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This is my first time posting, but I have an upcoming interview and would like to get opinions on my interview attire.
First off, let me say the med school at which I’m interviewing is LGBTQ friendly, asking applicants their gender identities and preferred pronouns. On my application, in addition to acknowledging that I’m gay and talking about my interest in LGBTQ health, I put my gender as gender-fluid, which is as it sounds, I don’t nicely fit into one specific gender identity, but rather fluctuate between genderqueer and female (most often towards genderqueer).
So, my interviewer will be able to see my preferred pronouns are she/her, but with an open file interview, they can also see I identify as gender-fluid. Which finally brings me to my question. I would like to wear a tie to my interview, but am slightly hesitant it could be perceived negatively and I don't want to jeopardize my future over a tie. Still, I have consistently heard the importance of going into an interview feeling comfortable and confident, and for me, that means wearing a tie.
First off, let me say the med school at which I’m interviewing is LGBTQ friendly, asking applicants their gender identities and preferred pronouns. On my application, in addition to acknowledging that I’m gay and talking about my interest in LGBTQ health, I put my gender as gender-fluid, which is as it sounds, I don’t nicely fit into one specific gender identity, but rather fluctuate between genderqueer and female (most often towards genderqueer).
So, my interviewer will be able to see my preferred pronouns are she/her, but with an open file interview, they can also see I identify as gender-fluid. Which finally brings me to my question. I would like to wear a tie to my interview, but am slightly hesitant it could be perceived negatively and I don't want to jeopardize my future over a tie. Still, I have consistently heard the importance of going into an interview feeling comfortable and confident, and for me, that means wearing a tie.