2010 Waitlist Blues?

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For me, I just go into the building and take the stairs and look at the bulletin boards on every floor. There were many labs advertising for unpaid RA positions, and they've accepted me, even though I'm not a student there.

Seriously, girl, you are unbelievably impressive. You're so proactive. Many graduate students don't even enter graduate school with that level of independence.

I just know that when you are ready to apply again great things are going to happen for you.
 
Seriously, girl, you are unbelievably impressive. You're so proactive. Many graduate students don't even enter graduate school with that level of independence.

I just know that when you are ready to apply again great things are going to happen for you.

Aw thanks. But it's not really me.

In my second semester my professor approached me after class and said that she'd like for me to be her research assistant. We did an independent project the next fall. There were 3 master's students and 4 undergrads (including myself), but most of the people weren't very involved due to life.

I didn't know this until after, but our faculty only take 2 students for an empirical senior thesis. We have 5 psych faculty who supervise thesis students. I realized the night before the application was due that I had senior class standing and could start my project. My advisor said, "just fill out the app, say you're doing an extension of the independent study, and I'll accept you. Later we'll decide what you're doing"

She e-mailed me about the Summer Research Opportunity Program at the university down the street, which is how I was ever even in their psych building. (Though last semester I had a class that took us on field trips to their labs, for the prof was an adjuct and had an office and lab at that University.) The program was a research program but we also did a seminar that taught us about the graduate application process, or I would have had no idea what to do or how. Without my mentor, I would not be a worthwhile applicant, because I had no idea what was necessary beyond classes. (This summer program also provided a Kaplan GRE prep class, which was way better than trying to study alone).

There is research to be done at our school, but not much at all. No lab space or anything.
 
so i found out today via very nice email (after inquiry) that i am on the waitlist at my top school. blargh.

i do feel really thankful to have an acceptance in hand at a school where i know i'd be happy and get a great education, but (ARGH!) i still feel undeniably bummed. i'm trying to find some balance between the contentment of having an acceptance and still desperately hoping to hear (something good) from the other school. so far, the balance has eluded me.

ugh. this sucks.

I'm in the same position, so I know how you feel. I was sooo elated to get my first acceptance (at my #2 school), and thenI got waitlisted at my #1 school..I'm happy and thankful to know I'm going somewhere, and the program I got into is a great one, but since getting that waitlist notification i've just been bummed...

btw, which schools are you talking about? pm me if you like, I kind of remember us applying to some of the same places...
 
So, I received an update from two schools today. I would appreciate any thoughts/comments/interpretations.

I received an email from the first POI which essentially said that right now, a bunch of the other faculty are ahead of him with their picks. He said that he didn't want to "jerk my chain," as he thinks "the class will fill" before he gets a turn. He recommended that if I get another offer, I should take it. He was really great, and was straightforward and candid, which was quite refreshing.

I spoke over the phone with the other POI, and he informed me that I'm on the waiting list, although he refrained from ranking my position on that list. He explained that he was really impressed by my interview, but there are many competitive applicants, and he feels like "a kid in a candy store," so he doesn't want to rank us. He did mention that about half of the spots for the incomming class have been taken, and he said that he would check with a couple of the members of the admission committee and get back to me to give me more information. This is a tough one to interpret!

Thanks in advance, and good luck to all you wait listers! 😎
 
Like others have said, this may be a better thing than you think. If you're competitive now, you will probably end up someplace much better in a year or two than you would now. You are definitely on track...and personally for me, I was soooo glad I took a short break in this whole school process. I've been in school since I was three, and having a year to breath a little, think a little, travel some, etc has been good for me. Plus knowing how excited I am to go back to school has just made me more sure this is what I should be doing...

just my 2 cents 🙂

Aw thanks. But it's not really me.

In my second semester my professor approached me after class and said that she'd like for me to be her research assistant. We did an independent project the next fall. There were 3 master's students and 4 undergrads (including myself), but most of the people weren't very involved due to life.

I didn't know this until after, but our faculty only take 2 students for an empirical senior thesis. We have 5 psych faculty who supervise thesis students. I realized the night before the application was due that I had senior class standing and could start my project. My advisor said, "just fill out the app, say you're doing an extension of the independent study, and I'll accept you. Later we'll decide what you're doing"

She e-mailed me about the Summer Research Opportunity Program at the university down the street, which is how I was ever even in their psych building. (Though last semester I had a class that took us on field trips to their labs, for the prof was an adjuct and had an office and lab at that University.) The program was a research program but we also did a seminar that taught us about the graduate application process, or I would have had no idea what to do or how. Without my mentor, I would not be a worthwhile applicant, because I had no idea what was necessary beyond classes. (This summer program also provided a Kaplan GRE prep class, which was way better than trying to study alone).

