Hey Agent, Keep your head up! That is the one thing you have to remember and the one thing your cousin needs to remember. There is nothing more important than one's own will to fight it off.
My step mom died of ovarian cancer about 5 years back. My mom was diagnosed with breast cancer about 3 years ago. Two years ago my mom found out that it had moved to her brain. Last year, she "woke" up in a catatonic state. The cancer she has is a very aggressive cancer. After about a month in the hospital, we finally found a surgeon to fly in who was filling to chance the surgery. As it turns out, after much chemotherapy and radiation, after multiple surgeries, after much saddness, after losing all hope (only myself), my mom has been free of brain cancer for about a year. That day they told me my mom had hours left to live and that she probably wouldn't make it through the night, but she did. My mom is type of person who is very religious and has never lost hope. Not at all, even when I had lost hope.
Today my mom is almost totally recovered, except she still doesnt have any hair. A few months after her brain surgeries, it was discovered that cancer had shown up in her pubic bone. Our doctor switched the chemo and radiation and it was just discovered that the cancer there is also gone.
So Agent, doctors had a part in this, but it wasn't all of them and it wasn't all luck. Your cousin, as well as everyone around her needs to keep up hope and faith. I hope you have faith, because it is the only way that you will make it through. You have to give your problsm to the Lord. Ha ha... I never thought I would say that, but that is what my mom has always told me and I only now truly believe it.
Best of wishes.
" I believe in Christianity as I believe that the sun has risen, not only because I see it, but because by it I see everything else. " --C.S. Lewis