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[IrishHammer]

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With the B.A. argument I would have to agree that a B.A. is not require for Pharmacy school b/c there are people without B.A. that are smarter/more qualified for pharmacy school. Bill Gates don't have a B.A. and thats just one example.

However, if a guy makes a girl pay for dinner, that is already saying that the guy don't really care if he impresses her or not b/c he doesn't really care what she thinks. He thinks he doesn't have to put any effort in the relationship. He can just sit back and have a girlfriend without lifting a finger. He wants all the benefits of having a girlfriend but doesn't want to work for any of it. Does that sound like Mr. Right to you?

No, that doesn't sound like Mr. Right. But is that the only possible scenario where the guy doesn't pay for the entire meal? No. Some girls offer to pay for their own dinner and hate when the guy automatically pays for everything.

By the way, if it's so wrong for a guy to want a girlfriend to cater to his every whim without lifting a finger, why should it be any different for the girl? It's all about equality in a partnership, isn't it?

 

[psi1989]

You've questioned my ability to read several times in this thread. Just because I refute something you say that is obviously stupid, it does not mean I can not read. Emptying one's wallet is a figurative expression. This does not mean he gives you his driver's license and Sears Card although I'm sure you'd love those too,...quick look up the resale value! Emptying the wallet means that he is unnecessarily spending on your selfish needs. Spending $80 a date is emptying my wallet. At 2 dates a week, this is $640 contributed by the man and $0.00 by the woman, per month. I am not cheap. I'll treat friends and family...and a girl if I feel like it but she should not expect it. You're not covering dinner. Aren't you the cheap one?

hey ffpickle don't bother with this little baby SHC , she cannot deal with any type of confrontation! can you imagine what kind of pharmacist she may make one day? she thinks her **** don't stank but all she really is is a gold digger (good luck to the poor man that decides to date her in the future!). as in previous threads, just let her little fingers do the typing and her true colors will shine. oh yea, the minute anyone notices conflicting statements she makes, she'll just try to take back what she said or make it seem like she meant something else which is pretty hilarious to say the least.

just beware when you say something that SHC doesn't like, she will get all gangsta on you. she'll start typing in all CAPS and even do this to emphasize her point..or better yet she might start typing all types of obsceneties to the point that SDN starts censoring every other word

if you want a good laugh, just look at the called "what's the worst lie to tell during an interview" in the prepharmacy section! 😀

 

[ffpickle]

You haven't done any refuting at all. The only thing you have done this entire time was call me delusional and disagree with me, but I have yet to hear you tell me 1) a actual REASON why what I am saying is unreasonable. I am kinda curious now b/c I have yet to get one refute from you that isn't just a personal insult to me to stroke your own ego. 🙄
Selfish needs??? OMG, you just PROVED to me and everyone on here that you are cheap. 2) So its selfish for your date to eat? 😱

3) And you can't do math either? $80 dollars a date at 2 dates a week is only $160 dollars. Where did $640 come from? Emptying out someone's wallet means taking A LOT of money out of it. Nothing do to with drivers licenses or sears cards. Again nice try in trying to make me look unreasonable when you are the one that can't reason. 🙄

LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL.

I gotta admit, the money might actually be worth the comedy show known as you.

1) because relationships are based mutual expectations of civility, trust, honesty, and are strengthened by constant renewal and commitment. they are not merely financial investments that you keep pouring money into until one Black Tuesday when you realize you put way more money into the stock than it is worth and suddenly you're in the dating-world equivalent of a bread line. relationships are about empathy and understanding, humor, connections, sincerity, you know......like feelings and ****. no, i don't mean how good you feel when you get a new pair of minolo's...i mean like these emotions that human beings experience. they're free! i find it interesting that you accuse me of being incapable of reasoning but you don't seem to understand the basics of logic yourself. You can't simply say any absurd thing you choose and then ask me to disprove it....this is called an argument from ignorance, i.e. a logical fallcy.....You have proposed this paradigm and so the onus is on you to prove it...

2) You have no idea how much this made me laugh. Like, you honestly don't get it. This is not just an act. How on earth can a man with any self-respect stand you?

