sorry back again with more questions- not sure if i should have started another thread or what but...
for those of you that have spouses and even children also how hard is school?
I ask because several people have told DH that I am going to have one heck of a time and it's going to be hard on us and our family... and I am just wondering if this might be true? I know it will be hard but still am I blindly going into this?
DH says it won't be any worse than what we've dealt with before... may be easier in some ways... I suspect it will be harder having him "home" but not available due to studying... as opposed to in the sandbox so even if he wanted he couldn't help with the house or kids- I am just praying now for understanding and for me not to be irritated if he's not available.
a little background on us
we've got three kids, he's currently military, was a special ops pilot and we've been through at least 8 deployments in about 7 years that we've been married, so separation is nothing new for us, maintaining our home with no relatives within a few states and being the only parent, pregnancies alone etc is nothing new to me.
still I know that deployments are not the same as school day in and day out. the stresses will be different. I figure I will go where God leads us, not so much anxiety until recently when this may very well be a reality...
I am bit stressed I guess about how I will deal with everything I guess.
and depending on which way things go I am also honestly worried about insurance, the possible pay cut (just being honest) especially with three kids.
can someone shed some light on this? thank you again