My fiancé was born in Singapore and lived there until age 18. His dad is a professor at NUS. His mum owns her own business. Both are PR but my fiancé never was.
And yet, he thinks mandatory army service is an affront to our right to choose as human beings. A human rights violation. I kind of agree on that - if they want to train for self-defence, why not integrate army training into primary/secondary/JC phys ed classes? The whole concept of being a slave for 2 years disturbs both of us as well as his parents and just about every foreigner I have spoken to at the American club.
I am open-minded, however, and am welcome to listening to perspectives. I have a lot of friends who were NSmen. About half liked it and half hated it. Those who hated it tend to be soft-hearted types who were ostracized for being warmhearted. They claim that it turns men into hard-hearted bitter machines who rat each other out and don't care about their fellow man. I'm glad my fiancé was never PR because he is the sweetest person ever, has the biggest heart, and I would hate to see that destroyed or hardened.
Please correct me if I am wrong. I admit I am a foreigner, and that I probably know nothing. I guess I will be educated when I get here, and I am open to that. I guess I'm used to living in the "land of the free" mentality. I see forced military as akin to slavery and abuse of a nation's citizens. I cannot help but see it that way from that perspective, and my fiancé was educated at the American school where foreigners as a whole unanimously despise NS. I do not mind living in Singapore as I love everything else about it but the military issue, which I see as avoidable if I just don't give my kid PR, go the same route as my in-laws did.