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All 3 pairs of Bob’s shoes I’ve been rotating wearing for a while have little to no memory foam left and have been contributing to the immense soreness in my legs from standing working all day. 🙁 Guess it’s time to let go.

Been trying to find good, stylish, longer-lasting and non-bulky shoes to replace them because I don’t want to be wastefully buying and trashing shoes too often. The non-bulky and stylish parts have been my issue so far.
 
All 3 pairs of Bob’s shoes I’ve been rotating wearing for a while have little to no memory foam left and have been contributing to the immense soreness in my legs from standing working all day. 🙁 Guess it’s time to let go.

Been trying to find good, stylish, longer-lasting and non-bulky shoes to replace them because I don’t want to be wastefully buying and trashing shoes too often. The non-bulky and stylish parts have been my issue so far.

Welp, here's another plug for Rothy's. If you want something similar to the Bob's, you can try the loafers, but the flats are more affordable. The big plug for them is that they are washable - and they truly are, washing machine on cold, no problems. Just don't use the dryer or they shrink.

PM for $20 off code. Or, yanno, find one online, or if there's someone else in here that has a referral - because I have quite a few pairs already. Like... 20ish. :shrug:
 
geesh!!! What do you do, wear a different pair for every work day of the month!?

I've been wearing my one sad pair of Danskos in the age of COVID. I have sneakers and those are my usual casual type shoes. The Chelseas are more for winter. And my mocha loafers somehow turned into my house slippers...

Look, I certainly paid full price for some (and more than full price for a couple) but a lot were from referral points because I'm... resourceful. 🙂
 
Welp, here's another plug for Rothy's. If you want something similar to the Bob's, you can try the loafers, but the flats are more affordable. The big plug for them is that they are washable - and they truly are, washing machine on cold, no problems. Just don't use the dryer or they shrink.

PM for $20 off code. Or, yanno, find one online, or if there's someone else in here that has a referral - because I have quite a few pairs already. Like... 20ish. :shrug:
My only concern with those are support. My feet ache a lot after working. I might need to put insoles in. Can I do that with Rothy’s?
 
We had a funny misunderstanding at work today.

I was bringing out a dog with a reoccurring anal gland infection. While I was returning the dog, I told the owner "The vet recommends you should ideally bring him back in every eight weeks for an anal gland expression."

Then a few minutes after I came back inside, the receptionist finds me and goes "Uh, that lady is calling to schedule an appointment with the anal gland specialist?? And says you told her that?"

Lady misheard "anal gland expression" as "anal gland specialist." She told the receptionist over the phone that I had told her we have an anal gland specialist who comes in every eight weeks just to express anal glands, and was asking what day the specialist comes in. :hilarious: :hilarious: :hilarious:

I was laughing so hard I was doubled over. Apparently I am the "anal gland specialist" from now on. The misunderstanding was explained to her and she was a great sport about it. At least she had the right intentions!!
 
Got home from work yesterday with a weird feeling in my shoulder/back/left chest. It didn’t really hurt but just felt weird. A few hours later it was agonizing to breathe. Took a nap because apparently not being able to breathe wasn’t alarming enough. Woke up in even worse pain. Went to urgent care. Got x rays. Everything looked okay, but the doc who was doing a video consult was far more worried than the NP and asked if I’d ever been diagnosed with Marfans. I said no, but that I’d been through a lot of the process for getting tested, minus the genetic test, and hadn’t been diagnosed one way or the other. I also told him I saw a cardiologist a few weeks ago who ordered a CT with contrast and an echo. He said, “I think you’ll be getting those tests a lot sooner. I’m sending you to the ER right now. I think you may have an aortic dissection. Do you know way that is?” I said, “yea... that sucks.”

Immediately went to the ER. Being in philly, it was a quick ride over, which didn’t give me much time to process the idea of my possible impending doom. Got sent into triage, spoke to the nurse, and the ER doc poked her head in a said, “sorry, I was just listening in, and I wanted to get some more information.” I explained what was happening and what I was told, and she tried explaining to me why this was very concerning despite the fact that I’m young and seemingly healthy. I said, “basically, if anyone my age is going to have an aortic dissection, it’s me.” She agreed.

I get an EKG (normal), bloodwork (normal), and am put in a room while I wait to get a CT. It ends up taking about an hour to go to radiology because a shooting had just happened and four people with GSW’s were sent into the hospital and obviously needed CT’s. Welcome to philly. Obviously I understand, and sit in the bed for a while trying to make light of the situation while my family is worried that I’m suddenly dying. An hour passes and I get wheeled away.

