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Hello everyone,
I am a 29 years old URM pre-med who is a degree-bearer and came back to school for a second undergrad (I am pursuing a second degree instead of post-bacc because original degree is from overseas) due to a dream of pursuing a career in Medicine.
Here is the deal, however: I am not even halfway through my pre-med prereqs (currently taking Orgo 1) and I already feel as though I have no time for anything other than study+ECs. This is really getting to me because I have (somewhat) recently gotten married and am very much in love with my partner, and I want to be able to enjoy life with them. I am terrified that I will have no time for anything other than Medicine for the next 10 years, and even though this is the original dream, my partner is also my dream, and definitely my priority. I'm terrified of being 40 and looking back and feeling as though I failed to use the remainder of my youth to enjoy life and spend time alongside the love of my life. This has led me to start considering PA school as an alternative, since while it is not a walk in the park either, it is a shorter commitment than Medical school.
I guess I would really love to hear stories from people who have been through/are going through something similar, or people who have gone through with Medical school under similar circumstances or chosen PA school instead and how it has turned out for them.
Thanks in advance for any and all replies - I really need to talk to someone about this.
PS: My partner is totally supportive of whatever I choose, but I feel like the stress of the process does end up inevitably taking its toll, too.
I am a 29 years old URM pre-med who is a degree-bearer and came back to school for a second undergrad (I am pursuing a second degree instead of post-bacc because original degree is from overseas) due to a dream of pursuing a career in Medicine.
Here is the deal, however: I am not even halfway through my pre-med prereqs (currently taking Orgo 1) and I already feel as though I have no time for anything other than study+ECs. This is really getting to me because I have (somewhat) recently gotten married and am very much in love with my partner, and I want to be able to enjoy life with them. I am terrified that I will have no time for anything other than Medicine for the next 10 years, and even though this is the original dream, my partner is also my dream, and definitely my priority. I'm terrified of being 40 and looking back and feeling as though I failed to use the remainder of my youth to enjoy life and spend time alongside the love of my life. This has led me to start considering PA school as an alternative, since while it is not a walk in the park either, it is a shorter commitment than Medical school.
I guess I would really love to hear stories from people who have been through/are going through something similar, or people who have gone through with Medical school under similar circumstances or chosen PA school instead and how it has turned out for them.
Thanks in advance for any and all replies - I really need to talk to someone about this.
PS: My partner is totally supportive of whatever I choose, but I feel like the stress of the process does end up inevitably taking its toll, too.