You guys are missing my point. When you’re a new attending and have to pay back your loans this is obviously a different situation, especially yours considering you are paying off your loans over a short period of time. I am referring to the fact that the average household earns far less than 120k gross income so thus it is more than feasible to live a comfortable life on 120k net income. I just think the majority of physicians are out of touch with reality and what normal families live off of.
i think if physicians made 60k, the median household income, then no one would be physicians. you are ignoring all the other aspects of being a physician and only focusing on the money. well im required to be a certain distance from the hospital for call, this decreases where i can live, and its expensive around here. i also leave for work at 6am, which is pretty avg among colleagues imo, but far earlier than 'normal' families. i also get home at like 5 to 530 if not on ccall, and it is not predictable. this means i cant drop off my kid or pick him up, meaning i have to hire someone to do so unless my wife is available. im also on call on weekend and nights some times, wihch also means i need to hire coverage. i work way more than normal families, so i often buy takeout, and hire someone to help with stuff, childcare or grocery shopping etc.
basically my expenses are way way up bc of my lack of time as a physician. i make more than average but that came w 10 years of lost wages, a ton of loans, and less time even after starting job as attending, compared to your 'normal' families. i also qualify for NO government benefits despite being in tons of loans, and with no savings as a 32 year old.
a first year teacher in nyc is expected to make 73k, first year, and over 100k after 8 years. and they get lots of time off; pension and healthcare after retirement. meanwhile i may make 450k, but i work more, have way more debt, have no pension so i need to SAVE aggressively bc i started late to pay for my own retirement and own healthcare later.
most physicians who make it to attending, are not your 'average folks' in terms of IQ or work ethic or whatever. if these people worked in other fields, their median income probably wont be 60k either. most of my college/hs friends are in stem/finance, and i make pretty average among time, and my wealth is far far lower. if i had to chose a group to compare, why should i compare to avg americans and not my peers who graduated w me? why not go a step further and compare to rural africa then?