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I don't like the new layout...
Libster, yer really bordering on meta-ranting.
... but I'm with ya.
I don't like the new layout...
I've been having the same issue! Today at 7 I was like alright, almost done for the night and then realized that I definitely could not stop studying anytime soon 🙁
I am still not adjusted to this time change. It is 8pm but I feel like its 10. No good.
Libster, yer really bordering on meta-ranting.
... but I'm with ya.
Anyway... Today's test wasn't so bad except I really hate how one of our professors writes her questions.
FU to all professors who grade based on very ridiculous hypothetical questions that would NEVER happen in real life, for a clinical based class. GRRRAAAAWWWRRRRRRR!!!!!
I suck at chem. I just failed my test. Again. Second one. I now have a 70% average. I really hope I don't fail the final also. 🙁 Great start to a week that's already gonna suck enough later on..
Hey, 70% isn't failing. I am assuming that's at least a 2.0. Chem classes are usually curved, right? A 70% was a 3.0 in my gen chem I class.
but how do you really feel?
I hate to bring your personal life into this, but this is the boyfriend who really hurt you with words a couple of months ago, right? And now you are supporting him in his fight to extend his visa, I believe and it's stressing you out to juggle this and a job and a full class load. I worry that you may be compromising your goals to support him. I obviously have only part of the picture but you might want to consider if the relationship is healthy.I've barely slept in the last three weeks. Never more than five hours a night and never straight through. Classes, work and my bf's court dates make me so nervous that I keep waking up. And so much homework. 🙁
👍 Just as I expected!Obviously I'm really allured and enamored by their absolute authority and sophisticated intellect that I want nothing more than to sleep with them. These extra tricky and mind-boggling questions turn me on oh so much. What a tease.
K9DANE: I'm truly sorry to hear this. I wish your best friend lots of strength through this difficult time. She's lucky if she has a good support system (you are undoubtedly a solid rock for her) - she's really gonna need you now. To be there for her, to hug her, and tell her, maybe it won't be okay right away, but it's important to live for his memory and make him proud. (Sorry if this came off nonsensical....my brain is really screwed up lately...)My best friend's father just passed. I'm thankful his suffering is over and I'm thankful for the peace & comfort the hospice house provided him. However, she's just like me: strong and independent, someone who has to be told it's ok to cry; it's ok to break down. My heart bleeds as I know the worse is yet to come for her, especially as we enter the holidays and her birthday.
PetPony - are we kindred spirits? I think we are. Just don't be blinded by love or let him ever tell you that he'll break up with you over vet school. He's definitely not worth it then!!! (I speak from that seat of experience. Yes, most of it was pretty painful.....I just tend to overthink everything. He really is a great guy and he's really been helping me a lot. I guess it's not fair that I just post the negative stuff on here. There are so many positive things about him. I have never had anybody treat me better than him. He's really not that bad. I promise.
The few times I get to see my bf really help a lot too. He loves the thought of me trying to go to vet school. Having him here makes things much easier.
PetPony - are we kindred spirits? I think we are. Just don't be blinded by love or let him ever tell you that he'll break up with you over vet school. He's definitely not worth it then!!! (I speak from that seat of experience. Yes, most of it was pretty painful.....)
Truth. I can relate, understand, sympathize and empathize. How about that! Try and do your best 🙂 and don't try and be perfect. That bar is inexplicably high & unattainable....🙁I don't want to be told "im sure you did fine" - I'm not the kind of person who comes out of exams thinking ive failed every time, they didnt sit that test, and they have NO IDEA what its like to sit a vet school exam!!! All I want is someone to just SYMPATHISE with me!!!
I know that last part might sound b*tchy and horrible, but I honestly can't help it. I hate telling certain people about my scholastic concerns because they just dismiss them - my parents especially. It makes me upset and so frustrated and angry!!!
People wonder why vet students are so close knit and can seem cliquey. Honestly, this is one of the reasons why.
Do they make more of this model? Cause I want one. Then again, in recent times, I may have found someone like thisI'm not worried about that at all. He loves the thought of me going to vet school. He loves to tell people about my plans and that he's so proud of me, that I am so smart,...... I really don't have to worry about that. He works during the week and weekends so many times to save money up for getting an apartment next year because he wants to pay for all of it. Just so I can save my own money to pay for vet school applications and that stuff.
People wonder why vet students are so close knit and can seem cliquey. Honestly, this is one of the reasons why.
I love my vettie friends - so glad I have people who understand me but it's a little depressing to watch relationships with other people decrease.
K9DANE: I'm truly sorry to hear this. I wish your best friend lots of strength through this difficult time. She's lucky if she has a good support system (you are undoubtedly a solid rock for her) - she's really gonna need you now. To be there for her, to hug her, and tell her, maybe it won't be okay right away, but it's important to live for his memory and make him proud. (Sorry if this came off nonsensical....my brain is really screwed up lately...)
