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Anyone have any clue what happened to the reddit mega thread? On my end I'm seeing that mods removed it?
oh wow that's what I'm seeing too. probably good for my mental health lolAnyone have any clue what happened to the reddit mega thread? On my end I'm seeing that mods removed it?
Anyone have any clue what happened to the reddit mega thread? On my end I'm seeing that mods removed it?
Probably bc I only have 10 interviews rn not 20 like some of you so Im able to get away with not having back to back and not sure why anyone should be actually going on 20+ interviews theres really no need
I guess I should have said for IM20 interviews, if you have them if very much considered an acceptable number to match in my speciality. Everyone I know is shooting between 20-25.
Surgical sub speciality. I wouldn’t say “there is no need” for prospective applicants searching the forums. Each specialty should look at chatting outcomes and determine 90% (95% even better) match thresholds for contiguous ranks.
I do.So do people not normally drink during meet and greets?
Just don’t drink so much that you can’t keep your composure.So do people not normally drink during meet and greets?
Nah I was legit having a nice sour just one. But everyone else was just sitting there. Made me feel kinda weirdJust don’t drink so much that you can’t keep your composure.
Like they weren’t even drinking water or a soda?Nah I was legit having a nice sour just one. But everyone else was just sitting there. Made me feel kinda weird
my experiences so far have been:So do people not normally drink during meet and greets?
I went to what was billed as a "casual resident social" and a good 3/4 of everyone was in button-down shirts or suits and on the edge of their seat. Honestly I hate these things.Like they weren’t even drinking water or a soda?
Don't have an answer but just wanted to say I feel similarly. After most of my interviews I've felt like they've gone decently well, I had ok/good answers, conversation went relatively pleasantly. But then I'm like....but that was it. It wasn't anything out of this world or anything like that. So I have no idea how to feel afterwards. And the worst ones are where they just start the interview with, "so do you have any questions for me?" after giving an hour long presentation that answered any question I could have had about the program.I went to what was billed as a "casual resident social" and a good 3/4 of everyone was in button-down shirts or suits and on the edge of their seat. Honestly I hate these things.
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Does anyone know what makes a good or bad interviewer? Honestly in all these little 10-15 minute interviews I feel like I give, hopefully, thoughtful answers to the behavioral interview questions but it all feels so janky. Like I can't say I had a warm conversation with anyone. Just a handful of prepared questions and on my way. Is this the norm? How poorly do you need to perform not to match?
That is exactly it! Its nice. Its pleasant. I say what I need to say, but I am sure everyone else is great also?Don't have an answer but just wanted to say I feel similarly. After most of my interviews I've felt like they've gone decently well, I had ok/good answers, conversation went relatively pleasantly. But then I'm like....but that was it. It wasn't anything out of this world or anything like that. So I have no idea how to feel afterwards. And the worst ones are where they just start the interview with, "so do you have any questions for me?" after giving an hour long presentation that answered any question I could have had about the program.
This is why I was saying in the other thread that I actually think auditions are important with virtual interviews. Idk how to stand out among hundreds of applicants for a few spots in a span of 20 min convos with a few residents and faculty. But with the programs I auditioned at theres a huge differenceThat is exactly it! Its nice. Its pleasant. I say what I need to say, but I am sure everyone else is great also?
I dont know how these people walk away from programs knowing "you are my number one!" or vica versa.
This has been every single one I've been on. Literally wearing the same things we wear during the interview minus the tie for the guys (including jackets half the time).I went to what was billed as a "casual resident social" and a good 3/4 of everyone was in button-down shirts or suits and on the edge of their seat. Honestly I hate these things.
Gross, everyone at the ones I've been to has been pretty casual thankfullyI went to what was billed as a "casual resident social" and a good 3/4 of everyone was in button-down shirts or suits and on the edge of their seat. Honestly I hate these things.
