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I'm sorry this application cycle did not turn out so great. I think your husband should start taking the bus and you should retake a few science classes and take advantage of the grade replacement and get some new LORs. Take out some loans if you are low on cash because your sgpa needs to improve a bit. Drink a lot of coffee to stay awake. It's going to suck for a while, but if you improve your gpa, you will have a higher chance of getting in. Don't retake your mcat, 29 is a competitive score. And don't worry about being 25, there are a lot of people starting medical school at 30.While any advice is appreciated, I'm really only posting this because I'm 100% confident that my story will make everyone else feel so much better about their own lives, even if you've re-applied 5 times.
So, I applied this last year to 8 different DO programs. I was invited to interview at 3 schools, attended 2 of them (the third was only for a wait list position or for the following year and I also had no more money to travel across country and lose work for three nights), and have been placed on the wait list for both schools.
I've sent a letter of intent to my first choice and a letter of interest to my second choice, called the schools several times, and still am no better off. Both schools said they were almost full by the time I interviewed and from what I've read on these forums, people have already been getting pulled off their wait lists for weeks.
My prognosis: Not good at all.
At this point I'm at a loss of what to do. I've thought about re-applying, but there's absolutely nothing I can do to improve my application. I got my bachelor's a year and a half ago. My sGPA is 3.12 while my cGPA is 3.41. Both times taking the MCAT I got a 29O with the same subscores a year apart. I have a wide range of extracurriculars, from working at a chiropractor's clinic for a summer to volunteering with special needs children for a semester (I transferred to another school out of state the following term) to shadowing a cardiologist for about 25 hours.
Since January I've worked as a patient sitter, meaning that I sit in the room with suicide attempts, psych patients, and the elderly who might accidentally hurt themselves due to dementia (ie: jumping out of bed, pulling out foleys or IVs). I work at least 40 hours a week, sometimes more.
My problem is that I am out of time and money. I work midnights for the shift premium and because my husband and I only have one car that we have to share. He works retail making minimum wage and his hours vary every day, so I can't commit to any volunteering because I have to either drop off or pick up my husband every day. I also have a hard time sleeping during the day and have already almost fallen asleep on the job or behind the wheel multiple times, so I physically can't sacrifice more sleep so that I can volunteer or shadow.
I also wouldn't be able to pay to re-apply. I don't know how some of you apply to 15+ schools because I nearly drained all my savings applying to 8 schools what with having to pay for the applications, flying out to interviews, hotel rooms, rental cars, and buying my first suit. Nobody in my family has any money to spare, and I can't afford to retake the MCAT or to retake any old courses that were less than stellar due to lack of funds and my inability to take extra days off work.
I also don't have anybody new who could write new LORs for me. I've been out of school for almost 2 years, so I'm not sure if my old professors would be able to write super-impressive new letters for me. I also get zero contact with physicians since I work every night from 11p-730a. All the physicians are gone except for the ones on-call and they rush in to see patients and then rush out to tend to their next page. The only people I ever come into contact with are nurses, nursing assistants, lab techs, transporters, other sitters, and the occasional house PA.
Every friend, classmate, and family member my age are either finishing up their grad programs or have already finished and are working their dream job, even ones several years younger than me. Examples include becoming published authors, finishing law school, earning PhDs, etc. I've only ever had one dream, which is to become a physician, but because of past mistakes and a current horrible financial situation I'm afraid that I've already dug my own grave. I've stopped talking to friends and family because I'm so ashamed of myself and because my life has turned into a joke compared to theirs. I'm almost 25 working barely above minimum wage as a glorified babysitter and took nearly 6 years to get my bachelor's. :cry:
Short of faking my own death and living by myself in the woods I don't see any options.
Like I said, I am a complete loser, but if anything I hope I've made some people laugh and/or feel better about their own lives.
While any advice is appreciated, I'm really only posting this because I'm 100% confident that my story will make everyone else feel so much better about their own lives, even if you've re-applied 5 times.
So, I applied this last year to 8 different DO programs. I was invited to interview at 3 schools, attended 2 of them (the third was only for a wait list position or for the following year and I also had no more money to travel across country and lose work for three nights), and have been placed on the wait list for both schools.
