This is what you said above:
"I wish I was a URM so I had more time to slack off and then blame my lack of GPA on where I was born or where my parents were born. That'd be swell."
What makes you believe that URMs slack off then blame thei GPA on where they where born? It shows a lot of ignorance on your part.
I am also a URM. I dont believe URMs slack off. URMs have also served in the military like you did. Collin powell is a good example. We also work very hard but due to certain inequalities in socioecomic status, we may not always achieve what we want.
It's only anecdotal, but because I have witnessed it first hand, just as you've witnessed hard-working URMs who can't achieve what they want because of SES.
You're taking it personally because you are a URM, and if you'd read all of my posts instead of isolating one for your own purposes, you'd know that I acknowledged throughout that the military is
very diverse. How could it be diverse if there were no URMs? This does not pass a logic test.
You are writing your reply with a knee-jerk, gut reaction and it shows.
I was taking a multi-culturality class a couple semesters ago, and I remember Colin Powell (And oddly enough, Barack Obama) coming up in class. Almost without question, the African-American students sneered at the mere mention of his name, saying such things as, "That white-washed ni**er isn't even close to being Black."
As a black man yourself, Jasonbourne (The coolest white cat I know, btw!), I'd like to know why you don't feel like your brethren in my class, who find "white-washed" black folks to be "not black" due to their success and/or opting-out of cultural activities in favor of "white" ones.
I am quite sure it varies state to state, but in California, while it most certainly is not written anywhere, there is an expectation on behalf of URMs that, if they get pretty decent grades, they can "ride the system." Is every URM like this? Hell no, of course not, and nowhere did I say that EVERY URM "rides the system."
My contention is that there
should not be a system to ride. Like I've said, time and time again, I lived and played in the same ghetto, drug- and gang-infested place that hundreds, nay thousands, of URMs did, and do I get the same benefit of the doubt that they might in school with equal credentials to mine? Nah, 'course not, because people look at me and think "Hm, a white boy wearing a Ralph Lauren with Brooks Brothers shoes, he's gotta have rich parents" just like they look at a highly-achieving URM and say, "Man, that guy must've really pulled himself up by his bootstraps to get where he is today, I bet
his people are proud of him."
Don't believe that stuff is said? Spend 6 hours at just about any human services agency and you'll hear enough it'll make you SICK to your stomach.
Fact: High-achieving Whites have this expected of them, and when they don't achieve, something went wrong.
Fact: High-achieving minorities are commended, lauded, and down-right idolized (almost to the point of offending them). This doesn't apply to Asians, as they are "the model minority" and success is, too, expected of them.
I remember our instructor split the clase onto two sides. One side, she asked students who identified themselves as "white" to stand. The other side, you guessed it, had anyone who identified themselves as "minority." She then asked a series of questions, and the idea was, afetr each question was read, you stepped forward if you'd ever heard/experienced a thing like that in your life. When she read the question, "Someone in my life has told me that I make my people proud", almost without exception, minorities stepped forward, while not a SINGLE white person did.
Why is that, do you think?
Food for thought.