I’ve had CT’s before but never with contrast. It was very weird. Everything was warm. I thought I was peeing myself. That aside, it wasn’t awful. I get wheeled back into my room and wait to hear the results.

The doctor comes in and immediately gives a thumbs up. He says I don’t have an aortic dissection. I probably strained a muscle the other day at work lifting piglets and it was just a delayed onset type of thing. Go home and take naproxen. It’s really wonderful that an aortic dissection and a muscle strain in this specific area share the exact same symptoms.

TL;DR: Was in excruciating pain. Was told I could be dying. Went to the ER. Found out I’m not dying. Awesome Friday night.

I promise I’m not mad or upset at the doctors, how medicine works, etc. I know they had to r/o a dissection. They did a great job. But it wasn’t a fun time.
 
I said, “yea... that sucks.”

I know this isn't funny per se (maybe a little bit since it turns out you're okay) but I laughed out loud at this.

I’ve had CT’s before but never with contrast. It was very weird. Everything was warm. I thought I was peeing myself.

Yeah, I had this experience for the first time a few months ago and I quite didn't believe them when they told me it would feel like I was peeing myself but it totally does.
 
I know this isn't funny per se (maybe a little bit since it turns out you're okay) but I laughed out loud at this.
I give you full permission to laugh. I actually did an awkward chuckle when he told me and I said that because I had a massive wave of “it is what it is” wash over me.
 
I’ve had CT’s before but never with contrast. It was very weird. Everything was warm. I thought I was peeing myself. That aside, it wasn’t awful. I get wheeled back into my room and wait to hear the results.
Yeah, I had this experience for the first time a few months ago and I quite didn't believe them when they told me it would feel like I was peeing myself but it totally does.
Can confirm, super weird feeling. Mine was compounded by the whopping dose of IV Benadryl I'd also gotten, which made me rapidly drowsy in a way that I can't even fully explain. My body was very confused.

Anyway, I'm glad you're not dying @ajs513 !
 
Can confirm, super weird feeling. Mine was compounded by the whopping dose of IV Benadryl I'd also gotten, which made me rapidly drowsy in a way that I can't even fully explain. My body was very confused.

Anyway, I'm glad you're not dying @ajs513 !
Thanks! Fun fact, I had one of those red “ALLERGY” bracelets put on me because I’m allergic to... Benadryl
 
I’m so tired and burnt out and meh about life as of present. Not the best mood to be in trying to get a cross country move going next week.
 
Got home from work yesterday with a weird feeling in my shoulder/back/left chest. It didn’t really hurt but just felt weird. A few hours later it was agonizing to breathe. Took a nap because apparently not being able to breathe wasn’t alarming enough. Woke up in even worse pain. Went to urgent care. Got x rays. Everything looked okay, but the doc who was doing a video consult was far more worried than the NP and asked if I’d ever been diagnosed with Marfans. I said no, but that I’d been through a lot of the process for getting tested, minus the genetic test, and hadn’t been diagnosed one way or the other. I also told him I saw a cardiologist a few weeks ago who ordered a CT with contrast and an echo. He said, “I think you’ll be getting those tests a lot sooner. I’m sending you to the ER right now. I think you may have an aortic dissection. Do you know way that is?” I said, “yea... that sucks.”

Immediately went to the ER. Being in philly, it was a quick ride over, which didn’t give me much time to process the idea of my possible impending doom. Got sent into triage, spoke to the nurse, and the ER doc poked her head in a said, “sorry, I was just listening in, and I wanted to get some more information.” I explained what was happening and what I was told, and she tried explaining to me why this was very concerning despite the fact that I’m young and seemingly healthy. I said, “basically, if anyone my age is going to have an aortic dissection, it’s me.” She agreed.

I get an EKG (normal), bloodwork (normal), and am put in a room while I wait to get a CT. It ends up taking about an hour to go to radiology because a shooting had just happened and four people with GSW’s were sent into the hospital and obviously needed CT’s. Welcome to philly. Obviously I understand, and sit in the bed for a while trying to make light of the situation while my family is worried that I’m suddenly dying. An hour passes and I get wheeled away.

I’ve had CT’s before but never with contrast. It was very weird. Everything was warm. I thought I was peeing myself. That aside, it wasn’t awful. I get wheeled back into my room and wait to hear the results.

