I also did not match despite interviews at some top places. It hurts a lot to know I was passed up for other candidates. But, as
clinical psychology students, even understanding the magnitude of the imbalance, can still be rational in how we
frame our disappointment. I have been very proactive in eliciting comments, suggestions, support, and help for improvements in Phase 2. I know even if I don't match, I will be having a very productive year next year and be a much better candidate having already experienced the process for myself once, I think it will give a huge advantage next year (if I don't match in Phase 2). Employ those coping skills you have been teaching your clients. Just remember, it isn't as bad as you think. I watched Act of Valor this weekend. I hate the hollywood-backed money-making heads associated with it, but the message is the same. Life is more important, and I am very fortunate to be where I am right now, even if it is not ideal.
Also, thankful Phase 2 is only a few weeks long