There is research to be done at our school, but not much at all. No lab space or anything.
 
Aw thanks. But it's not really me.

In my second semester my professor approached me after class and said that she'd like for me to be her research assistant. We did an independent project the next fall. There were 3 master's students and 4 undergrads (including myself), but most of the people weren't very involved due to life.

I didn't know this until after, but our faculty only take 2 students for an empirical senior thesis. We have 5 psych faculty who supervise thesis students. I realized the night before the application was due that I had senior class standing and could start my project. My advisor said, "just fill out the app, say you're doing an extension of the independent study, and I'll accept you. Later we'll decide what you're doing"

She e-mailed me about the Summer Research Opportunity Program at the university down the street, which is how I was ever even in their psych building. (Though last semester I had a class that took us on field trips to their labs, for the prof was an adjuct and had an office and lab at that University.) The program was a research program but we also did a seminar that taught us about the graduate application process, or I would have had no idea what to do or how. Without my mentor, I would not be a worthwhile applicant, because I had no idea what was necessary beyond classes. (This summer program also provided a Kaplan GRE prep class, which was way better than trying to study alone).

There is research to be done at our school, but not much at all. No lab space or anything.

I had no clue what the grad school process was like, not even 10% of a clue. and I went to a huge university (the psych classes were esp large which scared me away from the major) and like you, I started young (17- kinda ironic considering I'm the oldster now, I was always the youngest in school) and had a family who wasn't really college savvy (luckily I have been able to help out my youngest siblings with info gleaned from my many mistakes).

But if I ever do become faculty, I will make it my mission to seek out talented students from non-privileged backgrounds to mentor like your professor did. I think it makes a world of difference. This also gives me more motivation to get into grad school, to make this happen. Ok, now I'm all misty 😉
 
Aw thanks. But it's not really me.

In my second semester my professor approached me after class and said that she'd like for me to be her research assistant. We did an independent project the next fall. There were 3 master's students and 4 undergrads (including myself), but most of the people weren't very involved due to life.

I didn't know this until after, but our faculty only take 2 students for an empirical senior thesis. We have 5 psych faculty who supervise thesis students. I realized the night before the application was due that I had senior class standing and could start my project. My advisor said, "just fill out the app, say you're doing an extension of the independent study, and I'll accept you. Later we'll decide what you're doing"

She e-mailed me about the Summer Research Opportunity Program at the university down the street, which is how I was ever even in their psych building. (Though last semester I had a class that took us on field trips to their labs, for the prof was an adjuct and had an office and lab at that University.) The program was a research program but we also did a seminar that taught us about the graduate application process, or I would have had no idea what to do or how. Without my mentor, I would not be a worthwhile applicant, because I had no idea what was necessary beyond classes. (This summer program also provided a Kaplan GRE prep class, which was way better than trying to study alone).

There is research to be done at our school, but not much at all. No lab space or anything.

I second this. I was also a SROP in Psychology scholar in 2007 at a university and went through the same thing.
 
I'm new to this website, and I found it mostly because I was sick of feeling alone during this stupid waiting period. Anyway, I was waitlisted at my first choice. I wish this felt more optimistic, but I didn't even get the chance to interview so my hopes aren't high. It's good to know there's a website out there like this, and I wish i had found it sooner. Maybe i'll use it if I have to go through this process again next year!
 
I'm always nervous to keep e-mailing them. I would wait maybe a little past monday since I think if there was movement she would let you know?

I'm going crazy waiting to hear from my school. I was told I would hear sometime this week and it is already Friday. I know I'm being impatient...but this has been three weeks of torture.
 
I'm in the same boat. I was contacted by POI at my top choice program two mondays ago, and he said that I would probably hear that week. Well, I haven't heard anything, so I sent him an email a couple days ago, still nothing. The wait is killing me! When would it be appropriate to call him?
 
I'm in the same boat. I was contacted by POI at my top choice program two mondays ago, and he said that I would probably hear that week. Well, I haven't heard anything, so I sent him an email a couple days ago, still nothing. The wait is killing me! When would it be appropriate to call him?

I got the following info. fro the Insider's Guide:

The best thing to do is to ask your POIs how often you can call to check your status. Obviously, you don't want to come across as pushy or annoying, but you also don't want to come across as disinterested.

If you're on the waitlist, 3 things can help you move up: 1) showing your continued interest in the program, 2) letting them know you are still available, 3) if you've received other offers, you should let them know. (We're almost always more attractive when somone else wants us).
 
