Ah yeah, the ap + p/f thing occurred to me after I posted. Thanks for clarifying.
I agree that successful applications to a large extent look the same (in their own special little snowflake sorts of ways of course) whether you are non-trad or trad. I think the important message here is that med schools are looking for people who are:
- academically and emotionally capable of performing in both pre-clinical and clinical environments
- have explored the field enough to be at least somewhat aware of the sacrifices/challenges/triumphs/banalities involved in the training and the career
- socially conscious enough to be trusted to put other people's needs ahead of their own for a very long time
That's it pretty much. Meeting the academic challenge is harder once you've screwed up your gpa as a young'un, and meeting the emotional one is harder if you haven't lived very long. Exploring the field can be limited by available time whether you're 19 or 35 with three kids - neither person has necessarily had a ton of free time to really get into the nitty gritty of the medical profession.
I think what is different for many non-trads though is the level of sacrifice required to pursue medicine, simply by virtue of actually having something to trade.
A trad isn't giving anything tangible up by pursuing medicine, and I believe that that fact makes it easier to jump through some of the hoops emotionally, and quite possibly financially. And I think the awareness of sacrifice can look like entitlement (and in some cases it actually is entitlement). Especially when some people feel like changing careers should stand as proof of commitment.
That said, I just approached it as a resume and job interview. I got sick of the repetitiveness and the expense, and the juggling of travel with work, but those are universal. I felt like I had a pretty significant advantage overall due to being older. (Comparing myself now to myself then I definitely did, and that's really the only comparison I can make.)