish--you're saving them $100,000 too! And if they're not, that much money is a pretty darned good reason to consider it anyway. Mostly, though, I think you need to talk with your family about it--and then make your own decision.
 
Yes, that is something I didn't actually consider. $100,000 is a significant sum of money, I'm not sure how I missed that part of your post. Shows me for responding to a post at 4am when I can't sleep.
 
Woke up this morning to find out via FB that my cousin (2nd cousin, technically), had a massive asthma attack on Saturday morning that caused his heart to stop. He is now in ICU in a coma and they are waiting for him to wake up. I feel so bad for my great aunt as she can't go to him because he lives in a different state. He is only in his 30s. 🙁



More minor rants from today:

-I overslept and missed the bus to make it to my first lecture which is from a lecturer that I don't like to miss since she goes into more detail during the class than what are in the notes.

-I quickly got ready to try to make it to the second class, barely missed the first bus (it drove past as I was walking to the stop). So I find another bus and get to the second bus stop (I have to take 2 buses each morning to get to school) while the bus is there, run up to the bus and the bus driver ignores me and drives away... 😡 So I miss the second lecture which was also given by the same lecturer above.

-I am waiting for the bus to head home (second bus) and there is another lady waiting with me when suddenly the bus comes flying past, doesn't slow down and does not stop for us. So, we have to wait 15 more minutes for the next bus to come. Not a big deal since I was just going home, but I was already fed up with buses so it just added to it.

In summary:

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Woke up this morning to find out via FB that my cousin (2nd cousin, technically), had a massive asthma attack on Saturday morning that caused his heart to stop. He is now in ICU in a coma and they are waiting for him to wake up. I feel so bad for my great aunt as she can't go to him because he lives in a different state. He is only in his 30s. 🙁

Oh no...that is so scary. I hope he gets better soon.


More minor rants from today:

-I overslept and missed the bus to make it to my first lecture which is from a lecturer that I don't like to miss since she goes into more detail during the class than what are in the notes.

-I quickly got ready to try to make it to the second class, barely missed the first bus (it drove past as I was walking to the stop). So I find another bus and get to the second bus stop (I have to take 2 buses each morning to get to school) while the bus is there, run up to the bus and the bus driver ignores me and drives away... 😡 So I miss the second lecture which was also given by the same lecturer above.

-I am waiting for the bus to head home (second bus) and there is another lady waiting with me when suddenly the bus comes flying past, doesn't slow down and does not stop for us. So, we have to wait 15 more minutes for the next bus to come. Not a big deal since I was just going home, but I was already fed up with buses so it just added to it.

In summary:

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Seriously. 😡 I hate taking buses because of this. So frustrating.
 
Kind of a pitiful rant but i've been in such a funk lately and can't seem to shake it 🙁

Not even the gym helped today...booo
 
Woke up this morning to find out via FB that my cousin (2nd cousin, technically), had a massive asthma attack on Saturday morning that caused his heart to stop. He is now in ICU in a coma and they are waiting for him to wake up. I feel so bad for my great aunt as she can't go to him because he lives in a different state. He is only in his 30s. 🙁


Got a bit more information on this. The doctors don't think he will make it. They have tried to get a response from him, any response, and he has none. They have tried to extubate him, but he can not breathe for himself. They have told my aunt that she needs to get there, so she is flying out tonight and chances are she will have to make a very hard decision in the next few days. He has two young kids that he has full custody of because the mother of the kids is not fit to be a parent. So, my aunt is going to have to figure out how to take care of the kids as well as deal with deciding how to help her son. My heart is breaking for my aunt and these kids. Really hoping for him to turn around, but it does not sound good... :cry:
 
I was told the hold on the American cheque I deposited on September 16th would clear on October 2nd. It didn't. When I called today to ask why, I was informed that the hold will not clear until October 16th. This is not what they told me previously.

They've already taken the funds out of my American bank account. They already know the cheque is good. At this point, they're basically just holding MY money hostage.

Have I mentioned that this cheque is supposed to cover my living expenses? You know, basic stuff like food, rent, and gas? If it weren't for my uncle very generously sending me money (which was supposed to be used for going out and having fun occasionally, not buying groceries while TD dicks around with my bank account. 😡 ) I wouldn't even be able to keep my head above water right now.

I was totally prepared to rip a new one for whatever customer service rep I landed when I called today, but of course I ended up with a woman whose accent was so thick I could barely understand her. Not worth trying to argue with that. I guess I'll settle for sending them a very harshly worded email instead.

So, I'm stuck for another ten days. And I have to pay rent on my new place on Saturday. Awesome.