3) Hmmmmmmm...what was that we said about not knowing how to read? Uhhhhhhhhh ya.................hehehehehehehe I can't do math eh? Well I could list my laurels here but you'd accuse me of having an inflated ego (when the reverse is true in actuality)

 

[IrishHammer]

you know......like feelings and ****.

+1.

I think I'm gonna try that on a date sometime. "Hey, you wanna talk about feelings and ****?" Sometimes a random obscenity totally changes the mood.

 

[ffpickle]

hey ffpickle don't bother with this little baby SHC , she cannot deal with any type of confrontation! can you imagine what kind of pharmacist she may make one day? she thinks her **** don't stank but all she really is is a gold digger (good luck to the poor man that decides to date her in the future!). as in previous threads, just let her little fingers do the typing and her true colors will shine. oh yea, the minute anyone notices conflicting statements she makes, she'll just try to take back what she said or make it seem like she meant something else which is pretty hilarious to say the least.

just beware when you say something that SHC doesn't like, she will get all gangsta on you. she'll start typing in all CAPS and even do this to emphasize her point..or better yet she might start typing all types of obsceneties to the point that SDN starts censoring every other word

if you want a good laugh, just look at the called "what's the worst lie to tell during an interview" in the prepharmacy section! 😀

"She will get all gangsta on you"......lol

Although I have noticed that she likes typing in caps with lots of question marks and exclamation marks. She thinks this emphasizes her point more or that she has just said something brilliant.


But........let's not gang up on her, however wrong she may be. To each their own, as they say.

 

[Kirbypuff]

I don't get why everyone is bashing on SHC's (and my) view and can't grasp the idea that some people including men, believe that it is the normal social etiquette for the man to pay for dinner during a date. I feel like I've walked into SDN wonderland. Because where I come from, NYC, men pay for women. And it really really looks tacky when a man does not pay for his romantic date. I guess, it's more common to go dutch than I thought, because in my circle of friends (girls and guys), men always pay. And we kind of ridicule and gossip about guys who don't pay and we also critique the girl as well. So coming from my world of this particular social etiquette, it kind of makes it easy for me to ridicule other people for going dutch and call it a self-deprecating act for a girl and a stingy act for a guy. (Sorry) And I suppose coming from a world of going dutch, I guess making the guy pay for everything is excessively traditional and "hooker"-ish. But, nobody from my circle dates for money... especially not the guys who do the paying. Like my bf, he says he likes the feeling that he has a good job and he can pay for me. It's like a power thing. He even makes fun of guys who have to grime off their gfs. Haven't you guys heard of the saying that "ugly girls aren't even worth taking to mcdonalds"?

 

[SHC1984]

hey ffpickle don't bother with this little baby SHC , she cannot deal with any type of confrontation! can you imagine what kind of pharmacist she may make one day? she thinks her **** don't stank but all she really is is a gold digger (good luck to the poor man that decides to date her in the future!). as in previous threads, just let her little fingers do the typing and her true colors will shine. oh yea, the minute anyone notices conflicting statements she makes, she'll just try to take back what she said or make it seem like she meant something else which is pretty hilarious to say the least.

just beware when you say something that SHC doesn't like, she will get all gangsta on you. she'll start typing in all CAPS and even do this to emphasize her point..or better yet she might start typing all types of obsceneties to the point that SDN starts censoring every other word

if you want a good laugh, just look at the called "what's the worst lie to tell during an interview" in the prepharmacy section! 😀

I almost forgot all about you. I can see you are still bitter. Why don't you go back to the pre-pharm section and make another "how to lie during the interview part II thread" and contining lying/trolling SDN without stalking me. Can you do that?

