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Good post.I really don't want to get back into the whole metoo vs alt right/white supremacists vs 4 chan argument. However, to add to the gender conversation overall I took the advice here and showed the post I made to my wife (she was wondering what I had been reading on my phone). She read the original posts and the follow-ups, understood my point that all three utilized social media to engage groups of people that otherwise may not have come together, and had no idea why other posters became so upset about it. So, another datapoint for everyone. That said, she is not much of a social justice or feminist movement person, though some of her good friends are. And to those that might be wondering, she has no problem disagreeing with me and getting into it.
That said, I am not sure why the OP is equating agreeing with her points to wanting her to be a part of the community. I might not agree with everything she says, but what a boring place this would be if we all agreed with each other!
First an assumption and then a question (for the group):
Assumption (for the sake of clarifying other assumptions that may be latent): let's assume that there has been problematic posting behavior (styles?) that are exhibited in the forum.
Question: What is it that is 'problematic,' exactly? Is it:
(a) 'problematic dominant' *behavior* itself, or
(b) that a particular gender/sex is exhibiting dominant behavior?
Is dominant posting behavior exhibited by men 'bad' while dominant posting behavior exhibited by women is 'good?'
Why?