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I have a close friend who graduated from the same undergrad university that I still attend. She wanted to go to vet school, applied to only one, and got rejected. After that, she gave up on her basically lifelong career aspiration and went to grad school to become a teacher (the epitome of those who can't...teach?). Anyway, there were clear flaws in her application and application process that she could have very easily fixed and reapplied. I guess she didn't want to be a vet that badly.
Anyway, that's besides the point. She really hates me for still pursuing vet med. Even if I just mention animals, she gets crazy bitter and weird about it. We went to a county fair one time and I wanted to go see the animals. She said, "I don't need to see the animals because I have an animal science degree." ....okay.. I almost have one..so should I not go see the animals? I dunno.
I did my best to be as compassionate as possible because I knew she was really discouraged about being rejected. She gave up so easily, though. I try to never speak about vet school, but it's kind of hard since I'm applying this cycle and it's kind of the center of my life lately. Her kitty got sick recently and she involved me in her treatment plan by telling me about it and occasionally asking me questions. I said something she didn't want to hear (something factual about pre-anesthetic blood work being necessary, especially in her case), and she blocked me.
Totally not complaining, it is what it is. I just wanted to see if anyone else has had a similar experience? And perhaps how you dealt with it? This is a close friend of mine, and I really hate to lose her over this, but I really don't know what to do. I can't imagine how she would be toward me once I actually go (assuming I get in at some point) to vet school.
Anyway, that's besides the point. She really hates me for still pursuing vet med. Even if I just mention animals, she gets crazy bitter and weird about it. We went to a county fair one time and I wanted to go see the animals. She said, "I don't need to see the animals because I have an animal science degree." ....okay.. I almost have one..so should I not go see the animals? I dunno.
I did my best to be as compassionate as possible because I knew she was really discouraged about being rejected. She gave up so easily, though. I try to never speak about vet school, but it's kind of hard since I'm applying this cycle and it's kind of the center of my life lately. Her kitty got sick recently and she involved me in her treatment plan by telling me about it and occasionally asking me questions. I said something she didn't want to hear (something factual about pre-anesthetic blood work being necessary, especially in her case), and she blocked me.
Totally not complaining, it is what it is. I just wanted to see if anyone else has had a similar experience? And perhaps how you dealt with it? This is a close friend of mine, and I really hate to lose her over this, but I really don't know what to do. I can't imagine how she would be toward me once I actually go (assuming I get in at some point) to vet school.