I'm a guy. The avatar isn't me. And women don't like bad boys inasmuch as real men who show confidence and power. Bad boys, above all, have these two attributes, so girls are naturally attracted to them. That doesn't mean women only like bad boys, but it does mean that you must exude a powerful persona for attraction to kick in. Being her bitch, her go-to-guy, her emotional tampon doesn't work, but this is the advice (in more flowery terms) that women always come up with. It's nonsense. They want a man, not a whipping boy.
Sankond, I'd never put up with it. I did when I was a teenager and thought that you had to prove love. Nowadays, I'd dump the girl on the spot if she was trying to **** with me like that. It's insanely obnoxious, and I'm neither desperate enough nor young enough to put up with it anymore. The problem begins, though, at the beginning of the courting. You somehow let her have the upper hand, where she knew that she could toy with you and you'd come crawling back. So she did. And did. And did. And eventually, she realized you were a doormat and got bored. She had conquered and it was time for a new conquest. Be thankful this happened now and not after you were married, but take a lesson home from this - you have to set limits early on. If a future girl ever plays mind games with you, you call her out on them and then either immediately dump her or cut off contact for a few days until she's begging you to come back and crying about how she'll never do it again.
