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I have to be honest…..I always thought this job would kill me.
I did think it would take a little longer than this though….like a slow death. Over time this line of work would just wear me down to a shell of my former self, and then one day I would just fade into the myst like a mythic warrior or something. Like I would be absorbed into the ether, or called up to heaven directly like Elijah (for those of u who are biblical). My grand plan was to take the fortune I had amassed over my lifetime and pay off an OR charge nurse and newspaper obit reporter to write that I had died tragically during a redo penis reduction surgery….but a man can only dream.
Because let’s keep it real now….most of us don’t exactly have the best habits. We eat too much garbage…fast food, late night pizza delivery, vending machines…..most of us drink a lot (at least I do)….I read something recently about how detrimental lack of sleep is to your health. Apparently sleep experts say that even a car alarm going off in the middle of the night interrupts ur micro-sleep (even if u don’t remember it) and has a profound impact on your health….it went on to say you should wear one of those girly eye masks and ear plugs every night….just in case!!!! I mean Jesus, if the average person should put themselves in a deprivation chamber every night to have a chance at a good long healthy life what the hell do those of us with a pager do about that….compound that interest if you’re a surgeon who has to get out of bed in the middle of the night?!?! Multiply x 1000 if u do trauma, transplant or ECMO? Based on that I should probably drop dead any minute anyway, which certainly makes this whole COVID thing less impactful on my overall health.
Perusing social media though the fear is real….doctors, nurses, all essential hospical personnel……terrified that this could kill them. Because make no bones about it, this virus can kill you and me and anyone else. It’s especially grave for those of us working in healthcare that can’t just shelter in place all day….like the gamblers on wall street, politicians, athletes, JCAHO, insurance company CEOs….**** they’re staying home where it’s safe!!
It might make you reflect on your own mortality, which doesn’t seem unreasonable. For the record I personally have almost died a few times, and each one was very different emotionally. I was in a motorcycle accident once in college, before a career in medicine took over….bright sunny day, I was on a 4 lane road in the right most lane with a car to my immediate left. A nice lady in a big SUV pulled up at a stop sign intersection, looked right at me, and pulled out right in front of me. So my options were either to hit the car on my left, hit the lady in the SUV, or fly into the ditch and take my chances and wrestle the monster bike through it. You get about a fraction of a second to decide this btw…..but time slows down dramatically. I remember looking at all the cars around me, I remember looking at my side mirror to calculate if I decided to crash if someone behind me would then run over me. No great options I thought, but in the split second I chose the ditch. Man that hurt, when I finally came to a stop that is. I flew off the bike and wound up in the grass looking up at the sky. I could hear the engine sputtering along and thinking I hope it’s not about to land on me, but really I remember thinking to myself….I really don’t want to die. That’s all I could think…I just really wanted to live. More than anything and more than ever before. In the end I was fine of course…..youth is wasted on the young and all. Bike got trashed but I just had scrapes and bruises….I gave up riding them though (not right away because some of us are smarter than others). Just to clue u in to how sick I am I actually miss riding motocycles…and I’ve decided that if COVID doesn’t kill me I’m going to go buy a really fast one, and take it up in the hills and lean into the turns going way too fast….because why not.
