a great friend of my (fellow classmate) described it this way: everything is hard. not necessarily hard in the "it's difficult" sense, but hard in the hardcore sense. (that reads funny!) anyway, i think it's true. you study hard, you play hard...
socially speaking, relationships in particular become hard. i've lost a few friends (gained many more though) and gone through some tough intimacy-related stuff along the way. maybe they weren't good friends to begin with? anyway, more seriously, judging from the number of my classmates who have broken up with long term partners, started new relationships, broken up again and so on, i think this relationship problem deal is an affliction that's wide spread. there's a reason docs have such a high divorce rate. i'm sure lots has been posted on this subject previously.
the other thing i've noticed is that, for me, somewhere along the way, time really became precious. spending 30 minutes on some little project now means a lot more than it used to. i find myself stopping to think about whether i'd be better off studying or doing something fun for those 30 minutes and also what effect that will have on the rest of the stuff i have to do today. sounds anal retentive but there ya' go...
to end this droll speech, i guess i'd say looking back on it, i'm surprised at how in general, medicine has pervaded so much of my life (like basically all of it). i used to have a life, now i have the washington manual. maybe others don't share the same experience, but that's mine.
-drgiggles