Approach it professionally as a behavioral problem. For the dog to suddenly bark a lot means something has changed. The neighbor may be interested to find out. Is the dog healthy, getting less attention, has someone in the neighborhood started doing something to annoy the dog? A decent owner would want to know why the sudden change in behavior! Probably you would have less chance if the dog was always barking.This is hell week for us. Which means 3 finals over 5 days. What's crazy about them is that it's our only grade for that class. We typically only have one exam per course so they're worth A LOT.
My rant is that I live in an apartment complex and my neighbor's dog has been barking incessantly beginning at about 7:30am. This dog almost never barks. I'll normally hear maybe 3 woofs a day but yesterday morning he barked for 3 hours straight and this morning he barked for 3 hours as well. It normally wouldn't be a big deal because I'd already be up getting ready for class but this week I'm trying to sleep in a little more. (I'm a stay up late study-er). I don't really know my neighbor. He came over once to ask for carpet cleaner (which I didn't have) and that's been our only interaction. I don't really know what to say if I go over there. "Hey, your dog has been barking a lot recently in the mornings." "Oh really, I'm at work then. I didn't know." And then what? I tell him to buy a Kong and put some peanut butter in it or something? I just feel like there probably won't be a very good solution.
Any advice on this one?
Approach it professionally as a behavioral problem. For the dog to suddenly bark a lot means something has changed. The neighbor may be interested to find out. Is the dog healthy, getting less attention, has someone in the neighborhood started doing something to annoy the dog? A decent owner would want to know why the sudden change in behavior! Probably you would have less chance if the dog was always barking.
Again, I would talk to him with the approach "I am worried that your dog SUDDENLY started barking a lot. If you show more concern for the dog than your problem, you have a much better shot".
I definitely feel this way - I've found that I just do not have anything to talk about with non-vet school people because they either don't care about what is going on or just tell me "oh. you'll be fine." Really? Cuz how do YOU know that??
I like a good vet school chat, but I find myself craving contact with the outside world.
My boyfriend is really sick of me whining on the phone to him, "Didn't anything else happen in your day? Something interesting? How's your boss? HOW'S YOUR MOM? HOW ARE YOUR CATS??? TELL ME TALES OF THE OTHER SIDE."
That's just me, though. I would go crazy if I couldn't talk about vet school a little bit, at least.
Being a nontraditional from New Jersey SUCKS. No school. No seats. Min nonres gpa = ZERO possible way to overcome mediocre gpa from over 10 yrs ago except to place all eggs in one basket, pick up and move and hope maybe that state lets you in. Suck it NJ!
An MD just may be a wiser option.
Sorry. That felt good.
Great. Nice to see a rant turn to a rave.Thanks cowgirla and StartingoverVet for the advice! I went over there and they were both really concerned that he's been waking me up. They apparently moved the dog's crate to the kitchen from his owner's bedroom 2 days ago. I guess the dog doesn't like his new location? They're going to move him back and hope it keeps him quiet!
I'm so glad that went well. Phew!
(Though when I said I wanted to make sure everything was okay with him they looked at me and said, well, you're the vet. Do you think everything's okay with him?)
I know I shouldn't make light of your test, but this made my night. 🤣My phys chem test in 6 hours is making me feel like Benny in The Mummy when he's confronted by the bad guy and whips out all the religious icons and starts praying in as many languages as he can to the entire catalog of deities.
I know I shouldn't make light of your test, but this made my night. 🤣
I LOVE The Mummy. On a side note, I love "Twister" too.
"I've got to go honey, we've got cows!"
I like a good vet school chat, but I find myself craving contact with the outside world.
My boyfriend is really sick of me whining on the phone to him, "Didn't anything else happen in your day? Something interesting? How's your boss? HOW'S YOUR MOM? HOW ARE YOUR CATS??? TELL ME TALES OF THE OTHER SIDE."
That's just me, though. I would go crazy if I couldn't talk about vet school a little bit, at least.
Same. It actually makes me uncomfortable to be with some vet school friends and other non-vet school people together because the vet school kids only want to talk about school and professors and omg so much work and I feel like it's really annoying to other people. Like, I know it's a big deal and a lot of work but I try to not talk about school outside of school, unless its with my vet school friends only. And even then I can only take so much.
We have lotsa NJers here at Mizzou. 🙂 We love and accept you, even with your goofy accents.
LoL! Thx. I needed that giggle. Mines particularly funny bc I've lived in NY/NJ and GA/FL for equal portions of time. They don't cancel each other out! Just make a really odd combo. Something like..."I'm fixin'a wawk the dawg, ya'll." 😛