Hi guys and gals,
I was in your situation last year, waitlisted at Yale (my old login was deleted, so I started a fresh one). It was a horrible thing to go through for one reason: the Yale office of admissions was deceptive.
So, they broke us down into priority, and then lists 1, 2, and 3. I was a 1. A friend of mine, that I actually met while interviewing at a different school, was a 2. She got in, I did not. There were also some people on the priority list that didn't get in, even though they dug into the 2nd list (this is all on the thread from last year, if it's still up).
What is not on the list is stuff that I found out when I made it to my current school (a top school (ranked several spots above Yale), so things worked out for the best, but I say that because I'm not bitter about not getting into Yale, only about the way I was treated). I was told by Mr Silverman that I was #2 or 3 on their list and should be expecting to get in "any day"...this went on for almost 4 weeks. Finally, mid-July I threw in the towel. A few months later, at a party with med students here, someone mentioned that they had almost gone to Yale, but were right on the cut-off ("#2 or 3 on the list). Wow, I said! So was I! It turned out that three of us, among a party of about 20, were on the top of the list. So, either the only three ppl on that list all happened to go to the same school and meet at the same party (unlikely), or the top 2-3 of list consisted of, perhaps, dozens of students. It's possible that this is a common practice and Yale just got figured out last year because very few of their original acceptee's went elsewhere. But, we'll never know
Anyway, whatever happens this year, treat whatever they tell you with skepticism. Waiting sucks. Waiting and being strung along (falsely) sucks more.