Happy Thanksgiving guys! I am thankful for the support and advice here, and for the two IIs I've received.
Story I thought you guys might enjoy from my recent interview. During the financial aid talk the aid officer starts off with, "I know this won't apply to many of you, but for the purposes of financial aid determinations you are considered financially independent from your parents at age X. If you are less than age X, even if you have been supporting yourself for years, are married with 3 kids, etc. your parents' financial assets will still be taken into account for aid determinations." An interviewee near me sighs loudly at the injustice of it all and says something along the lines of, "...but nobody THAT old is going to be starting medical school." Meanwhile, I am doing a happy dance inside as I realize I could possibly attend this medical school without messing with my parents plans for retirement/longterm care for my brother or covering everything with loans. I guess being older and having earned very little for most of my career is finally paying off
Also amusing was overhearing the conversation of a few current students/ recent graduates from the college I graduated from years ago. One student who had spent all of one year working was telling those still in college how much the "regular working life" had helped him mature. I avoided rolling my eyes, but did tell them that I'd also gone to the same college. They of course asked the year I graduated and when I told them one girls eyes went wide and she said, "I hadn't even started high school by then!" Oh well, I guess it's a good sign that I apparently look younger than I in fact am.
Edit (Sunday): And I just received my first rejection of the season. It's school close to home with strong research opportunities, so it does sting a bit. I was just looking to see last week how I could update them with a new paper, and saw they were one of the places that only accepted updates after extending students interviews. Oh well, you win some (hopefully), you lose some.