Mine have been bad too. Ive started playing this game when they ask us about ourselves, where I try and see who can come up with the craziest way to show they have a tie to the area. The winner right now is a kid who said his grandfather traveled through the area the residency was located and would tell his grandkids about it and since then hes always wanted to live there. Like it was some legend being passed down through generations..This has been every single one I've been on. Literally wearing the same things we wear during the interview minus the tie for the guys (including jackets half the time).
It's not a casual, relaxed thing when I'm wearing most of a suit and have lights on my face and nobody is drinking, y'all. It's more like being interrogated for a crime. 🤣
I will continue having my drink during them and acting chill, though. I am *not* going somewhere that I have to have a stick up my butt for 3 years
Oops i wear a sweatshirt and pajama pants and finish at least two glasses of wine lmaoThis has been every single one I've been on. Literally wearing the same things we wear during the interview minus the tie for the guys (including jackets half the time).
It's not a casual, relaxed thing when I'm wearing most of a suit and have lights on my face and nobody is drinking, y'all. It's more like being interrogated for a crime. 🤣
I will continue having my drink during them and acting chill, though. I am *not* going somewhere that I have to have a stick up my butt for 3 years
Only questions I really want to know are whether or not my quality of life will be good.The worst is every kid trying to ask a question that seems intelligent, but it's very obvious they are just speaking up for the sake of being memorable/seeming engaged/hearing themselves speak. If it's something you really wanna' know and can't Google, by all means, but it's obvious when people are speaking up for a "I spoke up too!" reason.
I hate these people. The people I've rotated with have ranged from stellar straight-through students with no work history, to non-trad students with multiple gap years and work histories, and everything in between. On the whole, those students who didn't experience real work life scenarios are definitely the type to complain about things.Only questions I really want to know are whether or not my quality of life will be good.
Meanwhile I turn to reddit and some M3 whose never held a job is complaining their classmates aren't "showing initiative" and creating scutwork for themselves to do.
Starting to feel like things are slowing down. Just looking at Thalamus and ERAS pretty much all interview slots are filled. I guess it depends on whether people drop appointments.Do interviews still roll in during November or are we pretty much set with what we’ve got 🥺
An attending had to ask me to run some paperwork to the pharmacy because the intranet was down. He apologized like 5 times. I was like bro I’m 37 and have had some really ****ty jobs. Running a piece of paper to the pharmacy is nothing.I hate these people. The people I've rotated with have ranged from stellar straight-through students with no work history, to non-trad students with multiple gap years and work histories, and everything in between. On the whole, those students who didn't experience real work life scenarios are definitely the type to complain about things.
Wait, what were the 60%ish match numbers you’re talking about?
Legit just got out of a social a few minutes ago (yes, I was typing the above during the social) where everyone was like this. Dressed up, sitting on the edge of their seat, asking "smart" questions.The worst is every kid trying to ask a question that seems intelligent, but it's very obvious they are just speaking up for the sake of being memorable/seeming engaged/hearing themselves speak. If it's something you really wanna' know and can't Google, by all means, but it's obvious when people are speaking up for a "I spoke up too!" reason.
Lol what. I ask those on almost every interview. I even ask the PDs about things they would change. What exactly is the point of this if we can't ask what we want to know.Annoyed at residents coming on the spreadsheets giving feedback saying applicants should not ask about negatives about the program. And the meet and greets are just there to sell you on the program and won’t say anything that needs improving. This whole process is just so full of malarkey.
apparently it signaling to the program that you are looking for negatives to rank it lower. Like what toxic Bs is this??Lol what. I ask those on almost every interview. I even ask the PDs about things they would change. What exactly is the point of this if we can't ask what we want to know.
I was the only one in my social chilling with a nice IPA in my hand listening to other people in button ups after canned interview questions. While I’m asking about the dope beer gardens and outdoor activities to do in the area. I’m blessed with enough IV to be self-selected out by the stale boring programsLegit just got out of a social a few minutes ago (yes, I was typing the above during the social) where everyone was like this. Dressed up, sitting on the edge of their seat, asking "smart" questions.