I've sent a letter of intent to my first choice and a letter of interest to my second choice, called the schools several times, and still am no better off. Both schools said they were almost full by the time I interviewed and from what I've read on these forums, people have already been getting pulled off their wait lists for weeks.
My prognosis: Not good at all.
At this point I'm at a loss of what to do. I've thought about re-applying, but there's absolutely nothing I can do to improve my application. I got my bachelor's a year and a half ago. My sGPA is 3.12 while my cGPA is 3.41. Both times taking the MCAT I got a 29O with the same subscores a year apart. I have a wide range of extracurriculars, from working at a chiropractor's clinic for a summer to volunteering with special needs children for a semester (I transferred to another school out of state the following term) to shadowing a cardiologist for about 25 hours.
Since January I've worked as a patient sitter, meaning that I sit in the room with suicide attempts, psych patients, and the elderly who might accidentally hurt themselves due to dementia (ie: jumping out of bed, pulling out foleys or IVs). I work at least 40 hours a week, sometimes more.
My problem is that I am out of time and money. I work midnights for the shift premium and because my husband and I only have one car that we have to share. He works retail making minimum wage and his hours vary every day, so I can't commit to any volunteering because I have to either drop off or pick up my husband every day. I also have a hard time sleeping during the day and have already almost fallen asleep on the job or behind the wheel multiple times, so I physically can't sacrifice more sleep so that I can volunteer or shadow.
I also wouldn't be able to pay to re-apply. I don't know how some of you apply to 15+ schools because I nearly drained all my savings applying to 8 schools what with having to pay for the applications, flying out to interviews, hotel rooms, rental cars, and buying my first suit. Nobody in my family has any money to spare, and I can't afford to retake the MCAT or to retake any old courses that were less than stellar due to lack of funds and my inability to take extra days off work.
I also don't have anybody new who could write new LORs for me. I've been out of school for almost 2 years, so I'm not sure if my old professors would be able to write super-impressive new letters for me. I also get zero contact with physicians since I work every night from 11p-730a. All the physicians are gone except for the ones on-call and they rush in to see patients and then rush out to tend to their next page. The only people I ever come into contact with are nurses, nursing assistants, lab techs, transporters, other sitters, and the occasional house PA.
Every friend, classmate, and family member my age are either finishing up their grad programs or have already finished and are working their dream job, even ones several years younger than me. Examples include becoming published authors, finishing law school, earning PhDs, etc. I've only ever had one dream, which is to become a physician, but because of past mistakes and a current horrible financial situation I'm afraid that I've already dug my own grave. I've stopped talking to friends and family because I'm so ashamed of myself and because my life has turned into a joke compared to theirs. I'm almost 25 working barely above minimum wage as a glorified babysitter and took nearly 6 years to get my bachelor's. :cry:
Short of faking my own death and living by myself in the woods I don't see any options.
Like I said, I am a complete loser, but if anything I hope I've made some people laugh and/or feel better about their own lives.
There are men applying to med school as late as 50, but for women if we ever want to have healthy children there's a much smaller window period for how much time we can take to apply to schools, attend, and finish residency. However, I'm never going to have kids unless I become a physician, so I guess it won't be an issue unless I get into a school first.
We have no public transit where I live. Scratch that, we do have buses but they are never on time and are far and few between.
I'm out of school, so the only loans I could take for MCAT courses or for fixing my GPA are private loans. I doubt I'd be eligible to get one in the first place, but depending on the grace period I could be a med student making no money and they'll hunt me down and sell my kidneys if that's what it takes to get their money back. Private loans are typically a huge mistake.
I already drink huge amounts of caffeine at work but past a few cups nothing works. I've fallen asleep standing up and walking around and have nearly hit my head on MRSA-covered tile floors.
I have no idea how to not feel completely hopeless about my situation. What stings the most is the fact that I have no desire to have any other career. Physician is it. No plan B. Ever. And then I see old classmates finishing med school who only went because their dad is a surgeon and they could afford to go to Honduras every summer to volunteer with medical missions and pay for private tutors, etc. Grr
you work nights, so did a lot of other people. you don't have a lot of money, neither do a lot of other people. you are 25, so were a lot of other people. plus you're on two waitlists and it's not even may 15 yet. if you don't get off a waitlist i suggest stop playing WOW for a few months, get some sleep, apply early, and get some volunteering and shadowing in.