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If a gal has been married 5 times and is on the verge of divorce, the problem is with HER. Absolutely with her. Regardless of how horrible her partners are, there is a psychological reason why SHE is repeatedly picking back partners, and divorcing one bad partner and moving on to the next bad partner won't change anything in HER life. SHE needs to get counseling so SHE can make better choices. PERIOD. This is YOU! Regardless of how wrong pharmacy is for you, "divorcing" pharmacy and moving on to the next bad career choice won't change anything in your life, YOU need to get counseling to figure out how YOU can make better career choices for YOU!
Emphatically seconded! Yes, PAtoPharm the woman in your example should definitely get divorced, but before she even thinks about getting married again, she should get therapy so that she can avoid this situation in the future. A counselor isn't going to tell her, "Well, you should have married Bob instead of Steve, there's your problem!" A good counselor also wouldn't say, "Well, just don't ever get married again, problem solved!" Her counselor is going to help her figure out why she gravitates towards losers and how to spot them early on and prevent this situation from happening again.