Another time I almost died was on an organ procurement…and we’ve all heard about harvest teams going down in planes and helicopters. It’s always in the back of ur mind I guess…although I usually enjoy them (maybe better not to explore the psychology). I’ve gotten to the point where I don’t tell my wife when I go out on these because it turns her into an emotional wreck….probably not the worst thing I’ve kept from her. I flew somewhere once to pick up a heart and was flying back….hadn’t slept much in days and as any good transplant surgeon knows the flight back is the best! Can’t be paged or called, so turn off the lights and tell the coordinators and students not to wake u under any circumstances. So when my medical student woke up before landing my initial thought was….less than professional. To her credit though she’s a good person….I noticed right away she was shaking. Terrified and at a loss for words, she said “Dr. Thanatos umm…I think u should put ur seatbelt on” This plane was rocking…I felt like I was in a washing machine…..and I was sleeping through this??? Jeez that’s impressive in and of itself….i looked out the window and we were about to land. I could see the ground sort of, it was raining and lightning was flashing, the wind was clearly pushing our little plane around at a whim. This is how ants must feel when a kid burns them with a magnifying glass…just at the mercy of a much more powerful force you can’t even wrap your head around. In a small plane you can look straight ahead and see out the windshield…..and the horizon was oscillating at like 3000 hz. The pilots were panicking and I can tell u that’s really, really not comforting……which is why I never panic in the OR incidentally. Transplant fellowship was a long year, and I remember looking out the window and thinking well……I guess this is it. But time didn’t slow down this time, to be honest I didn’t feel anything really. Maybe that’s what 10 years of continuous fatigue and abuse do to you, it’s almost like I was just angry. I remember thinking **** it…I hope we hit something hard, I don’t want to limp away from this disaster. If I survive they’ll probably make me fish the cooler out of the smoldering heap of ash and go back to work, and frankly I’d rather be dead. So let’s bring this thing down like we mean it, I hope the degenerates who accepted this organ for transplant die of cancer of the eyes. We landed and after skidding around the runway for a bit I lived after all……
I guess what I’m trying to say is that training had caused me to have less faith in humanity in general anyway. Anne Frank, before she died in the holocaust, said that despite everything she still believes people are good at heart….clearly she didn’t do a general surgery residency. Because after that if u come out on the other side still thinking that people are inherently benevolent then you’re a better person than I am….that may not be saying much but still kudos to you, I’ll recommend you for sainthood. But as this thing gets uglier and darker, I’m not surprised by any of it.
Which kinda brings me to the other big observation here….once you get past the fear, the other universal response I’m seeing from us frontline essential workers is anger….shock, betrayal, fury…….at the lack of PPE, lack of response from the powers that be, disgust at the lack of coordination and disinformation by the white house and hospital administrations.
But taking the sum total of all of your experiences in health care, from your first day up until now….are you surpised? Like really surprised? I mean don’t get me wrong, the lack of equipment and preparation and etc is totally criminal……but are you really all that shocked??
As physicians we’re all alone in all of this. Period. But we always have been…..all it takes is a pandemic to make this all the more obvious. I would argue though it’s always been this way, just in less dramatic fashion…..Remember the first time you had to discharge someone on a weekend and there was no social worker? Or when you had to write TPN orders on holidays because nutrition didn’t come in (they would then come in the next day and criticize u harshly for getting the selenium dose incorrect). How many times have you skipped a meal, been NPO inadvertently for 12 hours just to have JCAHO yell at you for drinking coffee in the hallway? How much **** have you had to eat for forgetting to take off a mask in the hallway after a 12 hour operation where the person died and you’re still wrapping your head around it. Ever work for 2 straight days non-stop and have someone lecture you about missing a committee meeting that could have been addressed with a short email? Did you ever think this was a team sport really? How many times have you gone to a meeting and raised concerns about something…..was it ever taken seriously? Did anything ever change??
Again don’t get me wrong….it’s tragic. But none of you really thought that administration had ur back right?? Did you think the politicans would do the right thing by us at the end of the day? If one of your colleagues got sick, missed work or literally dropped dead did you ever think they wouldn’t just step over your corpse and tell your partners or co-residents to get back to work?? Remember the resident who committed suicide in NYC and their coworkers had to walk past the body on the way to work….it’s almost straight out of house of god. And after having one of the most litigious work environments ever, with individual surgical outcomes reporting without any qualifiers for people doing high risk work….now New York is begging people to come out of retirement to help, they’ll even put you up at the Four Seasons.
It’s poetic that those of us essential personnel are taking the risks boldly and some of us will die….but is that surprising either? I’m so proud to be an essential healthcare worker… and the news has been so inspiring…..healthcare workers putting on hefty trash bags and bandanas and going to work. Because that’s who we are….who we’ve always been. Older physicians with underlying health problems feel guilty for not coming in……they try to help with telemedicine. Medical student are volunteering to graduate early and join us in the battle….nurses and Pas have stepped up big, people are re-deploying throughout the hospital to find ways to help. I predict they’ll keep doing it, we all will until the war is over and then we’ll see where we are……it’s all we can think of to do so it is what it is…..