The doctor comes in and immediately gives a thumbs up. He says I don’t have an aortic dissection. I probably strained a muscle the other day at work lifting piglets and it was just a delayed onset type of thing. Go home and take naproxen. It’s really wonderful that an aortic dissection and a muscle strain in this specific area share the exact same symptoms.

TL;DR: Was in excruciating pain. Was told I could be dying. Went to the ER. Found out I’m not dying. Awesome Friday night.

I promise I’m not mad or upset at the doctors, how medicine works, etc. I know they had to r/o a dissection. They did a great job. But it wasn’t a fun time.

dear lord that’s terrifying. Maybe more so that you had to wait an hour to get a CT when they thought you might be dissecting your aorta. No big deal. Muscle strain is a way better option lol
 
dear lord that’s terrifying. Maybe more so that you had to wait an hour to get a CT when they thought you might be dissecting your aorta. No big deal. Muscle strain is a way better option lol
Ehhh depends on what the status of the GSW victims were. If they needed the CT first and ajs was relatively stable :shrug:
 
dear lord that’s terrifying. Maybe more so that you had to wait an hour to get a CT when they thought you might be dissecting your aorta. No big deal. Muscle strain is a way better option lol
Ehhh depends on what the status of the GSW victims were. If they needed the CT first and ajs was relatively stable :shrug:
To the hospital’s credit, both of the people who were in the CT before me died. So it was definitely warranted to put me behind them. I’m not really sure what the alternative would have been, but it was a really awful situation for everyone.
 
I appreciate it—just trying to take it in stride!
 
Ehhh depends on what the status of the GSW victims were. If they needed the CT first and ajs was relatively stable :shrug:

when I got kicked I was in the CT within like 10 minutes of triage. it was interesting in contrast the fact the first reaction I got from ED reception was an eye roll and “do you have your photo ID?” Like didn’t the nurse just tell you this was a level II?:smack:
 
Why is everyone in this profession so rude and not understanding of each other? I feel like you can give me advice on how to manage a case without telling me I was completely wrong.
 
Why is everyone in this profession so rude and not understanding of each other? I feel like you can give me advice on how to manage a case without telling me I was completely wrong.
It takes time to show people the way. Show kindness to all your workers/colleagues and garner people's respect that way, and you may notice that these behaviors start to lessen with time, then perhaps even turn into a genuinely helpful interest in others. 🙂
 
Why is everyone in this profession so rude and not understanding of each other? I feel like you can give me advice on how to manage a case without telling me I was completely wrong.

I talk with vets daily. Many vets that do things that really shouldn't have been done. It is a bit of an art perfecting how to discuss that with the DVM without making them feel bad, because they really believe what they did was the next right step, but making them feel horrible about it, doesn't help them. At all.

Sorry someone made you feel bad and told you that you are completely wrong. It is definitely possible to give advice without admonishing the person, they don't learn that way, they just feel bad which helps no one and harms the person you are discussing the case with. It also makes them super reluctant to reach out for help again and you definitely don't want that.
 
Why is everyone in this profession so rude and not understanding of each other? I feel like you can give me advice on how to manage a case without telling me I was completely wrong.

Well. I don't think EVERYONE is, but the people that are ...

... I think a big part of it is that deep down, we all treat something a certain way because we feel it's the best way to go about it. Right? Or else we'd do something different. So when someone does something different, we deep down think they probably really should have done it they way we'd do it, because duh, that's best.

At that point, some people are capable of putting on the "more than one way to skin a cat" filter and let it go, and some people just can't stop their brain from saying "my way is better, what they did is wrong."

Sometimes, though, someone does need to be told specifically what they did was wrong. I work with / train interns frequently, so I'm always answering case questions for them. Most of the time it's "sure, you could do that .... or here's a trick I learned that works better sometimes." But every once in a while they'll pull something out that is just plain wrong or dangerous for the patient. In those cases, you have to be 100% crystal clear that what they are suggesting is wrong, not just "personal preference." Like when I had a flustered intern trying to insist she had been taught to close the linea alba with Ethilon. Good intern, just really super flustered and scared and nervous about surgery and was in that place where she was starting to crumble. No big deal. Everyone has those moments. That's why you have a mentor safety net. But still, that's a situation where I have to be crystal clear that what she's suggesting is wrong not just a different choice than I would make.

