Geez, I'm gone for 24 hours and have to spend 20 minutes just catching up, forumfam!
I'm intentionally choosing to break some of the unspoken rules when it comes to attire. My plan is to dress professionally but to make sure I feel very comfortable with what I'm wearing. I may not wear a full suit. My hair will not be in a bun and it will not be straightened. Some of my tattoos might peek out. I might have some pet hair or baby drool on me. If a site disregards me because they don't like my outfit/shoes/hair/body art/monkey onesie then maybe I need to not be there because if they're super picky about physical appearance, I'm definitely not the best candidate for their position. I thank the gods every time I'm able to take a shower these days (#momlife) so perfection isn't even an option, here! I do wonder how much site selection determines what is appropriate for attire. I'm not on the UCC/VA/research track I see for a lot of folks on here and there are certainly some places where I think a suit would be much more of a requirement.
And FWIW, our DCT made a comment after mock group interviews one year that after seeing all of the students in black suits, she thought everyone looked the same. She and I agreed that wearing a shell/blouse/shirt with a color to set oneself apart was a good idea just to help interviewers remember who you are. Anyone have a neon green patterned blouse with an over-the-top ruffly collar I could borrow?