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HYPOTHETICALLY speaking, if my boyfriend and I decide to apply to the same med schools this coming summer (after our junior year of college), should we tell the AdCom we're engaged?
By the time we apply we'll have been together for almost 3 years. Now, while we currently want to go to the same med school (or at least to ones near each other), we don't actually plan on being officially engaged (obviously seems way too early!). The problem is that from what we've seen on a few SDN threads we don't think med schools would take our commitment seriously (and therefore probably wouldn't make any effort at all to admit both of us) unless they thought we were engaged or married.
I'm also slightly worried that it would look bad or weird to med schools looking at a couple that got "engaged" before they even finished college. Still, it seems like "pretending" to be engaged is the lesser evil here compared to having to end our relationship if we don't get into nearby schools.
What do you think? Thanks!
By the time we apply we'll have been together for almost 3 years. Now, while we currently want to go to the same med school (or at least to ones near each other), we don't actually plan on being officially engaged (obviously seems way too early!). The problem is that from what we've seen on a few SDN threads we don't think med schools would take our commitment seriously (and therefore probably wouldn't make any effort at all to admit both of us) unless they thought we were engaged or married.
I'm also slightly worried that it would look bad or weird to med schools looking at a couple that got "engaged" before they even finished college. Still, it seems like "pretending" to be engaged is the lesser evil here compared to having to end our relationship if we don't get into nearby schools.
What do you think? Thanks!