I'm in the same boat. I was contacted by POI at my top choice program two mondays ago, and he said that I would probably hear that week. Well, I haven't heard anything, so I sent him an email a couple days ago, still nothing. The wait is killing me! When would it be appropriate to call him?

To follow up on my last post and to give you some more information....
I interviewed at my #1 choice a few weeks ago (I've been accepted at my #2). I thought the interview with my POI went amazingly well. I don't know how it could have gone much better, I felt like we really connected. I called him two Mondays ago, to follow up with him. He said that they offered the spot to their first choice, that person has not gotten back to them, and he informed me that I was next on the waitlist. He said that from their converstaion, he thinks the person will likely accept the offer, but he gave me a 20-25% chance of getting an offer (although I don't know how he came up with that number when it is 100% out of his hands at this point). He told me that he would let me know when that person made a decision and had gotten back to them. It's been almost two weeks now, and I haven't heard anything. Is this a good sign? I'm thinking if that candidate was serious about their program, and it was his/her top choice, then he/she would have already accepted. I'm thinking that person is waiting to hear from other programs, which really opens up my chances for getting an offer. Maybe I'm thinking too much into this, but I would really appreciate other peoples' input. Thanks!
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To follow up on my last post and to give you some more information....
I interviewed at my #1 choice a few weeks ago (I've been accepted at my #2). I thought the interview with my POI went amazingly well. I don't know how it could have gone much better, I felt like we really connected. I called him two Mondays ago, to follow up with him. He said that they offered the spot to their first choice, that person has not gotten back to them, and he informed me that I was next on the waitlist. He said that from their converstaion, he thinks the person will likely accept the offer, but he gave me a 20-25% chance of getting an offer (although I don't know how he came up with that number when it is 100% out of his hands at this point). He told me that he would let me know when that person made a decision and had gotten back to them. It's been almost two weeks now, and I haven't heard anything. Is this a good sign? I'm thinking if that candidate was serious about their program, and it was his/her top choice, then he/she would have already accepted. I'm thinking that person is waiting to hear from other programs, which really opens up my chances for getting an offer. Maybe I'm thinking too much into this, but I would really appreciate other peoples' input. Thanks!
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I'm doing the same the thing; so, I totally identify with you on this. "if the person wanted to go there, they would have accepted already, right? I'm gonna get in off of the waitlist!" Although this MAY be true, you don't know. There could be all kinds of reasons this person is delaying, and yet, maybe they will end up accepting the offer in the end. Perhaps this person has a difficult choice to make and doesn't want to rush it. Perhaps this person is doing some due diligence (looking at cost of living, the offer, budget, etc.) to make sure everything is to his/her liking. Maybe this person has a husband/wife/family and the decision will take time and may be restricted to the ability of the partner to get a job in the new location, etc.

It's tired, but I say, "Hope for the best, prepare for the worst!" If only, I could somehow follow my own advice instead of trying to mind-read the programs, my POI, and the other applicants -- ugh!!!

:luck::luck::luck:
 
So this may sound like a stupid question..but oh well! I was accepted to a program and waitlisted at my top program. My question is...what if I accept the offer I've been given and then receive an offer from the waitlist after April 15th (the letter said that this is a possibility). Would there be any way I could reject the offer to the other program even though I technically would have accepted the offer? Hope this isn't too confusing😕 Thanks!
 
So this may sound like a stupid question..but oh well! I was accepted to a program and waitlisted at my top program. My question is...what if I accept the offer I've been given and then receive an offer from the waitlist after April 15th (the letter said that this is a possibility). Would there be any way I could reject the offer to the other program even though I technically would have accepted the offer? Hope this isn't too confusing😕 Thanks!

You could accept their offer (it might involve putting a non-refundable deposit down) and then if you do get into your first choice ask for a letter from the second choice to "release" you (must be in writing). It's the best way, and you can secure a spot for yourself in case you don't get in to your top choice. May I ask which schools you're considering? (PM if you like.) I believe that's how it works as per APA, but anyone please feel free to correct me. 😛
 
Hey there fellow waitlisters...

I'm wondering if any of you have any thoughts/ideas about my situation and can shed some light...

basically I'm getting a master's in London this year so wasn't able to go to any interviews in person, they were all conducted over the phone/skype. I am coming home for Easter to be with my family and could get to WSU easily as I don't live too far away from the campus. Does anyone think, even though I am waitlisted, that it would be inappropriate for me to ask the DCT/my POI if I could come to the campus, meet them, etc etc to learn more about the program? I'd be really interested to hear anyone's thoughts, if you have any, please PM me!! Thanks!