 

[IrishHammer]

I don't get why everyone is bashing on SHC's (and my) view and can't grasp the idea that some people including men, believe that it is the normal social etiquette for the man to pay for dinner during a date. I feel like I've walked into SDN wonderland. Because where I come from, NYC, men pay for women. And it really really looks tacky when a man does not pay for his romantic date. I guess, it's more common to go dutch than I thought, because in my circle of friends (girls and guys), men always pay. And we kind of ridicule and gossip about guys who don't pay and we also critique the girl as well. So coming from my world of this particular social etiquette, it kind of makes it easy for me to ridicule other people for going dutch and call it a self-deprecating act for a girl and a stingy act for a guy. (Sorry) And I suppose coming from a world of going dutch, I guess making the guy pay for everything is excessively traditional and "hooker"-ish. But, nobody from my circle dates for money... especially not the guys who do the paying. Like my bf, he says he likes the feeling that he has a good job and he can pay for me. It's like a power thing. He even makes fun of guys who have to grime off their gfs. Haven't you guys heard of the saying that "ugly girls aren't even worth taking to mcdonalds"?

Men offering to pay for women is one thing. In fact, I always pay for the woman when on a date unless she tells me that she would prefer to pay herself (at that point, I just let her because if I argue with her over who pays, I look like a bigger jerk than I would if I just let her have her way). But to have the girl expect the guy to pay for everything unconditionally and put as much focus on the money as has been expressed in this forum is indeed a warped view. If I were a girl, and even as a guy, I'm far more concerned with enjoying myself on the date than I am about who pays for what.

Plus, I believe SHC's earlier manifesto of "I want to keep my money to myself and have my husband cover all of my expenses to boot" might have rubbed some people the wrong way. I'm not saying I'm one of them, but it's possible that that's why she's now getting such a firestorm.

 

[ffpickle]

I don't get why everyone is bashing on SHC's (and my) view and can't grasp the idea that some people including men, believe that it is the normal social etiquette for the man to pay for dinner during a date. I feel like I've walked into SDN wonderland. Because where I come from, NYC, men pay for women. And it really really looks tacky when a man does not pay for his romantic date. I guess, it's more common to go dutch than I thought, because in my circle of friends (girls and guys), men always pay. And we kind of ridicule and gossip about guys who don't pay and we also critique the girl as well. So coming from my world of this particular social etiquette, it kind of makes it easy for me to ridicule other people for going dutch and call it a self-deprecating act for a girl and a stingy act for a guy. (Sorry) And I suppose coming from a world of going dutch, I guess making the guy pay for everything is excessively traditional and "hooker"-ish. But, nobody from my circle dates for money... especially not the guys who do the paying. Like my bf, he says he likes the feeling that he has a good job and he can pay for me. It's like a power thing. He even makes fun of guys who have to grime off their gfs. Haven't you guys heard of the saying that "ugly girls aren't even worth taking to mcdonalds"?

No I have not heard of that saying actually. I prefer not to degrade women....keep in mind that there is such a thing as inner ugliness.

 

[SHC1984]

LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL.

I gotta admit, the money might actually be worth the comedy show known as you.

1) because relationships are based mutual expectations of civility, trust, honesty, and are strengthened by constant renewal and commitment. they are not merely financial investments that you keep pouring money into until one Black Tuesday when you realize you put way more money into the stock than it is worth and suddenly you're in the dating-world equivalent of a bread line. relationships are about empathy and understanding, humor, connections, sincerity, you know......like feelings and ****. no, i don't mean how good you feel when you get a new pair of minolo's...i mean like these emotions that human beings experience. they're free! i find it interesting that you accuse me of being incapable of reasoning but you don't seem to understand the basics of logic yourself. You can't simply say any absurd thing you choose and then ask me to disprove it....this is called an argument from ignorance, i.e. a logical fallcy.....You have proposed this paradigm and so the onus is on you to prove it...

2) You have no idea how much this made me laugh. Like, you honestly don't get it. This is not just an act. How on earth can a man with any self-respect stand you?

3) Hmmmmmmm...what was that we said about not knowing how to read? Uhhhhhhhhh ya.................hehehehehehehe I can't do math eh? Well I could list my laurels here but you'd accuse me of having an inflated ego (when the reverse is true in actuality)

Now you are laughing at me b/c you have yet to refute what I am saying.

Lets recap, I hope your little brain can handle this.

I say paying for dates is like pulling out a chair, opening car doors, letting your date order first etc. I say paying for dates is like being a gentlemen, and most woman with high standards expect this.

