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Does anyone plan on bringing a spouse/significant other to an interview? Do certain places have programs for the spouse on the day of the interview?
i hear this is HIGHLY looked down upon...i forgot where i read it, it was either on the AAMC or ERAS or NRMP website. it was somewhere....medicine2006 said:Does anyone plan on bringing a spouse/significant other to an interview? Do certain places have programs for the spouse on the day of the interview?
I've seen this several times. It's too bad because these candidates usually seem like good people, but they just let their wives walk all over them.Roadrunner said:There's an interesting story that the PD at my school tells about spouses on interviews. That a few years ago there was a guy who was a really strong candidate and the program was already pretty interested in him before the interview. On interview day he brought his wife along and she was the biggest pain in the a**. She interrupted people, asked questions at inappropriate times, criticized what small call rooms the programs had, etc. Well, as you might predict, although the program liked the candidate himself they ended up not even ranking him because his spouse left such a bad impression.
Even if you think your spouse will be an asset in figuring out where to go, think long and hard about whether it's critical to have him/her following you around during an interview.
Chief Resident said:What if your SO is a hot young woman (who is mature and well-spoken), will the eye candy hurt or help your chances? I'm being serious with my question.
Only if you share your candy with others.Chief Resident said:What if your SO is a hot young woman (who is mature and well-spoken), will the eye candy hurt or help your chances? I'm being serious with my question.
Chief Resident said:What if your SO is a hot young woman (who is mature and well-spoken), will the eye candy hurt or help your chances? I'm being serious with my question.
LADoc00 said:I brought a hottie fashion model to a job interview, it was a long shot big money opportunity and I used her as a last ditch attempt to get the spot. The partners in the group bought her lots of drinks, flirted with her and the flipping job still ended up going to someone else anyway. She may have been too hot though, one of the partner's wives was getting all touchy feeling with her, I was getting the latent lesbian vibe from the whole thing. I dont think they asked me more than 3 questions the whole night, I realized 10 minutes into it, I had made a big mistake. My salary wouldve been double what is going to be this year, so I cried myself to sleep for month and vowed never to do it again.
medlaw06 said:Ahhh yes....only in LA man...only in LA!!