RAGE. :boom:
 
Got a bit more information on this. The doctors don't think he will make it. They have tried to get a response from him, any response, and he has none. They have tried to extubate him, but he can not breathe for himself. They have told my aunt that she needs to get there, so she is flying out tonight and chances are she will have to make a very hard decision in the next few days. He has two young kids that he has full custody of because the mother of the kids is not fit to be a parent. So, my aunt is going to have to figure out how to take care of the kids as well as deal with deciding how to help her son. My heart is breaking for my aunt and these kids. Really hoping for him to turn around, but it does not sound good... :cry:

I'm so sorry DVMD, that is such an awful situation to be in. Hoping that things will turn around and work themselves out for the best. :xf:
 
I was told the hold on the American cheque I deposited on September 16th would clear on October 2nd. It didn't. When I called today to ask why, I was informed that the hold will not clear until October 16th. This is not what they told me previously.

They've already taken the funds out of my American bank account. They already know the cheque is good. At this point, they're basically just holding MY money hostage.

Have I mentioned that this cheque is supposed to cover my living expenses? You know, basic stuff like food, rent, and gas? If it weren't for my uncle very generously sending me money (which was supposed to be used for going out and having fun occasionally, not buying groceries while TD dicks around with my bank account. 😡 ) I wouldn't even be able to keep my head above water right now.

I was totally prepared to rip a new one for whatever customer service rep I landed when I called today, but of course I ended up with a woman whose accent was so thick I could barely understand her. Not worth trying to argue with that. I guess I'll settle for sending them a very harshly worded email instead.

So, I'm stuck for another ten days. And I have to pay rent on my new place on Saturday. Awesome.

RAGE. :boom:

Wait. You're really having this issue with TD??? I've always had such awesome service with them.
 
Wait. You're really having this issue with TD??? I've always had such awesome service with them.

TD Canada, yes. Could be different with TD in the states, I haven't had any reasons to deal with their customer service there yet.
 
I was told the hold on the American cheque I deposited on September 16th would clear on October 2nd. It didn't. When I called today to ask why, I was informed that the hold will not clear until October 16th. This is not what they told me previously.

They've already taken the funds out of my American bank account. They already know the cheque is good. At this point, they're basically just holding MY money hostage.

Have I mentioned that this cheque is supposed to cover my living expenses? You know, basic stuff like food, rent, and gas? If it weren't for my uncle very generously sending me money (which was supposed to be used for going out and having fun occasionally, not buying groceries while TD dicks around with my bank account. 😡 ) I wouldn't even be able to keep my head above water right now.

I was totally prepared to rip a new one for whatever customer service rep I landed when I called today, but of course I ended up with a woman whose accent was so thick I could barely understand her. Not worth trying to argue with that. I guess I'll settle for sending them a very harshly worded email instead.

So, I'm stuck for another ten days. And I have to pay rent on my new place on Saturday. Awesome.

RAGE. :boom:

Ugh. I would be pissed too. Let them have it. That is completely unacceptable for you to have to wait when they said the 2nd. I hated TD when I was with them for a short period as well. Haven't had any issues with RBC since I switched 7 yrs ago.

Seriously though. That is when you say fix this or I take my money elsewhere.
 
Dunkin Donuts is giving away free coffee in Philly for the Eagles win if you have the app. I have the app, but it's not giving me the offer even though my roomie and bf have it. =(
 
My apartment is covered in spiders. I want them all to die. (I know, I know, they are an integral part of the ecosystem, but the ones in my house can die.)

Some of them as as big as half dollar coins. Help.
 
My apartment is covered in spiders. I want them all to die. (I know, I know, they are an integral part of the ecosystem, but the ones in my house can die.)

Some of them as as big as half dollar coins. Help.

Mine too. Thank god I'm moving in a few days.

Came home from class, turned on the kitchen sink, and an enormous spider came crawling out. Almost had a heart attack. 😱
 
My Orgo II prof doesn't seem to think there is anything wrong with 40 students getting a ZERO on the last quiz. A zero, not b/c they weren't there, but b/c they got all the questions marked wrong. Oh, and the first test average was a 50%.
 
My Orgo II prof doesn't seem to think there is anything wrong with 40 students getting a ZERO on the last quiz. A zero, not b/c they weren't there, but b/c they got all the questions marked wrong. Oh, and the first test average was a 50%.

Sounds like my ochem II class...new prof who didn't really know how to teach. Most of the exams had failing averages. No individual assignments or exams were curved. The grade was curved at the end of the class and I imagine yours will be too. What sort of prof (or department) is going to let the grade distribution be so low?
 
Dunkin Donuts is giving away free coffee in Philly for the Eagles win if you have the app. I have the app, but it's not giving me the offer even though my roomie and bf have it. =(

Could not accept that freebie even if I hAd the app...on principle. What will they give if the eagles beat a real team....
 
