PhD/PsyD APPIC Internship Interview Invitation Thread (2019)

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SchoolSyke said:
Same! After 4-5 nights of great sleep it all reset last night -___-

24 hours until emails start trickling in!!! What's everyone up to today/tonight?
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Playing LEGO Harry Potter with my partner during the day and then drinking tonight with some people from our cohort. I think distraction is my my best bet today.

Good luck to everyone today! I can't believe we've all made it this far. What a ride. I definitely feel like we have created a little cohort of our own on here!
 
WisNeuro said:
I'm gonna put a plug in for some healthy coping strategies. How about a trip to the gym, or some board gaming? 😉
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Yeah, I actually am committed to engaging in good self-care strategies today because if this is what we teach our patients to do when they are distressed, then I would hope I could take my own advice! My plan is to meditate, do some weight training, cook/eat healthy meals throughout the day, read a new book that I got, and talk to some good friends/family.

I will echo the sentiments though that my sleep was absolutely horrible last night, so I can't imagine the torture that tonight will bring 🙁
 
I have prac from 8 to 4 and then class from 6 to 9; this is the first time I’m grateful for such a busy day it doesn’t really feel like my birthday due to the match preoccupation, but I am allowing myself to get some form of fast food on the way to class and another way I’m coping is just looking forward to the plans I do have tomorrow and Saturday. Hopefully match doesn’t ruin the excitement of those plans though haha
 
all of my kiddos are being avoidant of therapy today and I do NOT have the heart to chase them around (hard part of working where the kids live)...I might just abandon the effort and see them all for extra time next week...
 
I just kept dreaming last night that it was match day and that I didn’t get a match notification while seeing everybody here posting their results. And I kept waiting and waiting until it became more clear as more time passed that I probably messed up my rankings and I wasn’t included in the match. I wasn’t a fan.

I am going to read for pleasure today for the first time in a very long time. And then have some Thai food with my honey.

Still undecided if I will set my alarm in the morning or if I will just check whenever I wake up. I feel bad about waking my partner up so early.
 
My anxiety is turning into being ornery as hell and I have been giving my partner hell tonight (gently, though, I promise). We played Betrayal on the House on the Hill and
WisNeuro said:
I'm gonna put a plug in for some healthy coping strategies. How about a trip to the gym, or some board gaming? 😉
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I prefer to fight on the internet with an ornery old goat instead, thank you.
 
memedoctor said:
My anxiety is turning into being ornery as hell and I have been giving my partner hell tonight (gently, though, I promise). We played Betrayal on the House on the Hill and
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Betrayal is SO fun!!! I recommend the legacy version if you have a good gaming group.
 
laughingasong said:
Betrayal is SO fun!!! I recommend the legacy version if you have a good gaming group.
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Oh lol, I hadn't noticed the draft from my post last night was included in my response but I am glad you figured out what I was saying.
It's extremely fun, especially with a good spooky soundtrack. I will definitely check this out, thank you!
 
denimfan said:
Day drinking for sure....
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went through the annoyance of resetting my password to say, YES PLEASE ALL THE DAY DRINKING...but not too early because phone calls and what not. BUT AFTER THAT, YES ALL OF IT!

My boss who is the greatest boss to ever boss cleared her schedule for tomorrow (and effectively, my schedule for tomorrow) just so I have the space to celebrate/grieve accordingly LOL
 
Seven_Costanza said:
I just kept dreaming last night that it was match day and that I didn’t get a match notification while seeing everybody here posting their results. And I kept waiting and waiting until it became more clear as more time passed that I probably messed up my rankings and I wasn’t included in the match. I wasn’t a fan.

I am going to read for pleasure today for the first time in a very long time. And then have some Thai food with my honey.

Still undecided if I will set my alarm in the morning or if I will just check whenever I wake up. I feel bad about waking my partner up so early.
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Thai food is the BEST. I order Thai hot and they always ask “are you sure?”
 
WisNeuro said:
Tongue in cheek or half-serious, best to take this elsewhere and not derail this thread too 🙂
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Alright, I'll meet you by the flagpole at recess.

psydstudent2020 said:
Thai food is the BEST. I order Thai hot and they always ask “are you sure?”
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I'm ordering Ethiopian tonight and I'm gonna finish watching Russian Doll. That's my plan.
 
