I think I'm starting to lose it.
I'm so frustrated by why I am not doing well in school. I don't understand why I can't force myself to just sit down and study and get the work done.
My GPA is a 2.3 right now and this is my 4th year at school. I haven't taken physics or biochem yet, and I thought I had the movitation to do o.chem this year, but turns out I was wrong and so I withdrew to avoid getting an F.
I don't know what the problem is. I was at the top of my class in high school. I feel like I know what I need to do to do well in college, but for some reason I just can't get it done. It is almost like I lack the discipline to force myself to get it done. I know what needs to be done, but I just don't do it. I don't get what changed. And strangley I did well my first semester of college, and then things went to hell after that. Nothing physically changed about me. I don't party or drink or anything like that.
Now my grades suck, I wont get to graduate with my class, and I don't know what the heck to do to get myself back on track so I can go to dental school.
One problem is that I have lived at home w/ my mom who is a single parent and my younger sister who is 9, while working and going to school. Could it be that there is just too many distractions in my life that are not allowing me to really focus on school?
Would leaving home to live on campus in a dorm really solve anything? I already paid for a dorm for next semeter, but I really want to make sure it will actually be beneficial before I make such a huge comminment and change.
Also I don't know if I should stay at this school and just focus on graduating or if I should transfer next year and get kind of a fresh start or if I should graduate and try to do a post bac. The only problem is I don't know if I could transfer since I am only 2 classes away from getting my bio degree and I don't know if they would let me transfer all that since some school require you complete a certain percentage of your degree at their school. I almost have my bio degree but i still need like 30-35 more credits to actually graduate and I have all but two of my general graduation requirements done.
This is just eating away at me. I don't want to play this game anymore. I want to do well in school and get into dental school so bad. I went and talked with the prehealth advisor and she told me she had no idea what to tell me.
What do you guys think? Any other suggestions? Giving up is not an option. I didn't work so hard to get into college just to give up. I've got to get this straighten out or I'm going to go crazy.
I know where you are coming from.
I had similar experience. In my case, I transfered but that was because I had only finish one year of college so the transfer wasn't too hard.
THis might sound harsh but dude.. but it seem like your problem is that you're lazy. It can't be that you're unfocused because you know you want to go into dentistry. You keep on saying you know what to do, but you won't do it. I'm sorry if I sound harsh, but sometimes you need to hear it to really believe something you've known yourself.
Now.... IF I were you this is what I would do.
I would fight it out this semester. Take a semester off and just get away -Go travel.... learn something ( try sky-diving.. or swimming if you don't know how) that you thought you can't learn, trust me the confidence you get when you learn something you thought was hard is really inspiring and can really help you gain an "I can do anything attitude".
Then come back next year and really fight it out. If you can dorm I think it'll be really beneficial for you.
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SO the first year you come back you should find GPA booster classes and take as many as I can to help boost your confidence In addition to fullfilling your science requirements. It's so important to feel that getting an "A" is possible.
The second year will be used as both the redeeming year and the beginning year.
By redeeming I mean
1) take more science classes to raise your Science GPA. You should also repeat any basic science course that you did really bad in.
2) Take more GPA boosters classes- choose classes that also shows you're diverse in terms of academic interests if possible.. like.. pottery or music.. (piano...ect..)
3) seeks letters of recommendation
Your GPA should be decent at the end of the second year.
In May. of the second year. Start applying to Dental schools.
Map out a study plan for the DAT. Shoot for 20+
try to have your DAT done by the end of AUgust.. at the latest. But if you think an extra week will give you more confidence in obtaining a higher score then go for it.
Before you know it... interview invites will start flowing in...
Use the third year to work, save up money while going through the application/interview process and try to enjoy your youth. Go travel! Hopefully, you'll get accepted by Dec 1st so you can go ahead and enjoy your break before dental school starts..
Goodluck!
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Really, I think you can come back from all this. Like Mi
👍 ke says "Just Do it!"