I'm having ugly flashbacks of my pre-med days when I would do the same thing 😛 This serves as another consideration for the OP though. Are you prepared for this kind of almost constant stress and doubt for the next 4 or so years? (I'm assuming that it would likely take you 4 years to repair your undergrad GPA and complete an SMP). It's truly heinous. Words cannot express the stress you will feel or how low your self-confidence will be.
After going through 4 years of that constant stress, I decided to change careers, and I have never felt more confident and stress-free, honestly. It's not "giving up" to choose a different career. It's smart, shows good insight and maturity, and is overall better for your health.
Hi!
I'm glad you have found inner peace and satisfaction in life. That is most important!
Now let me tell you a bit about my educational background. I'll be honest. I never studied. I mean I never ACTUALLY studied in elementary school, middle school, or high school. "Studying" for me would be glancing at my class notes the night before exams, or memorizing facts and mathematical steps that I KNEW would be on my tests beforehand. I never REALLY understood what I was learning or doing....but I was a diligent student. So what did I get from all that? Straight A's. Teachers loved me. Got me into a selective uni (29% acceptance rate in US).
And this is when I started to struggle. You can't pass college exams with that kind of study habit. But 12+ years of never really learning how to study? The adjustment is huge and it doesn't just take 2 years to simply fix it. That's a recipe for failure!! With the newly found culture shock, it caused me anxiety, low self confidence, depression, and isolation. Now I'm in my second semester of junior year, and I'm slowly raising my exam scores. Let me tell you...it's still not great...but I'm going from low 20-30s to 60-70's on my exams (science classes). And I'm only hoping to continue to increase them.
So what I'm trying to say is that mistakes made in undergrad (when you're 18-22 years old -so young!) really shouldn't determine your entire future. As a to-be 22 year old college graduate next year, I should be finding ways to improve my application and myself to reach my goals in life. Some people don't want to become a doctor or dentist badly enough so they drop out of pre-med/predental once they get a small taste of the stress and slight depression resulted from when they receive low marks from science classes. I have been feeling like I've been sucked into black hole for the past 3 years and I still haven't given up yet I still have not lost my hope or desire to become a dentist. I'm still holding on to that rope, as a young and ambitious 21 year old. Although I should probably work on my mental well being...lol. But I'm still sane, no worries.
I posted this question on SDN to find new insights on how to improve and increase my chances of getting into dental school in the future.
Do people on here think that I haven't heard enough of "Just give up. You have no chance. Why are you even trying? With those grades you're not getting in anywhere. Look for other career options."? ....like seriously. lol
People typically work until they're 65-67 years old. Is a few extra years after undergrad REALLY that much of a waste of time? I'm working towards a stable career that I like. Sure, I can just give up right now and work in an office as an assistant or something (I'm psych major anyways)! Still a decent career...but so UNFULFILLING for ME.
So until I can find where my full potential stops, the race keeps going. If after 4 years of blood, sweat, and tears still doesn't get me into dental school, then I will explore other career options -no problem! That is because I know I have had already given myself a second chance, and I know that I have tried my best.
Still...I'd only be 26! But oh my! I must be old and wrinkly by then. Tsk tsk, I should have used those 4 years to explore and travel the world with a subpar job instead. -->sarcasm detected. What I'm trying to say is that changing careers without even trying is just as dissatisfying and depressing for ME. The only difference is that I have hope when I'm working towards my goal!
"Life is long. Don't settle for less. Always want more in life. Do whatever that makes you happy." is my motto.
Giving up is not in my happy bucket list. And that's just me, personally.
Cheers.