T-shirt and beer here, and when they finished circle jerking each other with statements like, "Playing off the last question, blah blah blah," "Similarly, blah blah blah blah," and "I'm so glad to hear that because (thing the resident was just talking about) is what I'm looking for in a program," I finally asked, "Not to ruin the serious vibe or anything, but how's the food?"
I'm gonna hold down the fort over here and ask the questions that really matter, kthnx. I learned everything I need to know because the program has much worse food benefits than the other IM backup I interviewed for on Monday, and I am not above making rank list decisions based on the food perks or lack thereof.
Id much rather interact with someone like you during a social lolLegit just got out of a social a few minutes ago (yes, I was typing the above during the social) where everyone was like this. Dressed up, sitting on the edge of their seat, asking "smart" questions.
T-shirt and beer here, and when they finished circle jerking each other with statements like, "Playing off the last question, blah blah blah," "Similarly, blah blah blah blah," and "I'm so glad to hear that because (thing the resident was just talking about) is what I'm looking for in a program," I finally asked, "Not to ruin the serious vibe or anything, but how's the food?"
I'm gonna hold down the fort over here and ask the questions that really matter, kthnx. I learned everything I need to know because the program has much worse food benefits than the other IM backup I interviewed for on Monday, and I am not above making rank list decisions based on the food perks or lack thereof.
That doesn’t make any sense lol. I want people to ask me what the negatives, how else are you gonna find outAnnoyed at residents coming on the spreadsheets giving feedback saying applicants should not ask about negatives about the program. And the meet and greets are just there to sell you on the program and won’t say anything that needs improving. This whole process is just so full of malarkey.
yeah Prelim/TY residents reporting back on the spreadsheets and reddit that we shouldn't. This is legit the question I ask at every program.That doesn’t make any sense lol. I want people to ask me what the negatives, how else are you gonna find out
Prelim/TY makes even less sense lol everyone knows you’re trying to find somewhere chill.yeah Prelim/TY residents reporting back on the spreadsheets and reddit that we shouldn't. This is legit the question I ask at every program.
Are you able to name these programs where the residents are saying this?apparently it signaling to the program that you are looking for negatives to rank it lower. Like what toxic Bs is this??
100% this, I have been asking about the food situation at every social. For the most part I’ve liked the residents and opportunities at every program but some are stingy with the food and that is no goodI am not above making rank list decisions based on the food perks or lack thereof.
Annoyed at residents coming on the spreadsheets giving feedback saying applicants should not ask about negatives about the program. And the meet and greets are just there to sell you on the program and won’t say anything that needs improving. This whole process is just so full of malarkey.
Me too. I have a different way of asking it but I ask the same thing, and I've been getting great answers from the PDs/interviewers. Most of them laugh first and compliment me on it being a great question. If I catch wind of this behavior related to somewhere I interviewed, it might just make me decide not to rank the program tbh.yeah Prelim/TY residents reporting back on the spreadsheets and reddit that we shouldn't. This is legit the question I ask at every program.
Seriously its a ghost town lol I mean it cant be over its like very early November but the spreadsheets look like December. Maybe its because less people are going on there because they have the majority of the invites they want so theyre less inclined to be bothered by the spreadsheets which is showing an underreporting?Do interviews still roll in during November or are we pretty much set with what we’ve got 🥺
Sound scary to me like you're doing in blind. Second or third class you can at least scope out, "How has administration responded to problems/resident requests?"What is everyone's thoughts about being in a new program? Like, first class?
What is everyone's thoughts about being in a new program? Like, first class?
What is everyone's thoughts about being in a new program? Like, first class?
This is the part that scares me. Like the program goals and location are exactly what I want, but the idea of not having seniors also worries me, because I feel like so much of IM learning is based on your seniors.Sound scary to me like you're doing in blind.