But how many other people are secretly, quietly right now……..looking right, looking left….and saying to their jobs, **** this I’m outta here. If you can’t protect me I’m not bringing this home to my kids, my spouse, my parents. People who can retire may quietly go out into the night and not look back right now…..but what about after this is all over?
To me that’s the real question…..how many will leave after all of this? And how many will never sign up for this career now? Like I say above, I think we always knew. But having the system turn on u, dramatically in your face….that’s gonna be hard to get over for a lot of people. Once the crisis has passed, and everyone’s reflexive sacrificial burdens have passed….a lot of people will peace out of this. And who can blame them?
Today our administration said that if we find ourselves in a real scarcity that healthcare workers wouldn’t get any priority over other people, because it wouldn’t look fair to the public otherwise. I guess I agree with that…..in a John Stuart Mill Utilitarian type of way you can argue it though……… I’m trying not to take it personally. Although if I get this deadly virus at work trying to save a life, and they prioritize some guy who got it on spring break at the beach I will come back and haunt him if he lives and I don’t, but that just seems fair. So maybe I am taking it personally….
I put a COVID patient on ECMO yesterday…..got a real big dose of the mean version of this virus. I feel fine, and I’m not afraid really…..maybe if I’ve done enough good to outweigh the bad, and I’ll have a nice place to go in the afterlife if I die. But probably not My best friend is another transplant surgeon who does ECMO, we started fellowship together on the same day and both stayed on as staff…….we got together on my patio last weekend (6 feet apart) and drank most of a bottle of bourbon. I told him what I would want for myself, because my wife and family aren’t equipped for this type of decision making, but he would do for me what would need to be done, good or bad. In any event I’ll probably live, I have enough bad habits to be a positive prognostic indicator. I was still hoping this would take a bit longer to kill me though…I’m not as scared as I am disappointed. But I’m not surprised....
I did think it would take a little longer than this though….like a slow death. Over time this line of work would just wear me down to a shell of my former self, and then one day I would just fade into the myst like a mythic warrior or something. Like I would be absorbed into the ether, or called up to heaven directly like Elijah (for those of u who are biblical). My grand plan was to take the fortune I had amassed over my lifetime and pay off an OR charge nurse and newspaper obit reporter to write that I had died tragically during a redo penis reduction surgery….but a man can only dream.
Because let’s keep it real now….most of us don’t exactly have the best habits. We eat too much garbage…fast food, late night pizza delivery, vending machines…..most of us drink a lot (at least I do)….I read something recently about how detrimental lack of sleep is to your health. Apparently sleep experts say that even a car alarm going off in the middle of the night interrupts ur micro-sleep (even if u don’t remember it) and has a profound impact on your health….it went on to say you should wear one of those girly eye masks and ear plugs every night….just in case!!!! I mean Jesus, if the average person should put themselves in a deprivation chamber every night to have a chance at a good long healthy life what the hell do those of us with a pager do about that….compound that interest if you’re a surgeon who has to get out of bed in the middle of the night?!?! Multiply x 1000 if u do trauma, transplant or ECMO? Based on that I should probably drop dead any minute anyway, which certainly makes this whole COVID thing less impactful on my overall health.
Perusing social media though the fear is real….doctors, nurses, all essential hospical personnel……terrified that this could kill them. Because make no bones about it, this virus can kill you and me and anyone else. It’s especially grave for those of us working in healthcare that can’t just shelter in place all day….like the gamblers on wall street, politicians, athletes, JCAHO, insurance company CEOs….**** they’re staying home where it’s safe!!
