grandslam521 said:
What does everyone think about discussing ones sexuality in essays? I imagine it can help you in some cirumstances as being more diverse and understanding of diversity in others. However, besides the obvious conservative schools (Loma Linda, Albert Einstien, etc) do you think this could hurt you? Despite some school's policy of not discriminating based on sexual orientation, do you think many still do?
You know, this topic has come up many times, and in the end, I always think the same thing: Keep it to yourself.
Your sexuality is a "don't ask, don't tell" topic, and it has NO place in your profession. People on here will have you think that, if it's a big part of your life and means a lot to you (aka it is "relevant") then you should include it.
It is never relevant.
Does it make you a more diverse applicant? Perhaps. I say "perhaps" because, nowadays, EVERYTHING makes you a more diverse applicant. Every morning when I dress, I start with my left sock. Wow, that makes me so unique and I have the added insight and perspective of a person who starts his day with socks first, I should go add that to my personal statement.
Will it hurt you? Probably. If I were on the admission end, I personally wouldn't give a rat's ass if you are straight, gay, bi, transexual, asexual, whatever. However, telling me what your sexual orientation is would make me uncomfortable (REGARDLESS of whether you are straight, gay, bi, whatever) and it would make me wonder why you feel compelled to reveal such a thing, when, as a professional, it would have no place in your line of work. The argument "gay doctors are better for the concerns of gay patients" is BOGUS. ANY professional doctor will be equipped to handle and accomodate those concerns. Here's another bad impression that I would have: I would also suspect that you were trying to pitch your sexuality as a selling point (i.e. "hey look at me I'm a super diverse applicant") and that would rub me the wrong way.
So, in my opinion, you should keep it to yourself.