You say in responds that I am delusional without any logical refutes. Then you started talking about respect and talking about "feelings" etc.

Well you are kinda off topic!!!

And how does me expecting a guy to take me out to dinner make me lack feelings or respect? I have yet to touch on those two points and you have yet to tell me why everything I say is wrong.

 

[Kirbypuff]

Men offering to pay for women is one thing. In fact, I always pay for the woman when on a date unless she tells me that she would prefer to pay herself (at that point, I just let her because if I argue with her over who pays, I look like a bigger jerk than I would if I just let her have her way). But to have the girl expect the guy to pay for everything unconditionally and put as much focus on the money as has been expressed in this forum is indeed a warped view. If I were a girl, and even as a guy, I'm far more concerned with enjoying myself on the date than I am about who pays for what.

Plus, I believe SHC's earlier manifesto of "I want to keep my money to myself and have my husband cover all of my expenses to boot" might have rubbed some people the wrong way. I'm not saying I'm one of them, but it's possible that that's why she's now getting such a firestorm.

IrishHammer, you are in the circle of trust. haha.🙂

 

[IrishHammer]

IrishHammer, you are in the circle of trust. haha.🙂

What is the circle of trust, and why am I in it? I'm scared now...

 

[Kirbypuff]

No I have not heard of that saying actually. I prefer not to degrade women....keep in mind that there is such a thing as inner ugliness.

Are you ugly? 🙂

Remember that movie "Liar Liar"?

Child: My teacher said it's not what's on the outside that counts but what's on the inside that counts
JimCarry: That's just something ugly people say.


Okay, I'm just kidding. 🙄

But on the flip side, do you know how many fat/ugly women treat me poorly for NO reason. I know the world has been cruel to them, but why do they have to take it out on me? I'm so nice to strangers. 🙂

 

[SHC1984]

I don't get why everyone is bashing on SHC's (and my) view and can't grasp the idea that some people including men, believe that it is the normal social etiquette for the man to pay for dinner during a date. I feel like I've walked into SDN wonderland. Because where I come from, NYC, men pay for women. And it really really looks tacky when a man does not pay for his romantic date. I guess, it's more common to go dutch than I thought, because in my circle of friends (girls and guys), men always pay. And we kind of ridicule and gossip about guys who don't pay and we also critique the girl as well. So coming from my world of this particular social etiquette, it kind of makes it easy for me to ridicule other people for going dutch and call it a self-deprecating act for a girl and a stingy act for a guy. (Sorry) And I suppose coming from a world of going dutch, I guess making the guy pay for everything is excessively traditional and "hooker"-ish. But, nobody from my circle dates for money... especially not the guys who do the paying. Like my bf, he says he likes the feeling that he has a good job and he can pay for me. It's like a power thing. He even makes fun of guys who have to grime off their gfs. Haven't you guys heard of the saying that "ugly girls aren't even worth taking to mcdonalds"?

I have two people thats bashing me one is a stalker thats piss off b/c I caught him a in lie. And the other one is a guy thats claims he knows that I am delusional when all I stated was a very common social etiquette. He has heard of it and deep down knows what we are talking about, but he just wants to continue to call me everything in the book except actually refuting an arguement that he has started.

Those are our sources.🙄 I think its still fair to say that its the social etiquette for men to pay for dates after reading the crap by those two boys.

 

[Kirbypuff]

What is the circle of trust, and why am I in it? I'm scared now...

It's okay grasshopper, you're in safe place. hahaa

 

[IrishHammer]

It's okay grasshopper, you're in safe place. hahaa

Grasshopper? ****! Do you know how many of those things get run over and killed by tractors???

*Locks self in room and curls in fetal position*

 

[ffpickle]

Now you are laughing at me b/c you have yet to refute what I am saying.

Lets recap, I hope your little brain can handle this.

I say paying for dates is like pulling out a chair, opening car doors, letting your date order first etc. I say paying for dates is like being a gentlemen, and most woman with high standards expect this.

You say in responds that I am delusional without any logical refutes. Then you started talking about respect and talking about "feelings" etc.

Well you are kinda off topic!!!