Mine too. Thank god I'm moving in a few days.

Came home from class, turned on the kitchen sink, and an enormous spider came crawling out. Almost had a heart attack. 😱

I just faced off with one for 30 minutes before I worked up the courage to kill it. Why am I such a wimp?
 
My bf is an ***hole.

Boyfriend still an *******... It's been 24 hours and we haven't spoken.

And I also had to go to urgent care tonight for unexplained hives ( i have a history of anaphylaxis) and had to get a steroid injection in my hip. And he doesn't even know because he's not talking to me and I'm not going to be the one to break because he's the jerk.

So my awesome day in lab (I performed the first neuter for our class... With everyone watching and being recorded) is totally overshadowed by the rest of my crappy day.
 
Boyfriend still an *******... It's been 24 hours and we haven't spoken.

And I also had to go to urgent care tonight for unexplained hives ( i have a history of anaphylaxis) and had to get a steroid injection in my hip. And he doesn't even know because he's not talking to me and I'm not going to be the one to break because he's the jerk.

So my awesome day in lab (I performed the first neuter for our class... With everyone watching and being recorded) is totally overshadowed by the rest of my crappy day.

i'm sorry jam, that sucks and he's an a**wipe
he deserves to be neutered 😡

and for my rant..

I am SO over certain people b*tching and moaning about how their parents and relatives always call them and that it's annoying. Are you fecking serious? :slap: Some people aren't close with their families and didn't grow up with both parents. Others crave to be in your position, to be loved and thought about that much. To get daily, hell, weekly or monthly calls from their parents. APPRECIATE WHAT YOU HAVE, because they won't always be there!
 
Boyfriend still an *******... It's been 24 hours and we haven't spoken.

And I also had to go to urgent care tonight for unexplained hives ( i have a history of anaphylaxis) and had to get a steroid injection in my hip. And he doesn't even know because he's not talking to me and I'm not going to be the one to break because he's the jerk.

So my awesome day in lab (I performed the first neuter for our class... With everyone watching and being recorded) is totally overshadowed by the rest of my crappy day.

First off, that is amazing! Congrats and job well done. 👍 😀 Do NOT let him ruin this for you. That is definitely an accomplishment and something to remember!

Second....I used to have these stand-offs with my mother and my bf all the time....and I'm extraordinarily stubborn, so they would drag on and on. Then I realized that life is too short, that when the end comes, I would wish I had those days I spent ignoring that person back. It sucks being the one to break it, believe me I know, I hate doing it....but I no longer believe it's the weak one that breaks first....it's takes a strong person to cool down and revisit things. Getting back on track sooner rather than later is a good thing. Take the time you need to cool down, but try not to extend it past that. Just thought I'd share the change in mindset I made after fights and I feel so glad that I did.
 
First off, that is amazing! Congrats and job well done. 👍 😀 Do NOT let him ruin this for you. That is definitely an accomplishment and something to remember!

Second....I used to have these stand-offs with my mother and my bf all the time....and I'm extraordinarily stubborn, so they would drag on and on. Then I realized that life is too short, that when the end comes, I would wish I had those days I spent ignoring that person back. It sucks being the one to break it, believe me I know, I hate doing it....but I no longer believe it's the weak one that breaks first....it's takes a strong person to cool down and revisit things. Getting back on track sooner rather than later is a good thing. Take the time you need to cool down, but try not to extend it past that. Just thought I'd share the change in mindset I made after fights and I feel so glad that I did.

👍

Not always easy to step up and be the bigger person.
 
I have a wisdom tooth coming through. Holy f*ck it hurts! Hopefully it will just convieniantly fit in like the other one 😛
 
I'm sure it's just nerves, but feeling like you're about to throw up on a work day when you've got to get through 5 surgeries is no good. I hardly ate anything yesterday, too.

I'm also not happy with the way a simple e-mail was handled at work. I wish I could just quit.
 
Apparently we're supposed to teach ourselves cancer genomics and pathology before class so the professor doesn't have to, and the fact that >half the class was totally lost last meeting is a sign that we're not prepared to be professionals. Nevermind the professors notes are riddled with mispellings and sentences that don't make sense. Ugh. 😡
 
I'm sure it's just nerves, but feeling like you're about to throw up on a work day when you've got to get through 5 surgeries is no good. I hardly ate anything yesterday, too.

I'm also not happy with the way a simple e-mail was handled at work. I wish I could just quit.

Only a few more days.... and yeah I am sure nerves cause of upcoming surgery do not tell...


🙁
 
The universe is out to get me, I swear.

If it can go wrong, it is going wrong for me.
:boom:
 
I was totally prepared to rip a new one for whatever customer service rep I landed when I called today, but of course I ended up with a woman whose accent was so thick I could barely understand her. Not worth trying to argue with that. I guess I'll settle for sending them a very harshly worded email instead.