Also, how often are any of you emailing DCT/POIs to ask about the status of your app? I haven't emailed in about a week, and I'm wondering, should I persistently be asking them what's up, or should I just wait it out? Thoughts? Anyone?

Again... PM me if you have any advice about either of these situations! THANKS!!
 
Hello all,

I'm basically in the same boat as quite a few others on here- I've been accepted to my second-choiceish program and waitlisted at my top choice.

My POI made two offers and I would be third runner up at my first choice. I'm told by the admin person that one has already accepted the offer and they're waiting to her back from the other. If the second person doesn't accept, my POI may decide to just take one student this year and not even make me an offer! Or may decide for two and I would get a chance. I've been calling about once a week (a little pushy, I know, but they have been pretty unresponsive-I had one phone call with my POI a month after interview and that's how I found out I was the only one on her waitlist!) and only speaking to office person. At this point she said she would e-mail me with any updates. I told her I have another offer, and she suggested I e-mail POI to let her know. I did, TWO weeks ago, reiterated that this is still my first choice and inquiring as to my status, and still NO e-mail back. I'm starting to feel very unwanted at this program and am wondering if there is an point in holding out, especially now that I really shouldn't contact them anymore and just need to wait.

The professors/staff at the program I've been accepted to are actually at a more "prestigious" university and have been very responsive/supportive. I already have my funding offer and I know they're waiting to hear from me. The thing is, this program is in social work, and even though I get the feeling I will be able to study my interests here, my top choice was in psychology. I don't want to keep the place I've been accepted to waiting for too long, since I will probably end up going there and it just seems shady. I'm planning on giving it two more weeks tops and hoping to hear something about my wait list status by then.

I guess I'm just getting frantic at the complete sense of helplessness and although it's great to know that either way I'll be in an excellent program in fall, I'm still frustrated with these last few weeks of waiting. Any input would be greatly appreciated! Sorry to have went on for so long :scared:
 
So this may sound like a stupid question..but oh well! I was accepted to a program and waitlisted at my top program. My question is...what if I accept the offer I've been given and then receive an offer from the waitlist after April 15th (the letter said that this is a possibility). Would there be any way I could reject the offer to the other program even though I technically would have accepted the offer? Hope this isn't too confusing😕 Thanks!

This is from the Council of University Directors of Clinical Psychology
Guidelines for Graduate School

http://www.temple.edu/psychology/clinical/documents/guidelines.pdf

"8. The current policy statement of the Council of Graduate Departments of Psychology allows students to resign offers they previously accepted up to the April 15th decision date by submitting the resignation in writing. The purpose of this policy is to avoid pressure on students to accept offers before they have heard from other schools. Although withdrawing an acceptance is legitimate, it is not good form. A much better approach is to accept a position only if you intend to follow through on your commitment. Students have the right to hold offers as described above if a preferable offer is still possible."

I think it is REALLY important to consider the fact that by accepting an offer and then later declining it, you may well be burning bridges. The POI and program that you accepted are likely going to be angry because once you accept an offer, they will likely send out rejection emails to their alternates.
 
I had no clue what the grad school process was like, not even 10% of a clue. and I went to a huge university (the psych classes were esp large which scared me away from the major) and like you, I started young (17- kinda ironic considering I'm the oldster now, I was always the youngest in school) and had a family who wasn't really college savvy (luckily I have been able to help out my youngest siblings with info gleaned from my many mistakes).

But if I ever do become faculty, I will make it my mission to seek out talented students from non-privileged backgrounds to mentor like your professor did. I think it makes a world of difference. This also gives me more motivation to get into grad school, to make this happen. Ok, now I'm all misty 😉

Seconded! I must say that part of my passion for graduate school is based on a desire for reform and mentorship. I'll keep my fingers crossed for the both of us.
 
:luck::luck:Hooray! I just got off the waitlist AND accepted to my first choice!!! Sending positive, lucky vibes to the rest of you in :xf::xf:waiting!!!:luck::luck:
 
i had no clue what the grad school process was like, not even 10% of a clue. And i went to a huge university (the psych classes were esp large which scared me away from the major) and like you, i started young (17- kinda ironic considering i'm the oldster now, i was always the youngest in school) and had a family who wasn't really college savvy (luckily i have been able to help out my youngest siblings with info gleaned from my many mistakes).