And how does me expecting a guy to take me out to dinner make me lack feelings or respect? I have yet to touch on those two points and you have yet to tell me why everything I say is wrong.

Why do you keep failing to understand this? It's not like it's dental school or something.

Please systematically address each of the three points. Stop talking out of your ass...it's getting us nowhere. Just so we agree, you see where the $640 came from and that you are stupid right? great.

Refutes is not a noun. What is a logical refute? If you don't know what words mean then do not use them.

"I say paying for dates is like pulling out a chair, opening car doors, letting your date order first etc. I say paying for dates is like being a gentlemen, and most woman with high standards expect this." Well it isn't. $640 isn't the same as performing those tasks.

 

[ffpickle]

Are you ugly? 🙂

Remember that movie "Liar Liar"?

Child: My teacher said it's not what's on the outside that counts but what's on the inside that counts
JimCarry: That's just something ugly people say.


Okay, I'm just kidding. 🙄

But on the flip side, do you know how many fat/ugly women treat me poorly for NO reason. I know the world has been cruel to them, but why do they have to take it out on me? I'm so nice to strangers. 🙂

Not gonna lie, I'm not Brad Pitt. But overall, I'm confident enough to have a woman pay her own damn way.

 

[SHC1984]

Why do you keep failing to understand this? It's not like it's dental school or something.

Please systematically address each of the three points. Stop talking out of your ass...it's getting us nowhere. Just so we agree, you see where the $640 came from and that you are stupid right? great.

Refutes is not a noun. What is a logical refute? If you don't know what words mean then do not use them.

"I say paying for dates is like pulling out a chair, opening car doors, letting your date order first etc. I say paying for dates is like being a gentlemen, and most woman with high standards expect this." Well it isn't. $640 isn't the same as performing those tasks.

I had to go back to your previous post. I didn't see month, I only saw $80 dollars at 2 dates per week.

In to respond to your comment. I guess it demands on how hot the girl is and if she is worth your time. If she is ugly then you will be right about the $640 dollars, but if she is hot and you are interested in something LONG term with her then $640 a MONTH shouldn't be that much to ask.

 

[Kirbypuff]

I have two people thats bashing me one is a stalker thats piss off b/c I caught him a in lie. And the other one is a guy thats claims he is knows that I am delusional when all I stated was a very common social etiquette. He has heard of it and deep down knows what we are talking about, but he just wants to continue to call me everything in the book except actually refuting an arguement that he has started.

Those are our sources.🙄 I think its still fair to say that its the social etiquette for men to pay for dates after reading the crap by those two boys.

Quoting my super long time ago ex-bf, "I gotta pay for our dates, so you can buy your cute little shoes and your outfits." Haha, he only got $20 from his allowance per week (less than my allowance), but I thought it was so cute. 😀

So if we were to listen to my ex, then obviously you can't pay for your dates, cus then how will you pay for your LV's and that ridiculous insurance on your Lexus? haha jk. But seriously, props to your money making investments on those bags. 👍

 

[Kirbypuff]

Not gonna lie, I'm not Brad Pitt. But overall, I'm confident enough to have a woman pay her own damn way.

So you're ugly AND poor.

jk!!

 

[ffpickle]

I had to go back to your previous post. I didn't see month, I only saw $80 dollars at 2 dates per week.

In to respond to your comment. I guess it demands on how hot the girl is and if she is worth your time. If she is ugly then you will be right about the $640 dollars, but if she is hot and you are interested in something LONG term with her then $640 a MONTH shouldn't be that much to ask.

chances are it aint gonna last whether she is hot or not....just how it works out....facts of life as they say....

so i just blew all my money on some chick i wont be with again? no thanks.

 

[Kirbypuff]

Grasshopper? ****! Do you know how many of those things get run over and killed by tractors???

*Locks self in room and curls in fetal position*

Alright, now you're starting to say weird sh.t... you're out of the circle.


Is it just me, or do the posts get more delusional as we go deeper into the insomniac hours?

 

[ffpickle]

Alright, now you're starting to say weird sh.t... you're out of the circle.