It might make you reflect on your own mortality, which doesn’t seem unreasonable. For the record I personally have almost died a few times, and each one was very different emotionally. I was in a motorcycle accident once in college, before a career in medicine took over….bright sunny day, I was on a 4 lane road in the right most lane with a car to my immediate left. A nice lady in a big SUV pulled up at a stop sign intersection, looked right at me, and pulled out right in front of me. So my options were either to hit the car on my left, hit the lady in the SUV, or fly into the ditch and take my chances and wrestle the monster bike through it. You get about a fraction of a second to decide this btw…..but time slows down dramatically. I remember looking at all the cars around me, I remember looking at my side mirror to calculate if I decided to crash if someone behind me would then run over me. No great options I thought, but in the split second I chose the ditch. Man that hurt, when I finally came to a stop that is. I flew off the bike and wound up in the grass looking up at the sky. I could hear the engine sputtering along and thinking I hope it’s not about to land on me, but really I remember thinking to myself….I really don’t want to die. That’s all I could think…I just really wanted to live. More than anything and more than ever before. In the end I was fine of course…..youth is wasted on the young and all. Bike got trashed but I just had scrapes and bruises….I gave up riding them though (not right away because some of us are smarter than others). Just to clue u in to how sick I am I actually miss riding motocycles…and I’ve decided that if COVID doesn’t kill me I’m going to go buy a really fast one, and take it up in the hills and lean into the turns going way too fast….because why not.
Another time I almost died was on an organ procurement…and we’ve all heard about harvest teams going down in planes and helicopters. It’s always in the back of ur mind I guess…although I usually enjoy them (maybe better not to explore the psychology). I’ve gotten to the point where I don’t tell my wife when I go out on these because it turns her into an emotional wreck….probably not the worst thing I’ve kept from her. I flew somewhere once to pick up a heart and was flying back….hadn’t slept much in days and as any good transplant surgeon knows the flight back is the best! Can’t be paged or called, so turn off the lights and tell the coordinators and students not to wake u under any circumstances. So when my medical student woke up before landing my initial thought was….less than professional. To her credit though she’s a good person….I noticed right away she was shaking. Terrified and at a loss for words, she said “Dr. Thanatos umm…I think u should put ur seatbelt on” This plane was rocking…I felt like I was in a washing machine…..and I was sleeping through this??? Jeez that’s impressive in and of itself….i looked out the window and we were about to land. I could see the ground sort of, it was raining and lightning was flashing, the wind was clearly pushing our little plane around at a whim. This is how ants must feel when a kid burns them with a magnifying glass…just at the mercy of a much more powerful force you can’t even wrap your head around. In a small plane you can look straight ahead and see out the windshield…..and the horizon was oscillating at like 3000 hz. The pilots were panicking and I can tell u that’s really, really not comforting……which is why I never panic in the OR incidentally. Transplant fellowship was a long year, and I remember looking out the window and thinking well……I guess this is it. But time didn’t slow down this time, to be honest I didn’t feel anything really. Maybe that’s what 10 years of continuous fatigue and abuse do to you, it’s almost like I was just angry. I remember thinking **** it…I hope we hit something hard, I don’t want to limp away from this disaster. If I survive they’ll probably make me fish the cooler out of the smoldering heap of ash and go back to work, and frankly I’d rather be dead. So let’s bring this thing down like we mean it, I hope the degenerates who accepted this organ for transplant die of cancer of the eyes. We landed and after skidding around the runway for a bit I lived after all……
I guess what I’m trying to say is that training had caused me to have less faith in humanity in general anyway. Anne Frank, before she died in the holocaust, said that despite everything she still believes people are good at heart….clearly she didn’t do a general surgery residency. Because after that if u come out on the other side still thinking that people are inherently benevolent then you’re a better person than I am….that may not be saying much but still kudos to you, I’ll recommend you for sainthood. But as this thing gets uglier and darker, I’m not surprised by any of it.
Which kinda brings me to the other big observation here….once you get past the fear, the other universal response I’m seeing from us frontline essential workers is anger….shock, betrayal, fury…….at the lack of PPE, lack of response from the powers that be, disgust at the lack of coordination and disinformation by the white house and hospital administrations.
But taking the sum total of all of your experiences in health care, from your first day up until now….are you surpised? Like really surprised? I mean don’t get me wrong, the lack of equipment and preparation and etc is totally criminal……but are you really all that shocked??