Have you gone to the bank and spoken to someone in person? I always get really helpful customer service people when I go to the one on University up across from the Petsmart shopping center. And I always have to wait the 15 business day period (aka three weeks) which is a pain in the ass, but them pushing it back is unacceptable. I wouldn't bother calling, I'd go there and talk to someone. Good luck 🙁

Third surgery group mate continues to piss us off and blatantly ignore important group activities. I need to stop ranting about her but holy hell, it just gets worse every day 😡
 
The professor for the online class I'm taking is taking his sweet time to grade homework. And I can't turn in the next one til I get this one back. Seriously, it's been 5 weeks. I even emailed him after 3 weeks to make sure he got it. :annoyed:
 
Rant: People at the gym who take wayyy too long on a piece of equipment during the super busy hours. You do your sets and move on. 10 min breaks aren't needed between each set. I can accept like 2 minute breaks for max reps and stuff, but seriously.

I also just knocked over my external hard drive which has all my study abroad pictures and music on it. Haven't been able to transfer anything to my Mac since it's currently formatted for a PC, so I really hope I didn't just destroy everything. Luckily, I don't think I deleted all the pictures from my SD cards yet. The music, I can just really download if it's gone.
 
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Rant: People at the gym who take wayyy too long on a piece of equipment during the super busy hours. You do your sets and move on. 10 min breaks aren't needed between each set. I can accept like 2 minute breaks for max reps and stuff, but seriously.


One of my pet peeves is when people sit on the equipment and text on their phones.
 
Just got a rejection email for a job I really wanted (and actually was perfectly suited for/even overqualified). So frustrated because I'm pretty sure its not due to me but due to my visa restrictions... I want more than anything to stay in London until August/potentially longer if I don't get into vet school, but my current student visa ends in january. Trying my hardest to get a job that will sponsor me to switch into a new visa category, but having zero luck, as are all the rest of my international friends - I don't think companies want to take the risk and deal with the hassle of trying to sponsor us when they could hire a Brit easily. And I don't know how to explain it to my wonderful bf whose only flaw is he thinks the world of me, and assumes I'll get a sponsored job easily and get into the vet school of my choice. Gah. It's just a massive ball of stress sitting at the pit of my stomach because I know what I want, and for once I think I genuinely have a very slim chance of accomplishing it..
 
We are euthing one of my favorite patients tomorrow 🙁 It's needed, he's already diabetic, has Cushings, has seizures, and now he's non-weight bearing on front limbs and there's bony changes on xray. He's older. But I love him. I'm bummed.
 
We are euthing one of my favorite patients tomorrow 🙁 It's needed, he's already diabetic, has Cushings, has seizures, and now he's non-weight bearing on front limbs and there's bony changes on xray. He's older. But I love him. I'm bummed.

Sorry! That's so hard... I cried like a baby the first time my very favorite patient (he also boarded at the hospital for about a week of every month) died. He was a 6yo Doberman. He threw a clot after front leg amputation (osteosarcoma). It was so so sad. I still miss seeing him. 🙁
 
Got a bit more information on this. The doctors don't think he will make it. They have tried to get a response from him, any response, and he has none. They have tried to extubate him, but he can not breathe for himself. They have told my aunt that she needs to get there, so she is flying out tonight and chances are she will have to make a very hard decision in the next few days. He has two young kids that he has full custody of because the mother of the kids is not fit to be a parent. So, my aunt is going to have to figure out how to take care of the kids as well as deal with deciding how to help her son. My heart is breaking for my aunt and these kids. Really hoping for him to turn around, but it does not sound good... :cry:

They did an EEG on him today, there was no reading. My aunt is having to make a decision. I feel awful for her and his two kids. 🙁
 
DVMD - I'm so so so sorry to hear... How awful.

MysteryCat - It's the worst 🙁

Today got worse, a very young and extremely sweet dog that was adopted last year by a new owner was diagnosed with some sort of bone tumor, we turfed her immediately on presentation. Not even 5 years old, last year owner adopted her and did a cystotomy within a week since we had found stones. Nicest older lady, the most wonderful little dog. I swear some days I freaking hate this job when your hands are tied.
 
Just found out my roomie from undergrad, who I still consider one of my best friends even though we don't talk as much, was pregnant (and far enough along to feel the baby move), just lost the baby and is in the hospital and possibly in critical condition...via facebook. Really, really hoping she pulls through.
 
my heart is absolutely broken. i came home from my exam this morning and found Lucy suffocated and dead with her head in a bag of chips. she was my very special little friend and i will miss her dearly. :cry:
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So sorry for your loss jmo 🙁
 
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