Is it just me, or do the posts get more delusional as we go deeper into the insomniac hours?

no....

its just that shc shows up and drags us all down to her level.

 

[Farmercyst]

I'm not sure how many people have an extra $640 lying around per month.
With rent, insurance, utilities, etc, unless you're living in your parents' basement, it's a bit much. That was ~20% of my net income as an undergrad.

 

[Farmercyst]

Oh and can we close this already, or should I merge everything after the 1st page with the off topic thread.?

 

[IrishHammer]

Alright, now you're starting to say weird sh.t... you're out of the circle.

Woohoo! I still don't understand what the circle is...

Is it just me, or do the posts get more delusional as we go deeper into the insomniac hours?

Balderdash. Things around here are every bit as normal as they are at 6 PM on any given eve in Smarch when the heads of the Parliament come here to discuss how they will go about getting the sugar for their breakfast tea. Now, if you'll excuse me, I'm late for the Short Line Railroad's run over to Park Place.

 

[SHC1984]

Quoting my super long time ago ex-bf, "I gotta pay for our dates, so you can buy your cute little shoes and your outfits." Haha, he only got $20 from his allowance per week (less than my allowance), but I thought it was so cute. 😀

So if we were to listen to my ex, then obviously you can't pay for your dates, cus then how will you pay for your LV's and that ridiculous insurance on your Lexus? haha jk. But seriously, props to your money making investments on those bags. 👍

haha...I am NOT rich by any means. My parents own 3 Thai Restaurants. My parents does pay for the basics for me. Like food, rent, cell phone, my B.A. degree, they give me 14K for my Lexus (I pay the rest), they just pay for the basics. (I pay for all my handbags by myself NO parents!)

I worked since I was 16. I have waited tables at my parent's restaurants, been the manager, waited tables at hooters, been a bartender when I was in college etc. So I make GOOD money for what I do. I am NOT rich, but I am comfortable. I am just lucky that I have dated men that always paid for dates, vacations, etc. Pretty much ALL the money I make myself from my jobs all go to my handbags/shoes/clothes. I wish I was rich though.

 

[ffpickle]

So you're ugly AND poor.

jk!!

average on both accounts and i still wouldn't touch you with a 20 foot pole.

 

[Kirbypuff]

I'm not sure how many people have an extra $640 lying around per month.
With rent, insurance, utilities, etc, unless you're living in your parents basement, it's a bit much. That was ~20% of my net income as an undergrad.

AWWW! Congratulations on Farmercyst Jr!!!! SO CUTE!! =)

Wealth is relative.

 

[Farmercyst]

haha...I am NOT rich by any means. My parents own 3 Thai Restaurants. My parents does pay for the basics for me. Like food, rent, cell phone, my B.A. degree, they give me 14K for my Lexus (I pay the rest), they just pay for the basics. (I pay for all my handbags by myself NO parents!)

I worked since I was 16. I have waited tables at my parent's restaurants, been the manager, waited tables at hooters, been a bartender when I was in college etc. So I make GOOD money for what I do. I am NOT rich, but I am comfortable. I am just lucky that I have dated men that always paid for dates, vacations, etc. Pretty much ALL the money I make myself from my jobs all go to my handbags/shoes/clothes. I wish I was rich though.

I hate to be contrary, but this is what I read. Tell me they aren't still paying for your food, rent, and cell phone.

 

[IrishHammer]

average on both accounts and i still wouldn't touch you with a 20 foot pole.

I'd touch her with my 20 foot pole.

First the argument was about money, now it's about looks. I think there was a slight bit of discussion about personality somewhere along the way, but I'm not quite sure. Damn. Maybe I'm lucky that I'm opting to stay single, this dating **** is complicated and stupid.

 

[ffpickle]

I hate to be contrary, but this is what I read. Tell me they aren't still paying for your food, rent, and cell phone.

how dare you?

only the basics...like 14k for a lexus.

 

[Farmercyst]

AWWW! Congratulations on Farmercyst Jr!!!! SO CUTE!! =)

Wealth is relative.

I agree. Never happened to my relatives, but agreed. Perhaps things that are luxuries for some of us, would be considered basics for others. Like the nannies, private schools, etc people get in divorce settlements because they are absolute necessities for the kids.

