Women cant do the same level of physical labor. Tell me a trade someone whose petite and 100 lbs can do lol.
All you're doing is enforcing elitism and proving my point you know. If you cant beat ridiculous odds and go into paywalled elitist education structure then screw you into the coal mines peasant is basically what you're saying lol.
Also do you know any working class people who have settled? Who had a dream and looked at the cost of education and the elitism and the attitudes your endorsing and said, there no place for me here ? And then entered into an extremely physically demanding and life threatening career they dont want because they feel they have no other options?
I suspect not because if you did you wouldn't be arguing that as some kind of better life choice.
You may have humble origins but you clearly have moved far beyond them and are quite out of touch with the reality of it. Or are completely in denial and using some pretty severe defense mechanisms to maintain this worldview you have.
I can't sleep and I'm sitting here thinking about unfinished intakes, notes, and treatment plans. Fun times. I know you asked to hear from women, I am a woman
. Anyway, I incurred 30 grand in debt in undergrad and another 45 in grad school. I will say my school (a non diploma mill, university based PsyD program) was partially funded. Tuition each year was approximately 25 grand per year, although the cost of tuition decreased as the program progressed; the program was 5 years plus internship, 120 credits and average cost of credit was 900 dollars. I had a graduate assistantship each year that covered 6 credits and then I received an additional 10 grand in funding each year. I chose to take out loans due to the fact I am a single mom and the intensity of our program did not allow for outside employment. So basically, with interest, I have about 90 grand in debt. I also have a doctorate. To me, this was worth it. I also had limited options due to my child and having to stay in the same area as her father. Since graduating in June, I have signed up for the PAYE repayment plan where my monthly payment is based on my income. Because of having a dependent and the fact I only made 27,000 on internship, my payments for the next year are 0 dollars per month. I choose to pay more than that, but I don't have to. With this program my payments cannot exceed a certain percentage of my income (I have to report my income once per year and my payments are recalculated). This percentage is 10%. Also, with this program my payments are limited to 20 years and then the rest of my loans are forgiven. Sure I would like to pay off all my loans sooner, but I am also ok with paying 10% for 20 years. I understand some people may not be ok with a similar situation, but I am. I also am aware that given the state of our country this program may not exist in 20 years. Unfortunately, that is out of my control.
I think it is ideal to try to achieve education without procuring debt, but unfortunately the situation in our country right now in regards to higher education is horrible and, as a previous post mentioned, more people are choosing trade schools as they offer a good salary without the debt of pursuing a medical degree, law degree, or PsyD. I personally did not use ONLY logic when making my decision to attend graduate school. We as clinicians should know people rarely operate only based on logic, otherwise we may not have a job! I love psychology and have wanted to be a psychologist since junior year of high school. Although my program was not perfect, it provided me with amazing training and the fact I received 14 internship interviews and matched at my first choice speaks to that in my opinion. Throughout my training, even through the most stressful times-and trust me there were plenty, I have always had an underlying feeling of joy because I loved what I was doing and knew for a fact I made the right choice. I may have been happier in another career I suppose, but I doubt it. To me, that feeling is invaluable and I don't regret my decision.
I am sorry you are not enjoying your first month of the program. I believe some of your concerns are valid, yet it has only been one month and things may change. I guess it depends on your end goal. Obviously good training is essential, but a lot of that depends on practicum supervisors and university supervisors. As someone mentioned previously, there are many ways to supplement your classes with outside readings and create experiences that may not seem readily available. Fully funded PhD slots are difficult to obtain and I don't like how sometimes the attitude of this forum is "well you should have worked harder in undergrad." Sure, maybe you should have, but also maybe a 3.6 GPA with research experience and good enough GRE scores should be enough to get a funded education; other countries are able to accomplish this feat. Something is very wrong with our education system and I see the anxiety and pressure daily of college and even high school students freaking out because every year the stakes are higher. Is that the way education should be? I personally don't think so. There also are shortages of mental health providers in many parts of the country, and while social workers do fill this gap to some degree, their training simply doesn't compare to ours. Additionally, psychological testing is really OUR field and something that is also very much needed.
Ultimately it's your choice whether you want to reapply to a fully funded program, whether that is due to financial reasons or simply disappointment in the training. My suggestion would be to be patient and speak with you DCT or advisor about your concerns (obviously don't go in guns blazing
). This is YOUR education and you are paying for it. It is unrealistic to think it will be perfect, but if it really isn't meeting your needs then 5 years is a long time to be miserable. But if the end goal is to become a psychologist, then maybe stick it out; only you can make this choice. If you do apply, there are associated costs for application fees and obviously a delay in time. I am sorry if you feel attacked or berated by some of the comments. Given that we are clinicians, or clinicians in training, I am sometimes shocked by the lack of empathy and cognitive flexibility on this forum. It could be that I am misinterpreting because one can't always accurately depict tone through written word, but I don't think I am. Life is a journey full of ups and downs and everyone's path is different. Some people are not ok with debt and others are. Some people think all PsyD programs are inferior to PhD programs and some people don't. I think match rate is a really important Stat to focus on bc at the end of the day you need an APA accredited program with an APA accredited internship. Good luck on your journey and I hope you choose to provide an update in the near future.
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