But if i ever do become faculty, i will make it my mission to seek out talented students from non-privileged backgrounds to mentor like your professor did. I think it makes a world of difference. This also gives me more motivation to get into grad school, to make this happen. Ok, now i'm all misty 😉

+1
 
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hey everyone.
So I've been reading the posts on this thread and am getting some comfort in knowing other people share my 'waitlist blues.' I have been waitlisted at my top choice and every day that passes is agonizing. My heart skips each time I hear the phone ring, but then I get depressed when I see it's just my boyfriend/parents calling. The worst part is that there is a thread on this forum dedicated to people deciding whether they want to attend the university where I'm waitlisted or another one. It's driving me crazy! Please choose the other school, so a spot will open up for me!
 
:luck::luck:Hooray! I just got off the waitlist AND accepted to my first choice!!! Sending positive, lucky vibes to the rest of you in :xf::xf:waiting!!!:luck::luck:


Congratulations!!!! Thank you for sharing yoga psych and keep your fingers crossed for me!!
 
I think it is REALLY important to consider the fact that by accepting an offer and then later declining it, you may well be burning bridges. The POI and program that you accepted are likely going to be angry because once you accept an offer, they will likely send out rejection emails to their alternates.

This is really important to keep in mind, especially considering you probably applied to work with POI's who had similar interests and who might even work or collaborate with each other. These are likely also the same people you will want to work with in the future, even if you don't go to school there. The world of psychology can be a really small place and you don't want to burn bridges before you even start!
 
Anyone receive an offer from Ball State? I'm on the waitlist and just wondering if anyone out there is holding it or accepting it.
 
I got into my first choice off the waitlist today!! :soexcited:

I seriously had completely written it off as impossible...keep hope alive, people...
 
I got into my first choice off the waitlist today!! :soexcited:

I seriously had completely written it off as impossible...keep hope alive, people...


Yayy congrats!!! Thanks for the reminder that these things DO happen.. I wish that would happen with my 1st choice.
 
I got into my first choice off the waitlist today!! :soexcited:

I seriously had completely written it off as impossible...keep hope alive, people...

yay. this is seriously good news! Thanks for letting us waitlistees know.
 
UMass Boston? Congrats!

Yup...😀

Thanks you guys...I'll be paying it forward and letting go of a spot at another school as soon as I get the 'official' offer (i'm scared of those horror stories people are always talking about if you dont get it in writing)
 
Those who are turning down offers, please let us know where, the type of program (e.g. clinical, counseling, PhD, PsyD), the date when you actually declined the offer, and if you feel comfortable, your POI.

please feel free to PM me instead of posting and I will update.

THANK YOU!
 
Those who are turning down offers, please let us know where, the type of program (e.g. clinical, counseling, PhD, PsyD), the date when you actually declined the offer, and if you feel comfortable, your POI.

please feel free to PM me instead of posting and I will update.

THANK YOU!

I turned down an offer for the New School MA (I know this isn't the MA thread but because New School has that weird thing where they force you to complete their MA before you can apply to their PhD I figured I'd post it here, since some people going the clinical PHD route apply here). Good luck to all the waitlisters!

I decline the offer by mail yesterday 3/22, no POI
 
I turned down an offer for the New School MA (I know this isn't the MA thread but because New School has that weird thing where they force you to complete their MA before you can apply to their PhD I figured I'd post it here, since some people going the clinical PHD route apply here). Good luck to all the waitlisters!

I decline the offer by mail yesterday 3/22, no POI

Thanks. I have also received some by PM. I will post those when I have a few more, updating my first post like other threads have done. I think a few folks already posted about declining offers, on this thread or another, I will try to add those if enough info was supplied.
 
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First alternate at Wichita State, my first choice. If one person turns down their initial offer, I'm in. They haven't had a year where at least one person didn't turn down an initial admission offer. With my luck, watch this be the year they all accept.
 
I will turn down my acceptance offer and assistantship at Chestnut Hill College the second I get an official acceptance letter from Long Island University. So, sometime later this week that'll be done, someone should hear from them next week. 😉
 
Hamster is in at Temple!!!! wow, it's such a surreal feeling.
 
Hamster is in at Temple!!!! wow, it's such a surreal feeling.

Oh my goodness!!!! Many, many congrats!!! I'm super happy for you Hamster. 😀 That just made my day. Now, I'm on to more waiting for my top choice to take me in...:xf: Can't wait to have that surreal feeling. I can just imagine...😛
 
I spoke with the DGS and he said this is the beginning of the time when a lot of movement happens on waitlists.

So I am expecting many more acceptances from waitlisted folks in days to come!!!
 
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OMG HAMSTER THIS IS WONDERFUL NEWS!!!!!!!!:soexcited::clap::highfive:
Congratulations and go celebrate!

I'm at work (no one here knows I'm applying so I can't share the good news yet) and it's so hard to focus on stuff. But tonight I will get a nice bottle of vino 😉
 
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