 

[Momus]

$640/month is like having a ****ing car payments for the rest of your life!

If that's what my gf expects me to shell out every month for a long term relationship, I might as well get 3 random hot hookers/month with much less headache and obviously more fun! Afterall, monogamy as a male is not coded in our DNA... LOL...

 

[Kirbypuff]

Balderdash. Things around here are every bit as normal as they are at 6 PM on any given eve in Smarch when the heads of the Parliament come here to discuss how they will go about getting the sugar for their breakfast tea. Now, if you'll excuse me, I'm late for the Short Line Railroad's run over to Park Place.

No comment.

Oh and can we close this already, or should I merge everything after the 1st page with the off topic thread.?

But dad! we're having so much fun!

haha...I am NOT rich by any means. My parents own 3 Thai Restaurants. My parents does pay for the basics for me. Like food, rent, cell phone, my B.A. degree, they give me 14K for my Lexus (I pay the rest), they just pay for the basics. (I pay for all my handbags by myself NO parents!)

I worked since I was 16. I have waited tables at my parent's restaurants, been the manager, waited tables at hooters, been a bartender when I was in college etc. So I make GOOD money for what I do. I am NOT rich, but I am comfortable. I am just lucky that I have dated men that always paid for dates, vacations, etc. Pretty much ALL the money I make myself from my jobs all go to my handbags/shoes/clothes. I wish I was rich though.

I like you more already.🙂 I thought I was unspoiled!! My dad wouldn't get me a car that I couldn't pay the car insurance for (Yes, I pay for my own insurance... but maybe that helped me stay accident free for 5 years) and I wanted a 3-series, but I got my mom's used modest car instead because then I can afford the insurance. OOO you were a hooter's girl! You're definitely hot. 😉

average on both accounts and i still wouldn't touch you with a 20 foot pole.

What does touch me with a 20 foot pole mean?

I hate to be contrary, but this is what I read. Tell me they aren't still paying for your food, rent, and cell phone.

My parents still give me food, shelter, cell phone, vacation $. They want want me to have good credit, so whenever I'm short, they spot me. I think you're misunderstanding asian culture. Our parents "spoil the crap out of us" and we take good care of them when they get older. There's still a lot of filial piety in our culture. To kick your 18 year old out of the nest is such a Caucasian thing to do. Asians are kind of like Jews lol.

 

[Kirbypuff]

$640/month is like having a ****ing car payments for the rest of your life!

If that's what my gf expects me to shell out every month for a long term relationship, I might as well get 3 random hot hookers/month with much less headache and obviously more fun! Afterall, monogamy as a male is not coded in our DNA... LOL...

There's funny blog somewhere floating on the internet that shows that dating is actually cheaper than paying for a premium escort.

I made sure to show it to my bf so he knows he's getting a deal. lol

 

[Momus]

not if u date someone like shc, ofc..

 

[efocmacro]

There's funny blog somewhere floating on the internet that shows that dating is actually cheaper than paying for a premium escort.

I made sure to show it to my bf so he knows he's getting a deal. lol

Thats because they didnt add the fees for the years of therapy.

 

[IrishHammer]

No comment.

It was a string of random Simpsons references, believe it or not. I know I'm lame. Don't judge me. The Bible says you can't.

What does touch me with a 20 foot pole mean?

I've always wondered this myself. I usually just use it to set up a dick joke. Everybody loves a good dick joke.

My parents still give me food, shelter, cell phone, vacation $. They want want me to have good credit, so whenever I'm short, they spot me. I think you're misunderstanding asian culture. Our parents "spoil the crap out of us" and we take good care of them when they get older. There's still a lot of filial piety in our culture. To kick your 18 year old out of the nest is such a Caucasian thing to do.

I'm as honky as they come, and my parents never kicked me out. My parents help me out fiscally, but they don't spoil me. If it's not a bare necessity, I have to earn it myself. My dad's chipping in some money for my tuition because he doesn't want to see me buried under a pile of debt when I graduate, he bought me a used car that ran 3,500, and he's paying for my rent and food while in pharmacy school because he believes that as long as I'm in school, my job is to study and do well. That's wildly different from dropping 14K hand over fist for a new car or giving me money to go on vacations, neither of which he has done or will ever do.