laughingasong said:
I decided to go to class. It just started two minutes ago and wow I can tell that this is going to be a waste of time......my brain is not here
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Yeah, it's incredibly hard to stay present and engage in anything that requires any degree of self-discipline or cognitive resources today. I keep trying to focus on my dissertation, but it feels absolutely futile. It's hard to find comfort in the fact that today will also pass when tomorrow could bring more of the same exact ****, on top of the sting of rejection. But I guess, theoretically, that will pass too. It's hard to find the right level of engagement with valued activities, which can feel extremely forced and more unrewarding than if we didn't even attempt them - and just leaning into our avoidance mechanisms. :-/
 
memedoctor said:
Yeah, it's incredibly hard to stay present and engage in anything that requires any degree of self-discipline or cognitive resources today. I keep trying to focus on my dissertation, but it feels absolutely futile. It's hard to find comfort in the fact that today will also pass when tomorrow could bring more of the same exact ****, on top of the sting of rejection. But I guess, theoretically, that will pass too. It's hard to find the right level of engagement with valued activities, which can feel extremely forced and more unrewarding than if we didn't even attempt them - and just leaning into our avoidance mechanisms. :-/
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This is actually a serious problem in that if I don't match, it'll be almost impossible to dredge up motivation to not only do phase II and do more interviews and start looking at back up plans, but also, i'll have to go back full force to some things that I have been putting off/avoiding.....even if I don't match, i'll still have to go back to those avoided tasks cause they have to get done eventuall!
 
Seven_Costanza said:
It’s not the correct heat unless I can feel my heartbeat in my tongue.
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This was at the point where I couldn't even taste what I was eating anymore. Not too mention the amount of napkins I needed for the snot.
 
Well after a long day of neuropsych-ing, I was going to go home and whip up some Trader Joe's frozen beef and broccoli, but DAMMIT, i'm getting takeout too!

Fighting the urge to sneak peek my 'match day' liquor. Be strong, girl.
 
All this talk of takeout hurts my heart...I wish we had good options near me. Ehthiopian or Thai sounds amazing but there is nothing near me and with the whole family sick I am too tired to make anything. At least with cold meds I may sleep okay right!?
 
Readyforavaca said:
All this talk of takeout hurts my heart...I wish we had good options near me. Ehthiopian or Thai sounds amazing but there is nothing near me and with the whole family sick I am too tired to make anything. At least with cold meds I may sleep okay right!?
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If it makes you feel any better I decided to toss in a frozen pizza instead.
 
WisNeuro said:
This was at the point where I couldn't even taste what I was eating anymore. Not too mention the amount of napkins I needed for the snot.
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On second thought, I think I'll hold off on the Thai tonight.

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psydstudent2020 said:
Anyone else have one of these going?
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Yes!!! Me too!!! This is like the hell version of christmas eve. Can I say that???

But seriously I wish the best to all of you here! I dont post often but I read all these posts and truly feel a sense of positive support and community. Ya'll make me happy to be a part of this field!! 🙂
 
I seriously lol’ed at some of these distraction techniques! Totally jealous of those that did some day drinking. I’ll be binge watching Russian doll with some wine as soon as I get my toddler to bed. Watching Frozen and eating goldfish crackers in bed with her because I can’t adult anymore today. ‍♀️

Tomorrow I’m taking myself for a massage after I drop the kiddo at school, and then have a nice dinner date planned with my husband. Tomorrow’s going to be a win no matter what.
 
GradStudent2020 said:
I seriously lol’ed at some of these distraction techniques! Totally jealous of those that did some day drinking. I’ll be binge watching Russian doll with some wine as soon as I get my toddler to bed. Watching Frozen and eating goldfish crackers in bed with her because I can’t adult anymore today. ‍♀️

Tomorrow I’m taking myself for a massage after I drop the kiddo at school, and then have a nice dinner date planned with my husband. Tomorrow’s going to be a win no matter what.
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You are doing parenting and life right! I had a sick toddler all day so it’s been Disney films and ritz crackers for the win! Maybe I’ll talk to hubby about a date night tomorrow too if my little is feeling better...
 
GradStudent2020 said:
I seriously lol’ed at some of these distraction techniques! Totally jealous of those that did some day drinking. I’ll be binge watching Russian doll with some wine as soon as I get my toddler to bed. Watching Frozen and eating goldfish crackers in bed with her because I can’t adult anymore today. ‍♀️

Tomorrow I’m taking myself for a massage after I drop the kiddo at school, and then have a nice dinner date planned with my husband. Tomorrow’s going to be a win no matter what.
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I'm on my second viewing of it right now, it's so incredibly good.
 
Readyforavaca said:
You are doing parenting and life right! I had a sick toddler all day so it’s been Disney films and ritz crackers for the win! Maybe I’ll talk to hubby about a date night tomorrow too if my little is feeling better...
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Ha, it doesn’t feel like winning but we are doing ok. One of my biggest stressors leading up to this has been thinking of daycare waiting lists in a new city! Hope your kiddo feels better!
 
Y'all, pase lo que pase; your algorithm came back weeks ago and stressin' won't change anything. Take some time to relax, grab a few drinks, and make a few irresponsible decisions (as long as they don't impact your future ability to get a license). Tomorrow is your first day toward becoming a fully functioning psychologist.
 
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