As physicians we’re all alone in all of this. Period. But we always have been…..all it takes is a pandemic to make this all the more obvious. I would argue though it’s always been this way, just in less dramatic fashion…..Remember the first time you had to discharge someone on a weekend and there was no social worker? Or when you had to write TPN orders on holidays because nutrition didn’t come in (they would then come in the next day and criticize u harshly for getting the selenium dose incorrect). How many times have you skipped a meal, been NPO inadvertently for 12 hours just to have JCAHO yell at you for drinking coffee in the hallway? How much **** have you had to eat for forgetting to take off a mask in the hallway after a 12 hour operation where the person died and you’re still wrapping your head around it. Ever work for 2 straight days non-stop and have someone lecture you about missing a committee meeting that could have been addressed with a short email? Did you ever think this was a team sport really? How many times have you gone to a meeting and raised concerns about something…..was it ever taken seriously? Did anything ever change??
Again don’t get me wrong….it’s tragic. But none of you really thought that administration had ur back right?? Did you think the politicans would do the right thing by us at the end of the day? If one of your colleagues got sick, missed work or literally dropped dead did you ever think they wouldn’t just step over your corpse and tell your partners or co-residents to get back to work?? Remember the resident who committed suicide in NYC and their coworkers had to walk past the body on the way to work….it’s almost straight out of house of god. And after having one of the most litigious work environments ever, with individual surgical outcomes reporting without any qualifiers for people doing high risk work….now New York is begging people to come out of retirement to help, they’ll even put you up at the Four Seasons.
It’s poetic that those of us essential personnel are taking the risks boldly and some of us will die….but is that surprising either? I’m so proud to be an essential healthcare worker… and the news has been so inspiring…..healthcare workers putting on hefty trash bags and bandanas and going to work. Because that’s who we are….who we’ve always been. Older physicians with underlying health problems feel guilty for not coming in……they try to help with telemedicine. Medical student are volunteering to graduate early and join us in the battle….nurses and Pas have stepped up big, people are re-deploying throughout the hospital to find ways to help. I predict they’ll keep doing it, we all will until the war is over and then we’ll see where we are……it’s all we can think of to do so it is what it is…..
But how many other people are secretly, quietly right now……..looking right, looking left….and saying to their jobs, **** this I’m outta here. If you can’t protect me I’m not bringing this home to my kids, my spouse, my parents. People who can retire may quietly go out into the night and not look back right now…..but what about after this is all over?
To me that’s the real question…..how many will leave after all of this? And how many will never sign up for this career now? Like I say above, I think we always knew. But having the system turn on u, dramatically in your face….that’s gonna be hard to get over for a lot of people. Once the crisis has passed, and everyone’s reflexive sacrificial burdens have passed….a lot of people will peace out of this. And who can blame them?
Today our administration said that if we find ourselves in a real scarcity that healthcare workers wouldn’t get any priority over other people, because it wouldn’t look fair to the public otherwise. I guess I agree with that…..in a John Stuart Mill Utilitarian type of way you can argue it though……… I’m trying not to take it personally. Although if I get this deadly virus at work trying to save a life, and they prioritize some guy who got it on spring break at the beach I will come back and haunt him if he lives and I don’t, but that just seems fair. So maybe I am taking it personally….
I put a COVID patient on ECMO yesterday…..got a real big dose of the mean version of this virus. I feel fine, and I’m not afraid really…..maybe if I’ve done enough good to outweigh the bad, and I’ll have a nice place to go in the afterlife if I die. But probably not My best friend is another transplant surgeon who does ECMO, we started fellowship together on the same day and both stayed on as staff…….we got together on my patio last weekend (6 feet apart) and drank most of a bottle of bourbon. I told him what I would want for myself, because my wife and family aren’t equipped for this type of decision making, but he would do for me what would need to be done, good or bad. In any event I’ll probably live, I have enough bad habits to be a positive prognostic indicator. I was still hoping this would take a bit longer to kill me though…I’m not as scared as I am disappointed. But I’m not surprised....