But that's the 5% stuff. The 95% is just treating something differently than someone, and some people are pretty unkind about that stuff. 🙁
 
But that's the 5% stuff. The 95% is just treating something differently than someone, and some people are pretty unkind about that stuff. 🙁

Hehe. I was in a very meh mood when I said everyone, total exaggeration. It’s been a rough couple days of practice. I have way more great mentors in this field than I do anything else, just needed to remember that! The 5% I have seen happen for sure, but yes, it’s the other majority that some folks seem to have deep convictions about which is no fun.
 
I put in an online order for some fast food because I was feeling lazy and starving. Like, in the previous 24 hours, I'd had some tea and a leftover side dish from a few nights ago. Showed up ~10 minutes after the estimated "ready" time. To-go rack was empty. I asked the staff about it, and they said they didn't have my order. So I pulled out my phone to double check the email receipt, because there's another location of this same chain across the street, and I wanted to make sure I was at the right one (spoiler: I was). Anyway this manager-looking lady managed to find my order and they made it.

This whole time I was feeling pretty hangry and ticked off but ultimately I was trying to be polite, because I've totally done similar things at my work. I eventually got my food and left.

On the short drive home, I started thinking about…if this is how I act at my most pissed off, at my hangriest, at my most stressed out…why do Karens exist? I'm not trying to prop myself up like "hurr durr I'm a decent ****ing human," but like I was 1,000% in the right here and I still didn't have the urge to scream and curse out the staff and throw **** like a ****ing child.

And then I cried while I ate because I forgot to take my meds yesterday.

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@capri1722 i feel you. When you’re on the receiving end of a Karen-scapade multiple times, you’re naturally more empathetic to others even when you are wronged. And you deserve to feel like a decent human because you are 🙂
 
Random, but I knew a Karen from High School and she was quite nice. I bet she is thrilled with this new slang. I'll have a drink later for all the good Karens in the world. haha
I saw someone named Karen complaining about the meme on Facebook the other day. I hadn't thought about it that way before lol
 
Just please tell me youre not "allergic" to steroids!
I’m not! I’m really not allergic to that many things. Aside from seasonal allergies to basically all the pollen, I’m not allergic to most foods for example. But no matter what, any time I take any formulation of diphenhydramine or famotidine, I break out in hives and it gets hard to swallow
 
I’m not! I’m really not allergic to that many things. Aside from seasonal allergies to basically all the pollen, I’m not allergic to most foods for example. But no matter what, any time I take any formulation of diphenhydramine or famotidine, I break out in hives and it gets hard to swallow

Im just being silly because you cant be allergic to steroids. One guy a few weeks ago refused to take his steroid eye drops after surgery because steroids "give him hiccups for exactly 48 hours."
 
my hubby is not allergic to steroids, but he is not allowed to do one of the "stepped dose packs" any more. The kind that you take 2 pills today, 3 tomorrow, etc... He becomes irritable, angry, and unpleasant to be around. his temper suddenly has a hair trigger. The last time he was on them, someone ticked him off and he almost got into a fight. I am not saying that he is a saint, but this behavior is drastically different from his normal. So now if he needs steroids then it is one a day, for 5 days max. Otherwise I tell the doctor that my hubby will come live with them until the course of medicine is complete. LOL It is now documented in his records....
 
my hubby is not allergic to steroids, but he is not allowed to do one of the "stepped dose packs" any more. The kind that you take 2 pills today, 3 tomorrow, etc... He becomes irritable, angry, and unpleasant to be around. his temper suddenly has a hair trigger. The last time he was on them, someone ticked him off and he almost got into a fight. I am not saying that he is a saint, but this behavior is drastically different from his normal. So now if he needs steroids then it is one a day, for 5 days max. Otherwise I tell the doctor that my hubby will come live with them until the course of medicine is complete. LOL It is now documented in his records....

Oh they can certainly mess some people up with mood, heart racing, jitters, and apparently hiccups, but as far as anaphylaxis or even mild rash type allergy its not really possible.
 
I once had a giant lymph node swell up under my face. Mono testing was negative and CBC was normal, so the urgent care sent me with a prednisone taper. I don’t remember exactly what the dose was, but I remember looking up the pred mg range for humans and thinking wow, this is a crazy high dose. I went absolutely crazy for those couple of weeks. No sleep, always eating, just go go go manic at all times. Crazy that steroid-induced psychosis is a thing in people, it can be that bad. Steroids are great and I love using them when indicated but they also scare me.
 
Im just being silly because you cant be allergic to steroids. One guy a few weeks ago refused to take his steroid eye drops after surgery because steroids "give him hiccups for exactly 48 hours."
I worked with a molecular biology PhD who insisted she was allergic to glucose...
 
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