 

[IrishHammer]

There's funny blog somewhere floating on the internet that shows that dating is actually cheaper than paying for a premium escort.

I made sure to show it to my bf so he knows he's getting a deal. lol

And if he has any more questions about why dating is a better idea than using escort services, refer him to the following link:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Eliot_Spitzer

 

[Kirbypuff]

average on both accounts and i still wouldn't touch you with a 20 foot pole.

OH okay, I just looked it up on urban dictionary.com just now...

it means he wont touch me with his hands cus I guess i'm gross...

BUT GET THIS: FFPICKLE JUST PMed ME AND ASKED FOR ME IF I HAD MSN SO HE CAN SHOW ME HIS PICTURE AND I SAID NO HAHAHA.

Now I really get what he was trying to do. 🙂 He was trying to compensate for feeling shot down.

::COUGH:: LOSER!!

 

[Kirbypuff]

I'm as honky as they come, and my parents never kicked me out. My parents help me out fiscally, but they don't spoil me. If it's not a bare necessity, I have to earn it myself. My dad's chipping in some money for my tuition because he doesn't want to see me buried under a pile of debt when I graduate, he bought me a used car that ran 3,500, and he's paying for my rent and food while in pharmacy school because he believes that as long as I'm in school, my job is to study and do well. That's wildly different from dropping 14K hand over fist for a new car or giving me money to go on vacations, neither of which he has done or will ever do.

Hmm.. interesting. I like learning things about white people. 🙂

 

[Farmercyst]

Hmm.. interesting. I like learning things about white people. 🙂

my dad made sure I had good credit. He taught me how to spend less than I earn, borrow only what I can pay back, and that some people have more dollars than sense.

 

[PharmDstudent]

There's funny blog somewhere floating on the internet that shows that dating is actually cheaper than paying for a premium escort.

I made sure to show it to my bf so he knows he's getting a deal. lol

(especially that last part!!!)

 

[PharmDstudent]

OH okay, I just looked it up on urban dictionary.com just now...

it means he wont touch me with his hands cus I guess i'm gross...

BUT GET THIS: FFPICKLE JUST PMed ME AND ASKED FOR ME IF I HAD MSN SO HE CAN SHOW ME HIS PICTURE AND I SAID NO HAHAHA.

Now I really get what he was trying to do. 🙂 He was trying to compensate for feeling shot down.

::COUGH:: LOSER!!

This had me thinking about the hip-hop internet love song, but this song's even BETTER! HAHAHA! LOL!

[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4gSJpeZslqo[/YOUTUBE]

 

[ffpickle]

OH okay, I just looked it up on urban dictionary.com just now...

it means he wont touch me with his hands cus I guess i'm gross...

BUT GET THIS: FFPICKLE JUST PMed ME AND ASKED FOR ME IF I HAD MSN SO HE CAN SHOW ME HIS PICTURE AND I SAID NO HAHAHA.

Now I really get what he was trying to do. 🙂 He was trying to compensate for feeling shot down.

::COUGH:: LOSER!!

Actually, this is exactly what I sent:

u got msn messenger?
give me ur address......i'll add u....

u can see how ugly or not i am
__________________
The lonely stoner seems to free his mind at night,
He's all alone through the day and night
The lonely loner seems to free his mind at night
Day and night

Just thought since you've been obsessed with my looks in a number of posts, you may want to see what you are "shooting down" first 😉

 

[PharmDstudent]

Y'all had better not get this thread locked... (We haven't had a thread like this before.)

 

[ffpickle]

Y'all had better not get this thread locked... (We haven't had a thread like this before.)

What do you mean? A thread completely off topic that turns into a war of the sexes?

 

[PharmDstudent]

What do you mean? A thread completely off topic that turns into a war of the sexes?

Oh, well, we've had plenty of off topic threads, but this thread is different. Everyone can have an opinion here, unlike the football or photography threads. You don't have to have said hobby to read or participate.