I feel like this is the thread where I can be a little more honest, so can I just say that all those pre-allo threads about how terrible it is to be a doctor scare the bejeezus out of me?
I have this feeling that for so many of the unhappy doctors, medicine ended up feeling like a step down from whatever they believed they deserved out of their life/effort.
I think that is because majority of the doctors come from privileged backgrounds where they never had to struggle with commoners problems -money-rent-place to to sleep and etc....., therefore they may think they are entitled to "things" and deserve instantaneous self gratification for any hard work that they do. I also believe that younger generations are more likely to bitch and whine. Not saying that this is wrong, but the world out there can be savage, cruel sometimes and NOT FAIR. I like to think about all the people that are born with severe illnesses that are incurable. In general America is country that has golden opportunities, if one cannot make in here, unlikely will make anywhere else. I am not saying that is perfect here, but we are very spoiled with opportunities. So easy to get a food stamp card for example. I think that people are more often worried about the financial gain than having pride in what they are doing. Not that it is wrong or right, just different perspective.
But for me, and I think maybe for a lot of nontrads, medicine would be a big step up from whatever we thought we deserved. Not just in money and status (questionable perks), but in terms of education, career opportunities, and relationships.Does anyone else know these fears?
Yes, I embrace my fears but I tend to look the bigger picture
For me becoming a doctor is a honor. I feel that I was "blessed" with a heathy body without any major debilitating physical conditions. I've grew up seeing oppressive poverty and violence which crumbles the human soul and make rational people commit irrational things in order to survive. I've seen people living in sub-human conditions, seldom seeing in the US . The education opportunities and etc.. that comes to physician are definitely perks, but my main driving force is to give back and create a better world. Off course I don't mind the perks, I am not hypocrite, I don't want to struggle financially and would like to have a nice living standard.
How do you know you could be a happy doctor?
Happiness is a state of mind more often than not, IMHO. Haters are going to hate, lovers are going to love, no matter what they do. there are always exceptions
I put together a lot of different pieces and it fits. But compared to the monolith of "Medicine is Miserable, Say Actual Doctors!!" sometimes it feels hard to hold together. What keeps you guys confident?
My heart